How Do I Talk Dirty to My Husband - Fancy Putting the Lust Back Into Your Marriage's Fading Luster?

By Duncan Roberts

So you want to talk dirty to your husband in bed? If you have been married for some time and have never dirty talked before then getting started is the biggest hurdle. Once you get past those first awkward moments you can both truly start to relax and enjoy the openness and honesty that comes with talking dirty.

Good dirty talk is a bit of an art form and it does take some practice to become a true artist. However it requires is for you and your husband to be in the right mood and after that it should come natural. To get your husband's motor revving in bed tonight take note of these tips:

Create an Atmosphere
Turning your bedroom into a sexual room is important for getting you both in the mood. You should be setting the stage for dirty talk. This can include sexy sheets, lingerie, music and lightning with candles. There is a fine line between romance and sexy and a bit of both doesn't go astray.

Teasing is Good
Men love to be teased and your husband is no different. Talk dirty to him by telling him what you plan to do to him, but don't do anything yet! Make him want you and make him feel special and sexy. Once you get the praising stage out of the way you can move into the stage of real dirty talk!

Let Him Know What You Want
This is an important step but you don't necessarily have to be overly raunchy here, it depends on your comfort level by this stage.

Make Him Tell You What He Wants
This is where you encourage him to talk dirty! Ask him how he wants to be touched and where and give him a sexy, sly smile that tells him you know what he wants. This will drive him wild!

The above four tips will greatly assist you in relaxing your husband in bed and making you both comfortable with dirty talk. Once he is open and honest in his bed time dirty talk you can step it up a notch until it is at a level that you both love. Remember to use various words to describe actions and body parts. The words need not be overly rude or crude, just say what comes natural! Once you are totally comfortable in bed with each other with this new language, your sex life will take off into a whole new realm.

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