Kama Sutra Massage

By Steve Hill

A Kama Sutra massage can be both relaxing and pleasurable for a man and a woman. Massage can be the best foreplay when it is intended to lead up to sexual intercourse, or it can be done in place of sexual intercourse to experience each other in a sensual way. When Kama Sutra massage is done for the purpose of being a sensual experience, a couple can feel closer and more connected than at any other time in their relationship.

The first thing you should know about Kama Sutra massage is that the person giving the massage needs to know that it will not be reciprocal. At least not at that time. The person giving the massage will need to be content with knowing that they are giving pleasure to their partner and the giver must be just as satisfied in giving as the receiver is in receiving. This is very important in order to establish the connection between the two of you that Kama Sutra massage is intended to establish.

Kama Sutra massage should be very slow and deliberate while the receiver concentrates on relaxation, breathing and enjoying the experience. Massage oils should be used to provide a smoother gliding motion of the hands and to heighten the experience. The massage should start on sensual, but not sexual parts of the body. Start by gently massaging the face and neck, move down to the shoulders and chest, then down the sides of the body. Pass the genital areas for now and slide hands completely down the side of the body to the feet. Spend some time massing the feet as this is a very sensual and loving act. Then move up the inner calves and thighs, taking your time to add excitement. Remember to remind your partner to relax. Then finally at the genital area, slowly massage all parts of the genitals, ending at the erogenous zone.

Kama Sutra massage may result in the receiver having an orgasm and that is okay, but that is not the intent of the massage. The intent is to bring a couple closer in an emotionally loving and trusting way. If the receiver is about to have an orgasm, however, stop what you are doing and move the massage away from the genitals for a few minutes to let the receiver relax again. Then start over. Hold off on allowing the receiver to come to orgasm at least five or six times. Then when you do allow it, it is sure to be an orgasm that they will not soon forget.

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Sexual Seduction Techniques - Use Animal Magnetism to Seduce a Woman, Even If You Don't Have Any

By Rob Dev

You can use your animal magnetism to successfully seduce a woman. In this case, we are referring literally to the animal kingdom. We all learned in school how animals attract a mate, and we all probably remember those lessons very well. The main thing that we have forgotten from our school years is that we, too, are part of nature. We can easily take those lessons from the animal kingdom and apply them to our sexual seduction techniques also.

Please remember that in our case, it is not just the male of the species that wants sex. Women enjoy sex too! It is a simple fact that we are programed by nature to be the seekers and the female to be the selectors. In short, women tend to be more selective.

We all know about the little dances and flashes of color that the males of most animal species do, it is time for you to do your dance and flash your color, metaphorically speaking.

Let us look at the baboon for example. Baboons become nervous and shy when they encounter a potential mate. If we were to use this as an example, then we would strike a balance. Signal that you are moved by her presence but exude confidence as well.

Stand up straight, chest out, keep eye contact, but maybe put your hands in your pockets once in a while just to show a little bit of nerves. This dose of humility could be exactly what you need to help you get to the next phase.

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Sexual Seduction Techniques - Get Over it and Talk to a Lot of Women

By Rob Dev

Here is the thing that most people will not want to hear. If you want to be a successful seducer, you have to practice a lot. You have to talk to a lot of women to get good at it. When I worked as a real estate agent many years ago, I was not very good at it for a while. I was terrified of doing the things that I knew I had to do in order to achieve success. One of the things I would have to do it knock on peoples doors and ask if they wanted to sell their house. If you think talking to girls is hard, try doing that for a living.

After a while, though, I got very good at it. Of course, no one ever told me yes right at the door. When I say that I was getting good at it, I mean that if they did not slam the door in my face, I was ready with a response to their objections.

Its the same with talking to women. At first, you might not know what to say, but if you do it enough you will eventually get good at it.

If she does not automatically shut you out, then she is really inviting you to offer some more conversation. She wants to see what you have to offer, then you can use some of the techniques that you have practiced and work up to what I call the talk to touch transition.

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Ultra Rare Sex Secrets About Women - This is Something You Should Not Miss at Any Cost

By Pushpa Pal Singh

There a lot of secrets about females and sex which a lot of men out there do not seem to know. You see knowing these secrets would make you not only effective in bed but you would be able to satisfy women in ways they have never imagined before. This is probably the major reason why you must know this at all costs. Read on to discover what these secrets are and achieve earth shattering results using them........

They would like you to take it slow- Slow is the way to really go for it when it comes to turning a woman on in bed. You should take it slow and slender and let things build up with time. One of the biggest turn offs most women complain about is that a lot of men out there rush through things which normally kills the passion. Therefore learn to take it as slow as possible.

They love to get teased- This is one thing almost every girl out there completely loves. They have a few trigger points all throughout their body and once triggered you will be able to drive her completely wild and she will be able to experience extreme pleasure she has only dreamed about.

Learn to run the long race- Again one thing most women complain about is that they always say that men are not able to last long enough in bed. Women take longer than men to achieve an orgasm due to which they expect you to last long enough. One of the best possible ways to last long in bed is to masturbate several times before sex as that turns down your level of anxiety and anticipation which will automatically help you last longer in bed.

What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Do you know there are some secrets women don't want men to know but you absolutely must know these secrets in order to succeed with women? Read on to discover 9 most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to know. This is something you can't afford to miss at any cost click here- Tell Me The Secrets.

The 3 Biggest Oral Sex Mistakes Men Make

By Nick Lombardi

Why should men be concerned with providing oral sex for their wives? Because only 35% of women are able to climax from intercourse alone. On the other hand, up to 60% of women can climax from oral sex. If oral sex is performed correctly, the percentage of women who can achieve orgasm soars. If a man wants to satisfy his woman, then he needs to master the art of oral sex.

The problem is that most men do not understand how to give oral sex to a woman. There are three big mistakes men make when giving oral sex to women. To understand these mistakes, men must understand their women - particularly their women's most sensitive area: the clitoris.

The clitoris has more sensitive nerve endings in one pea sized area than a man has in his entire genital area. Where men need a harder touch, women need relatively microscopic movements to achieve the same feeling. Because men's genitales are out and exposed to rubbing against clothing and dry air, they are relatively tough and need harder stimulation - on the other hand, women's genitales are protected and generally not touched by clothing or air, so they are sensitive. This is another reason women are so sensitive on their clitoris and why they have different needs from men during oral sex. But men don't understand this, so they do what would feel good to them, which has the opposite effect on their women. This leads to the mistakes men make with oral sex:

Mistake Number 1: Too Intense. Many men like intense repetitive touch; so they automatically think women will like intense touch during oral sex. To feel what this might be like for a woman, take your tongue and repeatedly rub the roof of your mouth for 30 seconds. Notice that the roof of your mouth becomes raw and numb. A woman's clitoris is 1000 times more sensitive than the roof of your mouth - so straight repetitive touching like this during oral sex will be unpleasant for her to say the least.

Mistake Number 2: Not Listening. Mistake number two men make when giving oral sex to their women is that they do not listen to body language. When you are down there, you may notice her put a little pressure on one thigh or the other - or she may tilt her pelvis one way or another. During passionate moments, these movements are often misunderstood as "press into me harder". But in fact, what she is doing is directing you. The movements are small, so be on the lookout for them - the reason they are small is the area being stimulated and surrounding area is small. Very slight movements in position or angle can have a huge effect. So - you stay still and let her position herself where she wants. Just know this: if in fact she wants you to go harder or deeper, she will let you know.

Mistake Number 3: Unshaven Face. This one is a no brainer, yet many men make this mistake. Men need to shave before performing oral sex - make it close and make it clean. Men don't like sand paper rubbed on their parts - and women don't like it either. If you have a goatee or a beard, then be sure not to trim it on a day you may be with your woman. Freshly shaved whiskers are like little sharp daggers. Additionally, wash your face and beard, then use cream rinse on it to make it as soft as it can be. She will appreciate it!

Avoiding these mistakes when giving oral sex to a woman will increase her pleasure immensely; her chances of having an orgasm during oral sex will be greatly increased; and she will want to be satisfied again and again. Men who learn the right oral sex techniques can become magnates for their woman's desire and sex drive.

