By Misty Ruttan
It's the most untrue, and common myth, that women and men should have a simultaneous (at the same time as her) orgasm with their partner to be fulfilled; however in reality it's the utmost turn off.
Although women do want similar timing; consider that women can actually have multiple orgasms, whereas men cannot; so it's not physically that possible. It is also not appealing to women; why? It's simple:
Multiple Orgasms: well as mentioned; women can have many during one round of sex... so for us it's not about you arriving at the same time; it's about arriving on its time. What a woman doesn't want; is too soon; or too long. Consider too soon; means she cannot climax properly; and too long means if she has already climaxed, or even a few times; it becomes painful for her after; and she will start associating pain with sex. Its logically not possible such a thing to have simultaneous (occurring at the same time); and if this were so; it completely leaves out the possibility of multiple orgasm; which every woman wants to ultimately achieve.
No woman or man wants to feel that sex is a duty- trying to achieve simultaneous (occurring at the same time) climaxes means that it's more duty than pleasure. No one wants to take work home; just the same no one wants to make sex work; it becomes a mental barrier that both partners think of then; and actually distracts them from enjoying and experiencing sex while it is happening; and both of you will feel deprived then. It's not a duty to have the same times; people are all different; and as said in one; it's leaving out the important factor of a woman's climax abilities. Making this a duty is setting a limit on the sex; and creating mental barriers and pressure so that the sex actually becomes undesirable over time. Consider it this way; you don't want her thinking about how many chores she has to do, and talking about that during sex; just the same she doesn't want that from you...it's the utmost turn off...
Climax times can be different; however it is good to have similar times; more so, so that she is done when you want to be done. Its better to let her finish before you; because once you finish there will be no more finishing for her. If you make her climax sexually first; she will get a deep connection with you, and feel much pleasured; this will keep a constant desire from her end for you afterwords as well; since she associates pleasure, and many emotions she will be feeling about you with sex. Sex for a woman is emotional connection as well; so keeping this connection is the best; and the best way to do that is to make her climax always first.
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