How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex

By H R Miller

Married couples tend to talk about various things throughout the day such as bills, the kids, work etc. But rarely do they discuss the topic of sex. If you are presently unhappy in the bedroom then that is a sure sign that you need to have a talk with your husband about sex.

For a relationship to succeed you have to have an open line of communication and be able to talk about ANYTHING. Poor communication can destroy any relationship. As a wife it is your responsibility to openly communicate your needs and desires to your husband. If you don't you could be risking your happiness and your marriage.

Be very gentle

When you are ready to talk to your husband be sure to proceed with caution. Do not make your husband feel inadequate. Men take A LOT of pride in their ability to please their woman. Unfortunately it may not be enough for you. It is very important that you do bring this to your husband's attention. Do not flat out tell your husband he is not pleasing you. This will only create more problems. Instead make suggestions. Tell him new things you would like to try the next time you engage in intercourse.

Listen

After you say what you have to say it is very important to give her husband the opportunity to express his feelings and concerns. Be a good listener. Your communication has to be two sided. Remember this is about the both of you.

It is very important to listen to your husband because there may be a very good reason why he is not performing up to your standards. They could be stressing because of work, they could be feeling a certain way maybe because of a recent weight gain. Does your husband have medical problems? If so this could be the reason for his poor sexual performance. These are things you should take into consideration.

Give a gift or perform a gesture

If you are still unsure of how to approach this subject try giving a gift or performing some sort of gesture that could lead to a discussion about sex. You can purchase a pornographic movie or buy something sexy for your husband to put on. Anything that can help get the ball rolling and enable you to discuss how you feel and what you want.

Remember that having an open line of communication is very important if you want to have a healthy relationship.

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