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How to Cope With Gender Dysphoria

By Mike Selvon

When someone feels uncomfortable or unhappy with his or her physical sex, the result is gender dysphoria. It often manifests in children as young as two to four years of age as a desire to be, or a belief that he or she is of the opposite sex. A boy may engage in girlish behavior, playing with dolls or wanting to wear dresses.

A girl may want to wear boys clothing, want to engage in rough play, and often is considered a tomboy. Sometimes the feeling of having the wrong physical sex will continue into adolescence. A transgender teen will feel increasing discomfort, even disgust with his or her body as sexual development begins. These feelings and behaviors are considered symptoms of a gender identity disorder.

Many in the transgender community dispute the notion that non-conformity with traditionally accepted gender roles is a sign of a mental disorder. Many children grow out of gender dysphoria, and come to feel comfortable with their gender, but are identified as homosexuals.

Some teens try desperately to fit in with their socially defined gender roles. This may cause them great emotional distress. Those who object to the idea of a gender identity disorder point out, particularly in the case of a transgender teen who may be exploring his or her sexual identity, the idea that they may have a mental illness and this reinforces the notion that "different is bad."

Often a transgender teen will continue to suffer gender dysphoria into adulthood. They may feel that they are a man trapped in a woman's body, or vice versa. Such persons may decide to seek transgender therapy. If so, they will get psychological counseling, and be treated with hormones so their bodies will take on the appearance of the desired physical sex.

They may go on to have sexual reassignment surgery. Before receiving transgender surgery, they will usually be required to live as a member of the desired physical sex for a period of time, usually a year to two years.

The feeling of being trapped inside the body of the other sex causes great emotional pain. Many feel pressure from family members to conform to traditional gender roles. A transgender teen may suffer from harassment, which compounds the problems caused by gender dysphoria.

Transgender therapy is available for adults who seek to have their physical sex match their gender identity. Those who choose to have transgender surgery often feel that their bodies finally reflect who they really are inside.

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Give Her a Loud Orgasm She'll Talk About For a Week - A Girl's Guide to Better Female Orgasms

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to address a question that comes up A LOT on different blogs, forums and mens' health websites: How do you give your girl a LOUD orgasm? The truth is that the volume of her voice is going to be dependent on a few things...some WITHIN your control, and others without! (although you CAN help them along a bit for sure!) So continue reading as we cover a few quick and easy things you can do to help YOUR girl have the kind of loud and SEXY orgasm you ( and she..:-) are HOPING for! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: I'm (NOT) laughing on the INSIDE

Ever hear that line about the JOKE that was so funny that you are LAUGHING on the inside? We all know that doesn't happen REALLY often now, does it? It's the same thing with women, and orgasm. If you can't hear her...or if she's SO quiet that it seems like she's probably NOT enjoying herself, the simple truth is that she probably isn't. I know some women tell their boyfriends and husbands that they are simply quiet...but it's not 100% true. An orgasm is LARGELY an involuntary physiological response to EXTREME pleasure, and other involuntary responses typically involve sound!

Tip#1: The Secret of Sexy Speak

Keep the conversation spicy. I don't care how QUIET she is, if you keep her talking, mumbling or murmuring even..she is GOING to get louder as she gets more physically aroused. The key is to NOT allow there to be a disconnect between her mind and her body - which, quite frankly a woman who is unusually quiet during sex is most definitely experiencing. (of course this COULD mean you simply are NOT turning her on either!) The EASIEST way to remedy this is just to keep talking to her...MAKE her become verbal during intimacy and WATCH as the changes take place in a hurry!

Tip#2: The Amazing Allure of Ambiance

One of the things that so many women feel is neglected during sex is the atmosphere or erotic tension. You can CREATE this fairly easily simply by being more passionate about sex than you currently are. Wine, music...even romantic food and other rare expressions of sexy suaveness are a HUGE turn on for women, and considering that MOST of us consider our MINDS the most erogenous organ in our bodies, once you stimulate this properly....the rest will come VERY easily, I promise! Make her FEEL turned on BEFORE you get into bed and the volume of her actions ( and her voice!) will reflect the amount of orgasmic energy you HAVE unleashed!

And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-) Click Here --> to Learn to Give Your Girl an Orgasm SO strong She'll scream your name in her Sleep!

Four Easy First Time Orgasm Techniques - Help Her Have Her First Orgasm With These Simple Tips

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to look at 4 really easy ways you can help YOUR girl have her very first orgasm. If you know anything about women and sex, you'll certainly recognize the HUGE importance that we place on having on orgasm. Of course that is important, because men RARELY think OUR satisfaction is as important as theirs. But if you are one of the men who enjoys the thought of giving a girl her first orgasm, in my experience, these simple top tips will help you on your way! Read on.

Tip#1: Learn the Landscape

It's important to understand HOW a woman's body works to truly help her have an orgasm. If you don't - you can either ASK her, or, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you want to simply read up on the OUR bodies! (and I'm not talking about Playboy here, either. If you know what works in which way, you are FAR more likely to show it between the sheets.

Tip#2: Embrace the Adventure

One of the reasons many women NEVER orgasm is because sex just isn't exciting. Most women are FAR more erotically adventurous than men, and if you are willing (and able) to show her you you aren't the same old simple routine, her BODY is much more likely to come along for the ride. This is especially important for women who NEVER have had an orgasm before during routine intimate encounters.

Tips#3: Establish an Erotic Emotional Bond

For her FIRST orgasm ( as well as HOPEFULLY all of the ones thereafter!) you are going to want to show her you CARE about her intimate enjoyment. I always recommend to my male readers that they talk to their women during sex...and NOWHERE is this more powerful than before her very first orgasmic experience. Remember, women are MUCH more emphatic during sex, which means we "feel" words more deeply than our male counterparts. Very easy way to turn her on beyond belief!

Tip #4: Patience is a Virtue

Her first orgasm is most likely NOT going to happen in a fire storm of spontaneity. Most likely, you are going to have to take your time and be patient as the orgasmic anticipation intensifies...and she goes through the various states and stages that go with it. Without any question, one of the BIGGEST reasons most women do not have regular orgasms during sex is a simple function to time. As in - not enough. The slower you are, ESPECIALLY for her very first time...the LARGER the rewards are going to be!

And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight... and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man... that much I know for sure..:-) Click Here --> to Learn to Give Your Girl an Orgasm SO strong... She'll scream your name in her Sleep!

3 Orgasm Secrets She's Not Telling You - My Top Tips to Give Her an Orgasm She Won't Forget

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to talk about a few orgasm secrets most women are NOT telling their lovers. The simple but unfortunate truth is that most women are very unhappy sexually, mostly because their man does NOT perform as well as he thinks he does! Have you read any of the recent sex surveys that thousands of women around the world have answered? If you have...sources as varied as day time TV show hosts to internationally acclaimed Women's fashion magazines have ALL arrived at the very same conclusions: Women are NOT having orgasms regularly, we FAKE them at least as often as we have them, and often would prefer to be out SHOPPING with our friends rather than being intimate with a boyfriend or lover. If that doesn't hurt....I DON'T know what does! Reads on as I shed a bright and unflinching light on not ONLY the bad news, but my simple and surefire ways to fix it fast..:-) Read on.

Liar, Liar PANTS not on Fire!

Ok she's faking it. Don't sweat it - and don't take it TOO personally....lots of women obviously do. Want to FIX it and turn her on to boot? Talk to her about it. Tell her you THINK that she's NOT keeping it real between the sheets and you CARE deeply about her pleasure. Let her know that it's VERY important to YOU that she feels good during intimate moments and you are willing (and able!) to work to make sure she is able to have an orgasm as well. Not ONLY will this appeal to her sentimentality...it will ALSO turn her on to boot....this much I know for sure!

Life is Short - but SEX shouldn't be!

Slow down guys...:-) If there is ONE thing that turns a woman off faster than a man who is rushing through sex, and simply going through the mechanical motions of satiating his OWN lustful needs, I don't know what it is. Take your time with your girl - her body is different than yours when it comes to PASSION...and the time it takes to get there. Step back and slow down - I PROMISE she'll be VERY happy when you do. (and so will you..:-)

Conversation is Key

Women LOVE a man who is willing and able to keep the dialogue flowing during those intimate moments. Women admit, OVER and over again, that spicy conversation is a huge turn on to getting them (and keeping us) in the mood. If you are the strong and silent type outside of the bedroom...try a little role reversal when you're in...it WILL be a conversation you'll both remember for a while, I guarantee it!

