By Misty Ruttan
Sex: when it's not her first priority:
You have the girl; however she's not letting you really have her- as in she's got sex on the back burner. You need to know how to get it in the now; and make her want it now. For some reasons all her other problems cloud this, and you are left hanging dry and stiff. A common problem among couples is prioritizing their sex life aspects from the other parts in their life; and the fact is most women end up doing other things and getting so wrapped up in their emotional dilemmas; that sex just becomes a turn off for them. Oddly enough that it should be a turn on, and you have tried endless amounts of time; here is what you need to do to get her priorities to the bedroom:
Help her- of course this isn't every man's first choice; and some things you cannot help her in. if the chores are building up; or the kids have this and that- help her so that her time becomes free; or she doesn't feel as much pressure to do them anymore. When she is not concentrating solely on that; and sees you are behind her supporting her physically as well; her attention will turn to you, and your actions; and she will be reminded of the passion. This doesn't mean you have to do the entire housework, and take over her job, it means to make her notice you; help her out. If she doesn't let; or you don't have the willpower to do such ( I know male ego), then at least convince her that it can be put off... and you can relieve her stress- not only temporarily, but permanently.... Although don't make her feel like you don't understand her, and just want sex...
Ask her- well hey; ask her what she likes about herself; and next be sneaky, and slip in the question what she finds attractive about you. Spend some time- take a date with her; so she doesn't have to work, and can concentrate entirely on you; tell her what you love about what she does, and next move to the looks and so forth. Make her feel appreciated all around; and ask her the same about you, she may respond with what you do; however redirect her to more sexual tones- but very subtly. Remind her that you are still the man, and she is this hot babe; have her rediscover for herself just how much of a god you are in bed, and outside....
Feel her- when you are on the same emotional level as her; in terms of when she is sad, you understand- and she feels as if you feel her emotions. Women want this; and they want someone understanding- yet still controlling the situation. Men are not as emotional as women; however understanding her emotions will help her become closer to you; women become sexually drive mentally first; and many women cannot orgasm just because of mental barriers. The best ways to get her to have the sex drive matching yours; is to first match her emotions; and have her feel understood. Women are emotionally attached to sex; so she has to feel a strong emotional connection before she may consent.
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