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September 14, 2008

Shocking Sexual Misconception - Why Having an Orgasm at the Same Time As Her is NOT What She Wants

By Misty Ruttan

It's the most untrue, and common myth, that women and men should have a simultaneous (at the same time as her) orgasm with their partner to be fulfilled; however in reality it's the utmost turn off.

Although women do want similar timing; consider that women can actually have multiple orgasms, whereas men cannot; so it's not physically that possible. It is also not appealing to women; why? It's simple:

Multiple Orgasms: well as mentioned; women can have many during one round of sex... so for us it's not about you arriving at the same time; it's about arriving on its time. What a woman doesn't want; is too soon; or too long. Consider too soon; means she cannot climax properly; and too long means if she has already climaxed, or even a few times; it becomes painful for her after; and she will start associating pain with sex. Its logically not possible such a thing to have simultaneous (occurring at the same time); and if this were so; it completely leaves out the possibility of multiple orgasm; which every woman wants to ultimately achieve.

No woman or man wants to feel that sex is a duty- trying to achieve simultaneous (occurring at the same time) climaxes means that it's more duty than pleasure. No one wants to take work home; just the same no one wants to make sex work; it becomes a mental barrier that both partners think of then; and actually distracts them from enjoying and experiencing sex while it is happening; and both of you will feel deprived then. It's not a duty to have the same times; people are all different; and as said in one; it's leaving out the important factor of a woman's climax abilities. Making this a duty is setting a limit on the sex; and creating mental barriers and pressure so that the sex actually becomes undesirable over time. Consider it this way; you don't want her thinking about how many chores she has to do, and talking about that during sex; just the same she doesn't want that from you...it's the utmost turn off...

Climax times can be different; however it is good to have similar times; more so, so that she is done when you want to be done. Its better to let her finish before you; because once you finish there will be no more finishing for her. If you make her climax sexually first; she will get a deep connection with you, and feel much pleasured; this will keep a constant desire from her end for you afterwords as well; since she associates pleasure, and many emotions she will be feeling about you with sex. Sex for a woman is emotional connection as well; so keeping this connection is the best; and the best way to do that is to make her climax always first.


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