And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-) Click Here --> to Learn to Give Your Girl an Orgasm SO strong She'll scream your name in her Sleep!

Natural Cures For Loss of Sex Drive - Herbal Cures For Both Men and Women That Are Proven to Work

By Kelly Price

There are natural cures for loss of sex drive and they work and here we will look at ones that are effective for both men and women. Let's take a look at them and how they work...

When looking at natural cures for loss of sex drive while there are differences in men's and women's sexuality, there are also important similarities and here are common causes for low libido in both sexes and then some powerful herbal cures.

The hormone testosterone while crucial for men is also very important for women and low levels of it can cause loss of sex drive. Both men and women are also affected by high stress levels and low energy and combating both these areas is need for optimum sexual health.

One of the most critical aspects in terms of sex drive in both men and women is - strong blood flow, to all areas of the body.

Sex drive relies on blood being pumped to the genitals. When it reaches this area, both men and women need to relax the blood vessels so the blood can enter the sex organs and here both need nitric oxide which when secreted, allows an increased blood flow in. In terms of men, if they don't get enough and they will, never get an erection. In women it also plays a vital role and this chemical is a little known but very common cause of loss of sex drive.

There are herbs which men and women can take which will help with all the above areas.

Horny Goat Weed

Let's start with one of the best Chinese herbs to increase libido and it works on several levels. It increases nitric oxide and testosterone within the body, as well as combating stress and increasing energy levels.

Ginseng

Compounds and chemicals within Ginseng stimulate the hypothalamus area of the brain, to direct the production of hormones that stimulate cell growth and natural healing and wellness in the sex organs. Ginseng also promotes better and stronger blood circulation pumping blood around the body and making sure it reaches the extremities. It also energizes the body and helps lift mood.

Ginkgo Biloba

Ginkgo Biloba improves blood flow and oxygen throughout the body and nourishes the brain which consumes about 20% of all the oxygen in the body. On another level its anti-oxidant action helps body tissues remain healthy, protects and heals the blood vessels and helps reduce arteriosclerotic lesions. This herb also energizes the body reducing fatigue a common cause for loss of sex drive

Ashwagandha - Extract "Indian Ginseng"

Ashwagandha energizes and rejuvenates the whole body. It helps minimize the effects of stress; fatigue enhances vitality, and promotes sexual and reproductive balance and is a great body tonic.

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Attention Ladies - Learn to Reach Orgasm Through Intercourse Alone

By Kat Williams

Do you have your own way of reaching orgasm, using your fingers or vibrator, yet have trouble climaxing through sexual intercourse? Or perhaps you've had some success climaxing while receiving oral sex, yet seek the intimacy and bonding experience of reaching orgasm while kissing or looking your partner in the eye.

Despite what we may see in the adult media outlets, many women have trouble achieving orgasm strictly from sexual intercourse. In a survey of over 500 women, Sex researchers Solot and Miller found only 6% of reached orgasm solely from penile/vaginal intercourse and that was only with certain positions.

These figures would discourage both men and women. Many men enjoy the feeling of accomplishment and ego-gratification in being able to get their partner to climax. This is why so many women resort to "faking it" in order to give their men that satisfaction. Many women find, during a sexual encounter, that if they can't orgasm before their man they may not get to do so at all. This leads to frustration and slight to serious dissatisfaction with sex completely.

Here are a few tips for women to follow to increase the chances of reaching orgasm strictly from sexual intercourse with their man.

Fantasy: Your mind is your most powerful sexual organ. Run sexual stories or images through your head while making love. Keep your mind on whatever turns you on the most.

Focus: Now this can be taken the wrong way, so please pay attention. Instead of focusing on climaxing, focus on the pleasure your body is receiving from your partner. Don't always worry about making him happy, just enjoy the sensations

Practice: The more you orgasm, no matter how, the easier it is for you to orgasm through intercourse. Masturbate often, either with your hands or a vibrator.

Lubrication: Apply extra lubrication! Don't use drug store "personal lubricants" which contain excessive sugar and oil. Only use lubricants made especially for a woman's safety and pleasure.

Experiment: Try different techniques. Women dominant positions will give you more control. Try positions that stimulate G-spot or the Coital Alignment Technique (C.A.T). Some women have success with rear entry positions. Try different movement rhythms or pace.

Communication: Tell your partner what feels good while he is doing it or give him feedback later. One of the most common mistakes women make is to expect her partner to automatically know how to make you feel good. He won't know unless you tell him.

PC Exercise: Do kegels or take up a ben-wah ball routine. The stronger your pc muscles the more likely you are to orgasm when you want.

Try one or all of these tips. Remember, achieving anything of value in life takes practice, persistence and patience. Good luck!

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The Secrets of Love Making Can Make For Very Special Times

By Jared Wadel

Women also need to feel important to their lover. Take an active interest in who she is as a person and what goes on in her life. Women's arousal time varies, remember, You have to determine what works best for them.Love making tips for women can vary, every women is a little different in the things they like and how fast is too fast. Women can do this too. If your husband is watching a sports event on TV, sit down beside him and begin rubbing his thigh slowly.

Women take longer to climax, so foreplay is very important and what arouses them, but She'll love you for it, She'll be crazy and possibly too tired for anything else, but it gives you an advantage for other nights . She will thank you.

Secrets of love making consist of Sexual seduction, this is a social principle that involves the process of purposely tempting a person into a particular act. The way of doing it comes in varied forms. Sex toys are fantastic for keeping variety alive and having a good time together. Your choices are almost endless.

Leave her notes that you love her and call her to say hello during your lunch hour, not to ask her to iron your shirt! Send flowers or a stuffed animal every so often, keep her on the edge of her seat with anticipation, the love making tips for women start early with romance then later with the love making.I once heard a women tell her husband that if he wanted to make love to her tonight he needed to start getting her ready throughout the day, Romance is so important to a woman.

Some secrets of love making can be just changing up the times that you make love, it can also be just as important and exciting as changing up the place. Try having a quickie in the morning, meeting for a quick lunch delight, or getting your partner in the mood when you wake up in the middle of the evening.

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Is Your Marriage Becoming Sexless? Advice For Women Facing a Sexless Marriage

By Howard Guy

Marriage without the intimacy and release of sex becomes a dull and fragile thing which can destroy a good marriage by sucking the joy and closeness out of what should be an amazing experience in love, physically, spiritually and mentally. If all these great things are enabled by making love why is your marriage becoming sexless? There are a few conclusions women will come to when trying to define this problem but unfortunately most of them are wrong!

Many women take the path of self loathing believing that their husband does not find them attractive anymore; perhaps they think they have put on weight or do not have time to dress up anymore or they think that whatever fire of passion that was there has gone out because they are too familiar or that life is hard. In any case the wife blames herself which is terrible for mental health and confidence which becomes another issue. Why this is so wrong is that men appreciate confidence in their women just as women like confidence in men, a wife who wallows in self pity because she feels unattractive becomes the thing she does not want to be psychologically and eventually physically driving home a sexless marriage complex that infects both partners

The opposite spectrum are women who blame their man, perhaps they suspect him of having affairs or that he has become impotent and lost his sex drive. This can lead to resentment and sometimes to the wife having affairs as revenge or as a release which only makes matters much worse in a sexless marriage

So what is the REAL reason your marriage is becoming sexless? This is a complex issue but what many marriage counselors and therapists have found over the years is that men who stop having sex with their wives are rarely having affairs and nearly always still love their partner very much. What does this mean? It means the problem is more often than not the mans and often it is psychological.

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How to Cope With a Sexless Marriage Vs How to Bring Back the Passion

By Howard Guy

Sex and men are a strange thing - sometimes when what started as passion and excitement turns into boring sex or even worse ... no sex at all. There are many reasons for women being in a passionless relationship but most wives simply want to know how to cope with a sexless marriage and get on with their lives as best they can; but is this the best solution? Can women bring the fire back into their husbands sexuality and get the steaming sex life you deserve?

