By Misty Ruttan
Believe it or not, but being shy is actually a common issue when it comes to sex; for both man and woman. However many people still want to explore their naughty side when it comes to their sexual appetite; more so when it comes to the place to "eat". The fear of getting caught combined with insecurities in self esteem stop most from being adventurous in their sex lives. Here is how you can get the courage to have your fantasies wherever you wish:
Know- if you are afraid of getting caught; find a place, and a time when you know no one else will be around. Most of the thrill comes from actually being afraid of that; however that also inhibits many from pursuing it as well. Also be aware if your partner wants to as well; discuss it with them, so as to not force them; although the chances are that they want to as well. Plan it out, when and where; if you want to do it somewhere public- or even still somewhere that is not your bed. However once you are into the action, don't be so specific on what needs to be done, because the sex becomes more like a lecture sit in; than actually pleasure sit in...
Confidence- well firstly, you need to be confident that you can do it; and more so confident in yourself to overcome your fears. Wondering how to get some confidence? Part of this comes with self esteem; gaining self esteem means to love your body and so forth- so that you aren't ashamed of it. If you look at yourself daily, and tell yourself something you love about yourself, and why; and look at your partner and say the same thing about them daily; eventually this list will increase and you will appreciate them and yourself more; thus it will be easier to be confident to have your pleasure outside of the norms.
Decision- well the last step would be to make a decision. Going for it, but then getting too scared to do it once there; will be a total turn off; and you will be embarrassed even more afterward. Either go for it; or don't. Being on the fence makes the experience far less than it can be, and will ruin your adventure more. Knowing what you want to do where; and going for it, without questioning or doubting yourself during; allows it to run more smoothly, but again you must be confident in yourself for this to happen.
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