By Tom Starck
After you have induced a state of hypnotic self-relaxation concentrate on your specific sexual problem, assuming you have one. Ask yourself a series of questions. In answering them during your self-analysis stage of autohypnosis, try to develop some understanding of your particular sexual maladjustment. You will surprise yourself as to how much self-insight you can gain in this way, which will enable you to find solution to your problem
Remind yourself that you are a better lover than you think you are. Don't be obsessed with the idea that you don't have the ability to love. Learn to experience the emotion of love within yourself. You'll soon discover that you'll want to and can love someone else. Self love (the normal type) should precede man woman love.
Sex is something relationship experts universally agree will bolster just about every area of a marriage - including its thrill quotient. "Increased sexual contact," says Lopez, "is a way to recapture the erotic force that brought you together in the first place." Weiner-Davis tells of one woman who, soon after resolving to have more sex with her husband, not only characterized her marriage as more thrilling but said that he suddenly began mowing the lawn regularly and making her coffee in the morning - unasked.
For many women being a parent means a 24 hour workday that is completely devoted to the care, love and raising of a small utterly dependent child. By the time the child has dropped off to sleep a women is exhausted. This exhaustion is so complete that she is very sleepy even when her husband feels like having sex.
This sexless marriage feeling can also endure when the children are about 5 to 6 years of age. In these cases the demands made on the mother's time mean that she has forgotten about being a woman. She has turned into a mother absolutely and totally.
In this part of the marriage a women will need to have time to become a woman again for the sexless marriage part of the couple's life to disappear. This period of time can be very frustrating for the husband. If he has the patience to endure the setbacks to their marriage then the rewards are great.
The best way for a couple to turn a sexless marriage into a fulfilling marriage is to find ways of being alone. Baby sitters, quiet times together can help with the process of a couple becoming a couple again. At these times it is necessary for the couple to relax and let the day's stresses drain away.
The thing is sex sells. And girl kissing girl sells even more! Let's not forget the success the girls from TATU had. TATU's lyrics and videos allude to relationship between the two of them and the girls promote it during interviews. The Daily Mail (London) wrote: "Tatu degrades marketing and music at the same time."
So, is Nelly Furtado using the same marketing strategy as the girls from Tatu? Well, whether she is using this marketing strategy or not, she definitely is drawing lots of attention. Her songs are in top charts and that says it all.
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