My firm belief is that men are geared towards being highly sexual but somewhere somehow along the way something in their mind gets damaged and they lose interest. This is not the fault of the women instead it is an insecurity or a problem they harbor and often make worse by not confronting it. To cope with this as a women you simply allow the man to continue to hide this wound on their sexuality instead of healing it.

Men can be highly affected by stress, depression or dissatisfactions as well as other factors but may never show these reasons to you hiding it behind a stoic mask repressing their sexuality. To cope with this you can do the same for yourself but where does that leave you both? Miserable and heading for divorce most likely.

Instead a women can be the one who brings back the passion into a marriage by realizing a few things.

• They are not to blame.
• They are sexual, beautiful creatures
• The problem is with their husband
• If they love him they can help him and create a wonderful sex life again

So do not ask how to cope with a sexless marriage, instead say I can get him in the mood!

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Sexual Messages From Your Shoes!

By Christine Windsor

All sexual messages come from your feet. Do you agree?

Top Image Consultants claim that women, particularly, can announce details of their sexuality via their footwear.

'Peep' toe shoes are the foot equivalent of the plunging neckline and the higher the heel, the more blatant the sexual message.

Hookers wear 5" stilettos while nuns wear completely flat, closed-in, lace-up shoes.

The trick is to try to strike a balance between 'giving it away' and 'giving it up' since neither are flattering images for women. Even shoe care can project a message. A woman who has scuffed, worn and dirty shoes is announcing that she has very little pride in her appearance or herself - and maybe treated accordingly.

The same goes for laddered stockings. Everyone assumes that lax morals accompany laddered stockings. It's a subconscious message of not caring. Flimsy, flowing dresses, worn with boots project a somewhat complicated message to men. Firstly the dress says that the wearer is feminine but secondly comes the power message through the boots. They are confirming that the wearer is a force to be dealt with and able to "put the boot in".

Take control of the messages you are sending to the world with your personal appearance. Contact a House of Colour consultant for advice on all aspects of your Image.

What the shoes reveal

THE PEEP TOE SHOES The foot equivalent of the plunging neckline. Intended to be seductive

STILETTO HEELS The ultimate sexuality in shoes. Underlining the vulnerability of the wearer.

'CLUMPY' BOOTS/DM's Send out a message that the wearer is capable of protecting herself and putting the boot in.

FLAT, CLOSED-IN, LACE UPS Utilitarian shoes with no sexual message other than 'no sex.'

For more information about which shoes suit you, find your local Image Consultant

Tips For First Time Sex

By Chess McDoogle

So you're having sex for the first time and you definitely want to be prepared. No matter if your a teenager or a full grown adult you want the first time experience to be good, pleasurable and not embarrassing or difficult. Here are some good tips for first time sex, and how to pull it off successfully:

1. How to deal with protection.

One of the most helpful tips for first time sex has been how to handle the issue of protection. When should it come up, when should it be put on and so forth. Basically protection, we'll use the condom for this example, doesn't have to be put on until just prior to actual sex. During foreplay protection doesn't need to be worn, it's just prior to actual sex that the male should pause, take a moment, and put the condom on.

Yes, it may seem a bit awkward and a "break in the action", but that is how it goes. The female can also bring up the issue by simply saying "do you have protection", acknowledging the issue and providing a window for the male to pause and proceed to put it on.

2. Pick a position and go slow.

Don't be embarrassed about not being able to start things out smoothly. There may be some fumbling around, unable to find the right spot and so forth. Even experienced love makers still fall prone to fumbling around and occasional awkwardness. Just go slow, use your hands if necessary for guidance, and relax and breath.

3. Read a Love Making guide book beforehand.

This is a great way to ensure you'll have a satisfying first time experience. You can learn a ton of information on how to effectively please your partner both before and during sexual intimacy. There's amazing tips for first time sex and techniques you can use. Don't get bogged down in all the different techniques, rather just focus on a few for your first time and go from there for a satisfying and pleasurable experience.

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Best Lovemaking Position?

By Chess McDoogle

The best lovemaking position is not going to be the same for everyone. We've all heard how some like it this way, while others prefer it that way. So how can you determine the best lovemaking position? Simply by applying the following three principals:

1.Comfort.

Comfort will first determine the ideal position. Include individual factors such as proneness to back pain, standing or kneeling preferences (rather than lying down, whether top or bottom). Concentrate first on comfort and you'll be on your way to finding the ideal and most pleasurable position.

2. Pleasure.

Speaking of pleasure, this should come second when choosing a lovemaking position. Comfort will lead to pleasure, but you have to determine the most pleasurable position within the comfort realm.

What if there's an especially pleasurable position, which takes some effort, or sacrifices some comfort? Well, this is where pleasure can be used first, on occasion. If for there is a position that provides phenomenal pleasure, then it should be used occasionally in lieu of comfort.

3. Maintaining.

Here is the secret key that you'll rarely read about when discussing the best lovemaking position. What good is a position if you can't maintain the rhythm and can't last long enough? There are some positions which some men simply have trouble lasting long enough in.

You really need to find a position where you can last long in, or else the position will essentially render itself useless. Rhythm is also a factor. Being in the groove, maintaining excellent and pleasurable rhythm is key for outstanding sex. Finding your best rhythmic position, could very well be your best lovemaking position of choice.

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Vibrational Medicine For Sexual Vitality!

By Angelique Shofar

Flower Essences are vibrational liquid remedies containing the energetic healing patterns of flowers. They are taken orally a few drops at a time. Flower essences are used to enhance and increase our health and well being and work to prevent or treat imbalances by realigning our emotional, mental and spiritual selves.

I have been using flower essences for over 10 years. I benefited from them while I was pregnant and used a series of essences for the mother to be. They are subtle, pure and more powerful than they appear. They work directly on our energy field and they are part of my "energy medicine" tool box. Flower essences are powerful remedies for healing sexual wounds and dissolving blocks that keep you from having a healthy and fully satisfying sex life. I'd like to introduce you to a couple and talk about their properties and expressions.

Clary Sage
Salvia Sclarea (lavender and white)
Description: A fast growing biennial with aromatic hairy leaves and panicles of tubular purple and white flowers with prominent lavender bracts. The flower has a forked purple tongue and appears in summer. All parts of the plant are covered with pungent oil and it grows to about 3 feet in height. It is grown widely in the world.

Harmonious Expression: Being in a state of roundedness and a connection to one's "gut" or primal self. Feeling primal strength and animality. Feeling the power of the earth in one's solar plexus; clarity and knowing-ness about who one is. Sensuality from being centered and connected to one's power.

Inharmonious Expressions: Lacking in groundedness, being disconnected from one's instinctual self. Fear of one's own sexuality and sensuality.

Clary Sage flower essence is useful for ungroundedness from too much "air" in one's astrological chart, or from past use of substances such as Marijuana, alcohol, etc. Good for when one is experiencing a challenge being in the earth plane in a more physical and grounded way. Also helpful for those uncomfortable with the primalness of sexual expression. Can be used as an aphrodisiac when combined with a heart centered essence such as Rose essences. Useful to vitalize 1st Chakra functions.

Hibiscus (Hibiscus acetosella). This one is close to heart and home for me because it was one of the first flowers I ever knew. It was always around me when growing up near the equator. During the spring of last year, I bought a small hibiscus plant for my indoor Zen garden. I wanted to include energies and symbols from my early years when I was creatively unspoiled. It kept budding and budding. It would die and new ones would grow instantly. I enjoyed the re-visit of the hibiscus spirit and its deeply inspiring presence no doubt woke up a sleeping spot of my sexual past.

Harmonious Expression: Warmth and responsiveness in female sexuality; integration of soul warmth and bodily passion.

Inharmonious Expression: Inability to connect with one's female sexuality; lack of warmth and vitality, often due to prior exploitation or abuse.

In many cases, sexual expression becomes cold, uninhibited and unresponsive. The Soul can no longer contact the feeling part of the Self and infuse it with love and caring. Hibiscus flower essence helps women to reclaim their sexuality, and to restore these soul forces with authenticity and vitality.

It can aid many women who have been sexually traumatized, and it is also generally beneficial for all modern women who have unconsciously absorbed media images and other stereotypes of dehumanized sexuality.

