By Kat Williams
Ladies, do you currently enjoy having sex with your husband/boyfriend, yet think you would appreciate it even more if you could climax more often as a result of his lovemaking? You're not alone. In a survey taken of over 500 women by researchers Solot and Miller, only 6% of women were able to reach orgasm from intercourse alone. And only in specific positions.
There are many reasons why this is true. Men and women are wired differently both physically and mentally. Men often ejaculate long before the woman is satisfied. Not only that, many men use strokes more likely to bring him to orgasm than her. So does that mean we can blame all our problems on men?
No.
There are many things we ladies can do to improve the situation. We can communicate and tell him what motions feel best and bring us closer to orgasm. We can also resist the urge to "fake it". This only makes it worst because we are encouraging bad habits. Most importantly, we can train our mind and body to orgasm faster, stronger and more frequently.
How?
Time and time again, sex researchers keep reaching the same conclusion. That masturbation is not only the fastest and easiest way for a woman to reach orgasm, especially if she has never had one before, but in terms of physical sensation alone, masturbation produces the most pleasurable orgasm. But at this point you may be saying to yourself:
"That's great, but I want to reach orgasm by having sex with my man!"
Well here's the thing, studies show that women who masturbate often are far more likely to be orgasmic, even with their partners, than women who don't. Climaxing through masturbation trains you to climax through sex with your partner. An orgasm is a series of vaginal muscle spasms. The more orgasms you have from masturbation, the more you tone these muscles and make it easier for you to have orgasms during sex. So masturbate as often as you can...especially with a vibrator! Your ability to orgasm will increase and so will your sexual desire.
But sex is more than just running through a orgasm "to-do" list. You don't have to climax to enjoy the touch, feel and intimacy of your partner. But reaching orgasm will make both of you feel better. Not only are real orgasms good for your health and enjoyment, but they will do marvels for his male ego.
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