By Howard Guy
One of the cornerstones of the concept of marriage for Christian couples and non-Christians across many cultures is that sex and marriage is a fundamental if not sacred thing. With this in mind very few marriages start sexless but many end up that way and while some claim that sex is just a physical action and can be divorced from love and a happy marriage they may not have lived as a person that has been rejected by their supposed lover and suffered the humiliation and loneliness of a proper intimate marriage which has to include enough physical intimacy to satisfy both partners desires; it is not called "making love" for no reason!
Marriage without intercourse is a cold, depressing and loveless thing and as nearly everyone who has been in the same situation will tell you the urge for infidelity becomes very strong not because they simply want sex but they want the closeness you feel when you engage in sexual activity. As these people will also tell you though an affair is not the right thing to do because a quick fling does not have that closeness only excitement which fades fast. If you love your spouse you want to make love to them and if you can not do that where do you go?
For many, they go to divorce court.
Not because they do not love their spouse but because they need to cut loose and find someone who can love them back. This is the last resort of course because any relationship that ends with you still having emotional ties to your ex has terrible repercussions for the next relationship. This in turn leaves many rejected spouses to make things so bad they are forced to hate their lover so they feel they can move on even though this is just a delusion!
So, a marriage without intercourse has very little chance of doing well or surviving because intercourse is just a scientific way of expressing an act which deepens and continues love on many levels leaving those longing for intimacy with two choices, a messy divorce or ... fix your sexless marriage!
Before you start trying to fix your sexless marriage however click below to discover the top 5 mistakes men and women make that just make matters worse! |
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