This remedy is sometimes also indicated for men who need to develop a stronger relationship to feminine warmth and positive sexuality. Hibiscus creates flowing warmth throughout the body and soul, especially healing the sexuality. Hibiscus flower essence frees sexual energy. It enhances openness by releasing emotional blockages in the heart. It liberates sexual energy blocks in women and helps to facilitate open communication through the heart chakra.

It is important to understand that flower essences are not essential oils. And though they can come as an herb, incense or essential oil they are not the same in form and function. And they certainly do not have the scent of flowers.

Flower essences smell of brandy or vinegar with which they are preserved. They are not homeopathic medicine since they do not follow the law of "like-curing-like". They are both in the category of vibrational remedies since they both create healing not through the active physical ingredients, but rather through a vibrational (or electrical) pattern. There are no physical parts of the original source in the finished remedy; there is instead an etheric print that has the ability to resonate within the body.

Flower essences are only one of the many tools I use in my holistic health practice. They are powerful, effective, and safe. They have been supportive and I continue to use them successfully time and time again. I also give them to my son and dog.

Angelique Shofar is a sexual wellness & sensual lifestyle coach; a tantric yoga/dance teacher & freelance writer. She facilitates sensual~ cultural events, retreats & workshops around holistic sexuality, wellness & empowerment. She is the founder and director of The Spirit of Wellness. Visit her online at: http://thesexualgriot.typepad.com/ and her blog at http://sexualgriot.blogspot.com/ Email her at: thesexualgriot@gmail.com

Are You on the Side of the Size!

By Angelique Shofar

Okay ladies, how many of you will deny that the size of your man's penis is important? Are you one of those to whom it does not matter? Or are you on the side of the size! I am a bit concerned that many women arrived at a place of denial because they were squeezed into that belief one way or another. Many too readily accept it, live with it, ignore it and push it aside because in the world that we live in sex is just not important enough to warrant satisfaction or approval. So our inner needs and urges go ignored, unsatisfied and unfulfilled. And sadly many women (as well as men) are receiving poor and lousy sexual pleasure from their partner.

Let's look at three common reasons why a woman may settle for a smaller size penis. One, when a man gives a woman everything she needs at a particular time in her life and he simply worships her. She'll find it hard to resist his "shortest" coming and will go on allowing the material comforts and treatments to take the place of receiving the physical inner nurturing her vaginal walls require. This man, of course, has learned that he needs to be the best he can and to please her to his death in order to compensate for his lack of. Essentially there is too much pleasing of each other superficially and no sense of pleasing one self sexually.

Secondly, a woman may be up against the wall, hard pressed or sees no way out. She finds it hard to leave him because her life is either threatened, she is being abused or she is simply in fear of something bigger and deeper. Essentially there is a profound lack of confidence and self assurance which makes the courage to leave seem impossible. And in the third reasoning, some women have absolutely no clue as to what sexual pleasure is or what it feels like. This is sexual and sensual ignorance and sexual anesthesia.

Now let's look at the reasons why it is important that a woman is happy with the size and function of her man's penis. First you have to understand that in a relationship the quality of physical love is as important as any of the other dimensions of our existence. To deny the physical world is to deny the earth and you as an expression of her. Physical love is instrumental in bonding, healing and having a complete relationship.

You see, our finger tips (as well as our skin) are the edges of the incredible electromagnetic field that contains our entire body. Within it are positive as well as negative charges. When contact is made between two humans (or living things), stimulation or depletion is initiated according to the quality of the charge.

When someone makes loving contact with another, the electromagnetic field receives a positive energetic charge. In the process you receive a dose of energy that boosts your emotional body and trigger a chain reaction within your organs and systems that stimulates homeostasis.

If the intentions are less than loving the energy field will respond with an impulse to defend. Defense creates tension and a negative climate. This negative charge tends to break down rather the build on a cellular level. This, I hope can be a simple explanation as to why remaining in an unhealthy relationship literally sucks the life out of you. Once again, physical love is much more important to the development and maintenance of our health and well being than we have been taught.

Back to the size of your partner's penis! Our sexual/reproductive organs are a dimension of our physical selves. And it would be wise not to diminish or ignore the energetic and magical powers and functions of those inner body parts. The point I bring to this discussion is that the level of comfort and enjoyment is synonymous to one's (sexual) happiness and fulfillment in and out of the bedroom. It can be compared to a hunger or thirst that constantly needs satisfying and quenching. Unfortunately, the older teachings of Western world lacked greater wisdom and insight and were not prepared to articulate and or decipher the secret code of our sexuality. To nurture and to nourish our sexuality is just as important as working, caring or family and loved ones. Our sexuality requires constant nourishment.

So what are the results of our sexually unfulfilled longings over time? Misplaced anger, physical ailments, depression and much of the detriment seen in our society today.

I'd also like to put light on the other dimension of our sexuality through which healing and wholeness can take place - the way nature intended. Sexual reflexology takes the art of reflexology to the sexual organs and creates a beautiful healing phenomenon. Since the male penis and the female penis each carry and contain meridian or reflex points that correspond with the organs. Then it would be important that both penis and vagina are compatible in order to achieve the healing effect nature intended through what has been termed "sexual reflexology". Creating intention to grace your sexual organs with gratitude and appreciation can be a sacred ritual that brings a powerful and whole new meaning to the art of making love.

So how many still say that the size of their man's penis is not important and does not matter? I knew you'd catch on with smartness. Yes. It is important that the size of a man's penis is snuggled and comfortable for a woman. And it is equally important that the size of a woman's vagina is in harmony with that of her man. They must fit like glove. Otherwise it's a sexual misfit! If it don't fit, you must acquit!!! LOL!!

Angelique Shofar is a sexual wellness & sensual lifestyle coach; a tantric yoga/dance teacher & freelance writer. She facilitates sensual~ cultural events, retreats & workshops around holistic sexuality, wellness & empowerment. She is the founder and director of The Spirit of Wellness. Visit her online at: http://thesexualgriot.typepad.com/ and her blog at http://sexualgriot.blogspot.com/ Email her at: thesexualgriot@gmail.com

Caution - Hot Sex Ahead! (Part 2)

By Andre Shiever

Continuing our quest for the hottest and sexiest pleasure pit!

Rule # 3: Feast Your Eyes On You Partner In Romantic Lighting!

No Harsh Lighting Please! You both are not on an adult movie set; unless that is a fantasy you both want to act out! Most people find candle light very sensual and adding aromatherapy candles you will double your excitement. I do not know one soul that does not find candle light sexy!

Picture this if you will, the flickering amber glow dancing on your lover's skin accentuating their every curve! The look on your partners face as they are receiving your affections! Hot I must say.

Key points to keep in mind: keep your candle light lower than eye level, the lower the better. You can place small votive candles on fire safe surfaces throughout the bedroom, depending on how well lit you want your action! Just be extremely careful with open flames in case a piece of clothing being ripped off happens to land near one of your candles! You do not need to be calling the fire department to put out the flames! You want a different kind of flame in your sexy hot bedroom!

Your other option is to install a dimmer on your light switch. It is a fast and safe way to get the bedroom lighting just right without the hazards. It's your decision to make, just make the lighting as sexy as possible!

Rule # 4: Feed Your Lovers Appetite With Sumptuous Treats!

This one is a short one, but good one!

Have a batch of chocolate covered dried fruits made up ahead of time to feed to your love! Some fine and scrumptious choices are dried: pineapple pieces, apple slices, cantaloupe chunks, sliced mangos, peaches, pears or what ever else you and your partner love! Chocolate contains several chemicals which contribute to feeling good! One being, Tryptophan which is a chemical that the brain uses to make a neurotransmitter called serotonin. High levels of serotonin can produce feelings of elation even ecstasy! Second is phenylethylamine. High levels of this neurotransmitter help promote feelings of attraction, excitement, giddiness! Therefore a few chocolate dipped morsels can lift libido, providing a tantalizing prelude to hot engaging sex !

Another Choice is chocolate covered gourmet marshmallows, my favorite lemon marshmallows. Yum!

I do not know if it is myth or fact, but it has been said that food and sex are closely associated in the brain. No wonder the two go hand in hand! And not to mention, Fun!

Rule # 5: Have Your Supplies At Hand!

Another short tip, but one to consider because it's better to be prepared than caught off guard, fumbling around looking for things!

