By Suzanne Macguire
Is the stress of your busy schedule driving away the pleasure of sex from your life? If yes, then there is no better solution than a warm up exercise in the form of an erotic massage. Erotic massage rejuvenates your tired senses, relaxes your nerves, and stimulates your erogenous zones. The most important component of a great massage is the desire to please your lover!
Before you begin, you need to master the art of erotic massage with some step-by-step warm up exercises guaranteed to turn your partner on.
1. Take a hot bath or soak in the Jacuzzi with your partner to loosen your muscles and to get you in the mood.
2. Use clean sheets or towels for your lover to lie on to perform your massage. Since you will be using massage oil, it could get messy. If you plan to have sex post massage, avoid oil based massage oil that can destroy the latex in condoms. Use water based solutions only.
3. Create a romantic ambiance by dimming the lights, burning some candles and incense, playing your partner's favorite relaxing music, and warming the room so that both of you will be comfortable.
4. Warm the oil in your hands first and then rub your hands together so that they will be warm to the touch. Try to keep your hands on your partner's body all the time.
5. Begin with the backside as you massage your lover face down. Then place your hands on your lover's lower back and let your hands glide up all the way up to the neck, around the shoulders, and all the way back down and over the buttocks.
6. Don't forget the feet which are a major erogenous zone. Take one foot at a time and smother it in oil, spreading it around the ankle, the heel and in between the toes. Then gently rotate every toe clockwise and anti-clockwise and finally slither your forefinger between each toe.
7. Turn your lover over and continue the massage by focusing on the stomach and chest or breasts. Rub plenty of massage oil in your hands and then put your hands lightly on top of the belly button, slowly sliding them up the center of your lover's stomach and around their nipples, then back down below the belly button.
8. Moving down south before you get to the sexual organs, you should massage the front of the legs and tease your lover as you massage the inner thighs gently.
9. Ice is nice to use on the inside of the thighs alternating with the warm oil to add more sensation and trigger sexual arousal.
10. Save the best for last by staying away from stroking the genitals until your partner begins to moan. This is a clear indication that you have been successful in delivering the ideal erotic massage.
Next... it's your turn to be caressed and stroked! If you are still unsure of the steps to follow or you want to learn advanced erotic massage techniques, you can get erotic massage training from a reputed love coach. Once you master the art, you can guarantee your love life will be hotter than ever before!
Suzanne Macguire is an expert writer with keen interest in human psychology, love, and relationship. Her recent articles cover a lot of information on love making tips. |
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