How Do I Talk Dirty to My Husband? - 3 Easy Tips!

By Deanna Raymond

So your question is, "how do I talk dirty to my husband"? First off, if you are uncomfortable with talking dirty please realize that it can be much, much easier than you think. Dirty talk is actually very normal and really can take your love-life to a whole new level of intimacy and passion. Remember that many couples use this type of talk regularly, so you are not alone in wanting to use erotic talk. I hope this guide can help you get started and it just may spice up things in the bedroom.

The first tip is this: sit down with your husband before you attempt dirty talk and have an honest and open dialog about what kind of language is OK. There may be certain words that he doesn't like (depending on how he was raised or other factors) and if you have this conversation before heading into the bedroom then you can avoid any awkward moments. Plus, it gets the ball rolling so you don't surprise your husband if you've never used dirty talk with him before.

Second, it is time to take a deep breath, relax, and let the words flow naturally. You want to be yourself and you don't want the words to sounds forced. Practice in a mirror beforehand if that helps you feel more comfortable. Remember that everyone has a naughty side and now is the time to tap into your inner "bad-girl".

The third tip is a great ice-breaker. Use compliments in the bedroom to make it easier to use erotic talk. Tell your husband what you like about his physical qualities or describe how you are feeling when he does certain things to you. Everyone loves a compliment and it really does break the ice.

The most important thing to remember is to have fun. If you follow these easy tips talking dirty to your husband should be more fun that you thought possible!

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