What I am referring to is a drawer or cabinet which contains all of your fun and exciting sex enhancing items such as: luscious lubricants, assortment of textured and flavored condoms, erotic toys and vibrators, exquisitely sensuous massage oils and creams, taste bud tickling lotions, body paints, and the list goes on!

Having these things on hand and easily accessible will enhance each and every lovemaking session you both have! Each time you get together is slightly different, what you like today may not be your favorite next time.

Rule #6: The Most Important Rule of All!

Communicate, communicate and did I mention, communicate!

Tell each other your wishes. Be respectful and honoring in everything you say and do! Do not coerce your partner into something they are not comfortable with, give and take!

Tell each other your fantasies, needs, desires and make every effort to fulfill each others loves and lusts. By doing so, you will have a happy and fulfilling lovemaking session each and every time without a doubt!

Laugh and love, sex doesn't need be serious all the time, you can laugh with each other at some of the antics you are bound to encounter. Fantastic sex is not brain surgery!

Most of all love each other! By loving each other you are sure to fulfill your lusts for each other, and will leave the bedroom satisfied and satiated, but a the same time always ready to come back and try some more!

Hot, Steamy, Torrid sex is funny: no matter how much you happen to have, you always want more. At least sex is non-fattening so have as much as you want!

Awakening your appetites for hot, steamy sex by getting your bedroom as romantic and inviting as you can!

Remember the initial warning: Hot Sex Ahead!

Andre Shiever of Get-Romantic.com is a contributing author, writing on informative subjects that are insightful and explore romantic gift ideas for indulging yourself or others. Topics such as sexy romantic tips and romantic love tips. Visit now to find more romantic ideas and great articles! Get-Romantic.com..."Your Exclusive Source For All Things Romantic".

Caution - Hot Sex Ahead!

By Andre Shiever

Everyone I know is looking for hot, steamy sex, and here is a surefire way to get some!

Many people at times have fallen into a rut or grind on occasion and wonder why? The lovemaking is okay, but seems a little mechanical, insensitive or obligatory, which is a shame when in our minds we want, crave and desire torrid, steamy, urgent desire, wanting to rip each others clothes off, and do it right now, kind of sex!

The daily routine has gotten the best of us! Shake things up a little bit and get your creative juices flowing and bring the love back in lovemaking!

To get that red-hot lovemaking flame back follow a few romantic guidelines, by getting one area of your house in tip top romantic shape for the sexual encounters you crave and deserve!

The Bedroom is the area of primary concern, since that is where the majority of our sexual encounters happen. Take some time to plan out and prepare your bedroom, making it your personal pleasure pit. All you will then need is your unsuspecting partner and nature will take its course...guaranteed!

Rule # 1: Get The T.V. Out Of The Bed Room!

This is by far the biggest romance killer. Yes, many of us like to watch T.V while resting after a long days work, but it is a huge distraction in the lovemaking process. Though being without the television in the bedroom will not kill you, the overload of sizzling, fiery sex and orgasmic delights just might!

By not being distracted you will inevitably pay much more attention to the issue at hand: lavishing your partner into submission. Think of it this way: instead of thinking you are missing out on watching television, turn it around and make believe you're in your own reality TV show with you and your partner as the leading actors and the plot has just gotten steamier!

If you choose rather than "acting out your reality show", play soft music instead.

Make sure you pick music that suits both of your tastes. Music is a wonderful addition to your new pleasure den. Sexy background music will enhance your mood and help disguise some of the "sounds of lovemaking" if your new sex room is adjacent to another bedroom or apartment! Some of the bigger department stores carry a large selection of CD's ranging from new age to instrumental to nature sounds. Just pick something that is not going to be a distraction.

Rule # 2: Create A Sensual And Luxurious Bed!

Imagine the delight you both will surely have when you see your bed inviting you to jump in! The clean sheets drawn back, mountains of cushy pillows piled at the headboard, the feel of your Egyptian cotton sheets so soft and silky. How could you not be in the mood, especially when you are in the bedroom, alone, with the one you love and lust!

A few additions to consider:

Spray your bedding with "Silky Sheets", it is a spray that is divinely scented and makes your sheets feel and smell luxurious! Second, make sure you have enough deliciously-soft pillows! When things start heating up, you are able to make your partner as comfortable as possible when in the positions which are sure to follow! Pick colors for your linens that inspire love and romance, i.e. reds, pinks, maroons! Throw in a few scented silk flower petals for good measure!

Caution: Hot Sex Ahead! To Be Continued!

Andre Shiever of Get-Romantic.com is a contributing author, writing on informative subjects that are insightful and explore romantic gift ideas for indulging yourself or others. Topics such as sexy romantic ideas and romantic advise. Visit now to find more romantic ideas and great articles! Get-Romantic.com..."Your Exclusive Source For All Things Romantic".

Know Your Sexual Orientation

By Vinod Karan Singh

Sexual orientation is defined as a general feeling one may have towards a male, female or for both the sexes. The general feeling could be an enduring sexual, romantic, affection or emotional bonding towards the opposite sex or for the same sex. We usually witness three kind of sexual orientations i.e. heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality.

To understand the sexual behavior of a person, it is important to observe his/her psychological traits, such as individual's erotic desires, fantasy, arousal, sexual satisfaction level, comfort zone, preference of a partner and approach towards the opposite sex or same sex. To deal with sexual orientation is not an easy task; it may take years to find out what exactly is your preference in terms of sex. Gender and identity may or may not play a deciding role in the personal choice. Such feelings are usually directed through the mind.

According to a new study in UK, gay men and straight women share similar characteristics in the area of brain responsible for emotion upheaval, mood swings, anxiety and other such feelings. This report is confirmed by a group of researchers from National Academy of Sciences, working on the potential biological underpinning of sexuality and other possible source of sexual orientation. On similar observation, it is found that the same symmetry exists between lesbians and straight men. As stated earlier, such observation regarding the sexual orientation tends to differ irrespective of gender and identity.

It cannot be easily attributed to perception or behavior and the question is still open for debate. There had been a series of researches and studies on the role of genetic science, biological and environmental factors but it is strongly believed that nature and nurture directly affects the sexual orientation of a person.

Scientists are of view that brain shape and size or certain degree of increased exposure to hormones such as testosterone in the womb is responsible for deciding the sexual behavior or altered sex preferences. If we try to explain the phenomenon through other way, it could be said that the first sexual encounter of a person helps to decide his adult behavior. It's more like an addiction, we like certain thing and we wish to continue with it. Same goes in case of sexual orientation, if the body and mind is comfortable with same sex or opposite sex is just a matter of chance.

Quite interestingly, the changing perception about sex and urge to taste the forbidden fruit tempt Gen next to undergo the experience of altered sexual preferences at least once. Such sex adventures are quite in vogue now a day. Sigmund Freud, the Australian physician and thinker, propounded the theory of innate bisexuality, or predisposition to bisexuality. According to this theory, all humans are born bisexual but through psychological development, which includes both external and internal factors, become monosexual while the bisexuality remains in a latent state.

As mentioned earlier, sometimes our own sexual orientation remains disguised for years. It's not because we don't know what actually we want, but it's just that we don't accept the reality. In another clinical research, a method is introduced to measure the sexual orientation of the person; where genital enlargement with blood is measured in response to exposure to different erotic material, sexual fantasy and other sexual behavior. This method is quite successful in determining the same sex attraction as well as the opposite sex tendency.

But since it is not possible to select one's genes in a same way it is difficult to change the sexual orientation which we get by birth. There has been lot left for scientists to work extensively on the behavior of newborn babies before they predict anything on their sexual inclination. A keen observation is all required for the better understanding of neurobiology of sexuality and gender behavior of human species.

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Natural Aphrodisiacs and Healthy Habits to Improve Your Sex Drive

By Sophia Augustin

When you work fourteen to sixteen hours per day - face it, people: when you work from home, you don't have the need to watch the clock. But you do, and that's the whole problem. How maintain your sex life AND keep the business going? Well, for one, there are natural aphrodisiacs.

I think we should all get back to the basics and get acquainted with our bodies, learning how big the portions of the five food groups our own body needs is, along with the amount of exercise we (need to) do to maintain a healthy body. I am so sick of hearing you can buy a pill or some energy drink to boost your energy, help you lose weight, or pump up your sex drive. Why do that when you can just eat healthy and consume natural foods?

