By Chris Johanson
The number one reason that women leave a man is cited as a lack of communication. But what does that really mean? It means that a guy is being given plenty of clues to what will satisfy her, but is still not understanding or doing those things. Women will very rarely come right out and say to a man, "You're not satisfying me in bed."
The reason is that it has been programmed into them by our society that...
A. It is sinful for a woman to want to enjoy sex
B. It is wrong to tell a man he's no good in bed because it will damage his male ego.
But my work with couples has convinced me that one of the biggest benefits of great sex is that it helps to keep a couple together. In plain English, if you aren't giving her what she wants and needs, she'll find it somewhere else. A woman has a right to be happy and satisfied just like a man.
There are 5 steps that every man should know to please a woman and without the 5 steps, you just won't be able to consistently satisfy her. Have you noticed your woman getting moody, guys? Does she seem a little distant? Maybe she isn't as excited to see you or be with you as she used to be and maybe she faked that last orgasm to please you, but that is wearing a little thin for her.
Better learn and practice the 5 steps to satisfying a woman, now!
1. In the mood.
A woman who is in the mood to make love will respond much faster and more easily and ultimately find more pleasure in sex. So stay tuned in to her and pay attention. When she sends you little signals, head for the bedroom. If she never seems in the mood, there are female libido enhancers that we'll talk about later and of course, just spending a little extra time getting her in the mood by being romantic won't hurt.
2. Make the Connection.
Don't just jump her bones. Spend some time looking into her eyes and talking to her in a soothing voice. Talk dirty if she likes it, whisper in her ears. Use your eyes, the windows of the soul, your voice and breath on her neck, ears, skin, and of course your touch, all over her body. Take your time and be gentle.
3. Clitoral stimulation.
Once she is relaxed and you sense the tension leaving her body, it is time to gently rub her clitoris with your finger. A little lubrication is a good idea. Experiment with different motions and find out what she likes best. For some it is a circular motion while others like side to side rubbing or up and down. Play with that little bump and get it excited until it swells up with blood.
4. G-spot, vaginal stimulation.
Next move inside and once again, if a little lubrication will help, go for it. If you do this right, however, she will soon be plenty wet and ready. Find the G-spot just inside her vagina and under the pubic bone. It feels a little rough, like the skin in your mouth right behind your teeth, the part with the little ridges. Use your fingers to rub that, starting slowly and gently but gradually applying more force. Try slightly different motions an areas until you get it right. Raise her to a fever pitch of excitement and make her have that vaginal orgasm.
5. The Big Key to satisfying a woman and keeping her with you.
This is the big key and a little known fact. There are many chemicals in your sperm that have a positive effect on your woman's mood. Did you know that? After driving her out of her mind with a clitoral and G-spot orgasm, immediately thrust inside her and have your own well-deserved orgasm.
You will be injecting her with powerful natural chemicals from your own body that will make her want to come back for more. Your sperm contains mood-altering hormones including Testosterone, Oestrogen, Follicle Stimulating hormone, Luteinising hormone, Prolactin and several different Prostaglandins. Studies have show that some of these hormones have been detected in a woman's blood hours after exposure to sperm. Not only that, the same studies showed that women who regularly had sex and received a sperm injection from their man, were generally in a better mood. This is one of the reasons that volume enhancers are becoming so popular with smart men who understand the value of their own sperm.
The bottom line here is that the more often you inject her and the more sperm you produce, the more you please her. Follow the 5 steps to keep her happy and she will stay with you and adore you no matter what else is happening in your lives.
Everyone has a right to happiness and confidence. To learn the secrets of pleasing yourself and your partner, go to http://topdogmenshealth.homestead.com/index.html |
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