How to Improve Your Sex Life by Being Spontaneous

By H R Miller

Would you like to improve your sex life? Of course you would. Being spontaneous can lead to an increase in interest and satisfaction. Unfortunately being spontaneous is often a lot easier said than done. Here are a few ways you can start being spontaneous.

Be the initiator

Stop waiting for you partner to initiate sex. You take the initiative. Many women wait for their husbands to initiate sex. Don't do that. I'm sure you husband would love for you to come on to him sometimes. If you want it go get it. Don't wait for him to make the first move.

Use text messaging

Most everyone has a cell phone these days. Send a text message to your husband or wife during the day. Send sexy and seductive text messages to each other. Tell your husband or wife what you want to do to them. This will make for some great after work sex.

Jump on your partner

If you have children in the house it can be a little harder to be spontaneous. As soon as you put the kids to bed jump on your partner. Literally! Don't sit down and relax. Show your partner that you have other things on your mind.

Have sex somewhere else

Having sex somewhere else other than your bed or in your bedroom is a great way to be spontaneous with your partner. If you have children you have to be very careful. Don't have sex in a place where you could possibly wake up your kids. Also keep the noise down. You don't want to have an uncomfortable or embarrassing situation on your hands.

Be creative here. Figure out places that would allow you to try new positions that you are unable to do in the bed. Consider the couch, the kitchen, the closet or somewhere outside of the home.

As you can see there are a number of ways to be spontaneous both inside and outside of the bedroom. Get started today.

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