When you take a pill that is supposed to enhance any of your natural drives, this is what happens: your brain goes into overdrive, and you forget about time and eating. Missing your normal meals because you don't want to lose your train of thought on a project -- or, for instance, the deadline is tomorrow. You have to fuel the body with natural nutrition, and not with industrial supplements.

In our society, we tend to believe that if we take 1 - 2 tablets of herbal supplements per day, it's going to give us the fast results we are looking for. But instead, we should eat fresh foods and herbs. If you are feeling tired, you should have a piece of fresh fruit or a healthy fruit drink. You will find that you received that burst of energy you were looking for - in just a half hour! Athletes usually will have fruit before a workout or game. This is something to consider when you feel tired after work, and if you are tired. If you don't feel like exercising, make a fruit drink or a fruit salad with yogurt.

Now if you want to lose weight, there isn't a little pill or diet drink that is going to change your created eating habits. You have to retrain yourself to eat what is necessary to lose the weight and keep it off. If not, you are only going to regain it when you stop taking the diet pills and drinks. Yes, that's right - in order to lose weight, you have to stop taking diet pills and diet drinks. Natural food is the only answer.

If you want a good diet tip: Use vinegar on your vegetables and salads. Vinegar makes the stomach feel full so you will eat less. Drink eight (8) glasses of water with a fresh slice of lemon, and cut down to two cups of coffee per day. Stop drinking sodas or energy drinks with caffeine effects - those are basically filled with sugars. Use olive oil instead of butter and limit the salt and breads you eat. Dark breads made with whole grain are the best. Eat at least 5 portions of fruits and vegetables per day. Always have breakfast, and to increase results, start an exercise regiment.

Of course there is controversy over how to increase your sex drive. We all know that certain factors throw us off at times. This is another curse we have to bare; it is more common with women than with men that our libidos seem to sink to a new low - while our partners tend to be able to pitch a tent on their manhood with the blind of an eye.

Before this particular 'thing' becomes a problem, you should hear me out and try some natural aphrodisiacs. Not "pretend" ones. You can add them to your diet every day. Living healthy and eating right with exercise is the only way to live and stay fit, no matter what all the ads want to tell you. They are just ads that are supposed to sell a product. But with natural aphrodisiacs, you will be able to keep up with your partner's sex drive just like that. Isn't that what you really want?

In the real world, Bunny is a business woman. She is a successful consultant and is living a fascinating career. Since she met the man of her dreams, she is finding the best of both worlds - and now, she blogs about her ongoing journey.

Sexual Seduction Techniques - Seduce Women Half My Age

By Rob Dev

Are men all the same? Is that all we think about is seduction and women? Perhaps not all men are that way, but there are many men who are asking how can I seduce women half my age.

The good news is that statistically, many women are very interested in men that are older and more sophisticated. This is to your advantage because that means that as an older man, you already naturally have the tools and traits that younger women are interested in.

Many guys are looking to seduce younger women. There is nothing wrong with that as long as everything is consensual and legal. Of course, I don't need to go into detail about what I mean by that.

So what do you already have that younger women want? Class, sophistication, cologne (yes, I know!) In my interviews with younger women, I have found that attention to those little details go a long way. One women even told me, "just smell nice, its not that hard."

Females are already, at all stages of development, more mature than males. Therefore, it stands to reason that if you stand out from the younger men that they are accustomed to then you will have more success. What annoys you about younger men, annoys women too! The unkempt appearance, the addiction to video games, the lack of care of grooming, these will all work in your favor.

So how to put this to work for you? When you meet, always be sophisticated and classy, stand out from the young boys and men that they are use to. Most of all, pay attention to her, not to yourself.

When you reach the end of your life, what will you regret more, what you tried and failed, or what you didn't even attempt. The best way to learn how to seduce a beautiful woman is to learn from a beautiful woman. Learn more here, http://www.introductiontoseduction.info

Sexual Seduction Techniques - How to Seduce a Woman From Talk to Touch, the First Step

By Rob Dev

When you are ready to move a date from close and friendly conversation to the next step of getting physical, there are two techniques that you can try. In a nutshell, it is time to try to do some light touching, but the big question is how. It should be something that you can do with complete confidence, that is both fun and potentially sexy.

One thing you can try is a light massage. I know this is old had, but some guys are very good at it. If you are a guy with good rapport skills and you believe that you can go this route without the woman suspecting anything then please be my guest.

But for other guys who are not as smooth or confident, a great thing to try is reading her palm. You can treat it like a game at first. Try holding her hand and say " I see a handsome stranger sitting beside you" Then you both have a laugh and move on to more serious palm reading.

You might need to to some research into palm reading to find out what the lines really mean but it will be well worth the effort. In addition to reading about palm reading, you need to study a little bit about erogenous zones. While your reading her palm, and speaking to her softly, you also need to be touching the areas that will turn her on.

Some girls do get interested in this kind of thing enough to know a little about it so you may want to practice before you first try it on a date. Female family members are good subjects for practicing your palmist art.

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Sexual Seduction Techniques - How to Seduce a Female Friend Into Bed

By Rob Dev

Seducing a female friend can be challenging because if you value the friendship you will need to be careful. You want to make your move but you don't want to jeopardize the friendship. You need to focus on the benefits.

Just like when I was a salesmen, I always focused on the benefits and not the features. People do not care what the product has, they only care what the product can help them do better, faster or cheaper.

What are the benefits that you offer? Are you exceptionally good? Well-endowed? Can you show her things that she can use in a real relationship? Again, those are features, not benefits. How can she benefit? Improved self-esteem, good physical feelings or maybe she can learn how good it can be.

Most importantly, she needs to know that you will still be her friend after. If she really is a friend, then she doesn't want you to be her boyfriend, she probably has lots of guys who are willing to be her boyfriends. But for girls, good friends who are guys are much harder to find and keep.

So please try to stay focused on: Its just a one time thing, you both have a little fun, then you go back to being friends. Of course, I'm assuming here that you do want to remain just friends after. Because I truly believe that is the only approach that will work. If you want to turn the friendship into a sexual relationship then I am sorry but I believe it is doomed to fail.

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Sexual Seduction Techniques - How to Seduce a Female Friend

By Rob Dev

One of the most difficult types of women to seduce is the female friend. There are many guys with female friends and of those, very many are happy just to be friends. There are also those who would like to take the friendship to another level. Making the switch from friend to lover is very challenging, and full of obstacles. There are, however, a few tips you can follow that might make such a seduction possible.

The first step is to be willing to take on the challenge, and to accept it as a challenge. Do not allow emotion to enter into it, any negativity could not only eliminate the sexual option but also possibly end the friendship. If this is a friendship that you value, then you must take steps to protect it, while you are laying the groundwork for your seduction.

The next thing is to find out what the obstacles might be. Use your status as a friend, to find out what she likes and does not like. Find out what her objections might be. Like it or not, you will have to overcome objections. Most women value their male friendships and they feel that sex will compromise that.

The most common objection is that she will tell you that she does not want to jeopardize the friendship, or that she doesn't think of you that way. The best thing might be to take some time before your final approach to think about other possibilities and then try to come up with your own responses.

These are the two most important things: Preparing yourself for the challenge and the possible rejection, then responding to her objections.

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Sexual Seduction Techniques - First Moves to Seduce a Married Woman

By Rob Dev

When you are trying to seduce a woman, are the techniques universal or are the rules of the game the same with a married woman. Of course there are some techniques that are universal and some that are specific to given situations.

Specifically for married women, you want to offer her something that she cannot get at home. I'm not referring to sex, almost any woman can get sex at home. I'm talking about things like fun conversation, someone who takes an interest in her, someone who tells her that she is beautiful. If she has been married for a while, it is possible that she feels she is missing out on these things.

Think about what has to happen for a married woman to want to be with another man: Her marriage must be lacking somehow. Try to discreetly find out what it is lacking then offer those things. Do not be afraid to tell her she is beautiful, or even that she looks nice today. Take a genuine and noticeable interest in her.

After you have laid the verbal groundwork, it is time to take the next step. If you think that she might be receptive, then try touching. Not sexually of course, but gently and purposefully. You could try to simply touch her hand, or if you are more adventurous, try gently stroking her thigh. Whatever you try, you must look for her reaction. If she shies away then she is not ready yet.

If she moves closer, then she is yours.

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Sexual Seduction Technique - How to Seduce a Beautiful Woman

By Rob Dev

There is no such thing as dating out of your league. If that were the case then almost every man in the world would be dating out of his league. For physical attractiveness, there are very few men who measure up to the attractiveness of most women. Women are simply the more attractive of the species, and that is why men have to rely on other factors to get women to notice us.

I truly believe that most men would agree with me on that point.

With that in mind then, it makes sense that we should not see seducing a beautiful woman as a daunting task.

There are very many beautiful women who are utterly alone. Its a psychological issue for some men. Since we see beautiful women as out of our league, we tend to move on to the "plain Jane" type of women because we think we will have better luck.

A truly beautiful women knows that she is beautiful, and she knows that men are going to shy away from them. But the truth is that women find self-confidence to be very attractive and she will respond to a man who follows the rules of attraction and seduction.

You are not her physical equal, sorry about that but it is true. So you will need to do some introspection to look at what your qualities are so that you can demonstrate that.

So all you really have to worry about when attempting to seduce a beautiful woman is to look confident, carry yourself with confidence and follow the rules, the rest will take care of itself.

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Seduce a Woman - You Cannot Seduce a Woman by Talking

By Rob Dev

The expression "getting lucky" is, in my opinion at best a misnomer and at worse, an utter disservice. The truth is, luck has nothing to do with it.

When you are trying to seduce a woman you must show self-confidence and a genuine interest in her. Always remember, you are not going to get what you want is if she doesn't get want she wants. So, you are wondering, what does she want? Among other things, she wants to feel respected, and the best way that we know of to accomplish that is to listen.

For many of us, our instinct is to talk. We talk about our accomplishments, our past glories, our tall tales of conquest and all of our successes. But do you know what the problem with that is? That is what everyone does. So seldom will it make an impression. Remember that before you can be impressive you must first be impressed.

If you want to truly make an impression, just listen. Listen to what she has to say. Listen, respond appropriately and with empathy. A woman will feel that you are different from the rest, and that is the person that she wants to be with. That is the person that she wants to give her time and affection, and something else to.

From there, it will be very easy to lead her to where you want to go. Treat a woman with the respect that she deserves and you will undoubtedly get what you deserve.

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Seduce a Woman Into Bed - Strategy For Reducing the Fear of Seduction

By Rob Dev

Some strategies for seducing woman are admittedly more complicated than others. Some are downright simple.

There are really only three steps on your way to sexual seduction: The approach, or introduction, the getting to know you conversation, and finally, what I like to call, the transition from talk to touch. The only thing that is complicated is the fear that usually stands in the way.

But we must ask ourselves, what exactly do we fear? We do not fear having sex, that must be the desired outcome. We do not fear conversation. We have conversations every day and many of those conversations are us trying to extract something from someone. Could that be it? Could we possibly be afraid of asking for what we want?

Let us proceed from that point. Let us assume that we are afraid of asking for what we want and let us begin to investigate from there.

When we are children, we have no problem asking for what we want. We jump on Santa's knee and give him our entire lists in excruciating detail. We did the same to our parents every time a TV commercial came on.

So what is the difference? The difference is that somewhere along the line, we were taught how to fear. We were taught that we cannot have everything we want, that we have to earn it. We learned to fear confrontation and we learned along the way, how to fear the answer no.

You have unlearn how to fear, you have to learn that a simple no, is not the end of the road. You have to learn that many women, not only are willing to be with you, but if given the chance would actually enjoy the opportunity.

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Seduce a Woman - How to Seduce a Married Woman Into Bed

By Rob Dev

Many women are dissatisfied at home sexually, you could even suggest the most women are dissatisfied at home sexually. Think about what is happening at the home of most married women. Most marriages have lost their spark, spontaneity, creativity and passion. These are the things that women crave. If you want to seduce a married woman, You need to demonstrate that you can bring that back and that it would be harmless fun.

There are many men who believe good women are hard to find. So when a man meets the woman of his dreams or someone to have fun with, he will stop at nothing to seduce her -- even if she already has a lover. So why should you not have what you desire?

Often, the only reason a woman is still married is that she did not like being single and does not wish to return to that life. You can provide exactly what she needs: Fun, spontaneity, risk, adventure. Would the experience itself not be more invigorating? Can you feel the sense of both joy and fear at the same time welling up inside you now?

The technique in this case is of course, much different from one that you would use on a single woman. It will also require more trial and error, and of course, you must be willing to accept failure and move on.But for the men who are more sure and confident, nothing beats the thrill of victory, especially when it feels wrong.

You will need to demonstrate two things. The first, that it really is just harmless fun. The second thing is that it would be fun. A woman is not going to subject herself to that level of risk unless there will be a substantial reward. Provide that reward! Give her the time of your life, and you will both be richly rewarded.

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Seduce a Woman - Another Important Tip on How to Seduce a Woman

By Rob Dev

In the past, I have shown you some specific situations and taught you some techniques for being successful in seducing a woman in those situations. This time, I just wanted to look at a few general tips and some general seduction techniques. In this article, I will discuss one of the single best methods for seducing a woman into bed, being a willing dancer.

Women love a man who can dance: I know this sounds corny but dancing is a known aphrodisiac. Here is the thing that most men do not realize, you don't have to be Fred Astaire. Most of us dance well enough to accompany a woman on the dance floor. Here is an even more important tip, its not your dancing that is going to turn her on, it hers.

That's right, it's her own movements on the dance floor that is going to get her excited and manufacture the hormones. Its the lucky guy who happens to be closest to her who is going to be the recipient of those hormones.

Even if you are not a dancer, and you need a drink to loosen you up first, that is okay, but only one or two. Any more than that and not only will your dancing get worse, but other performances will get worse also. In addition, if you appear too drunk, this is a definite turn-off for women.

First, your smell will be a turn off. Remember, I discussed in a previous article how your smell can be a determining factor in your level of success. Having too much to drink will not only cause you to smell foul, but as far as a woman is concerned, from a instinctively mating perspective. Just enough so that you are loose enough to accompany her on the dance floor is all you need.

But I assure you, once you are on the dance floor and you are close to her, watching her move, you won't need anymore.

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How to Be a Better Lover in Bed - Part II

By Rajgopal Venkataraman

As I mentioned previously in my article on "How To Be A Better Lover In Bed" some mistakes are made by men subconsciously and taking the partner for granted. Sex is all about give and take and the better you give the better you will get!

Here are 5 more mistakes that many men make in the bedroom.

1. Sticking into the bum: It is very common for men who go down on women to start involuntarily playing with the anus. If this is limited to caressing and tickling or even licking it is absolutely fine and the woman will be aroused further. But this is not a license for sticking a finger or two into her anus. Unless she's ok with anal play do not enter this forbidden territory as it is a major turn off.

2. Jamming fingers into her without warning: As for the anus, when you are down on her do not rush and stuff all your fingers into her. Some men dash straight into the pants and begin thrusting as the world is coming to an end the very next minute. Be slow and steady. Start off by rubbing the inner thighs and labia gently, then insert a finger slowly and gently and see how she reacts to it.

3. Leaving her to sleep in a pile of sweaty and sticky linen: If you finish off outside her offer to clean up the mess and change all the sweaty linen. Don't do "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" as no one likes to be left sleeping the whole night on sweaty and sticky linen.

4. Coming too soon: This is a genuine problem that many men face and it is not easy for a woman to have her man come too soon before even she has had a single O. Practice to time your ejaculation along with your partner. If you feel you are about to come too soon pull out of her or slow down on your thrusts or try to contract the muscles like when you hold back a stream of urine voluntarily. Sex is all about timing and get the timing right!

5. Rolling over and drifting off to sleep: This is a strict "no-no". DO NOT turn your back and drift into a deep, snoring sleep right after sex. Instead try to indulge in some passionate kissing, cuddles and sweet nothings whispered into the ear. This will strengthen the bond that the two of you share.

Remember not to do any of these 10 cardinal sins and have a rip-roaring sex life.

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