Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With S

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don't waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when you know what you really want; we all know what you really want. We present a double series of articles for the letter S. The focus here is on scan, screen, and seduce.

S is for scan. Let's say that you arrive at a party alone. If you are really good you can scan the room and quickly determine who might be pleased to leave the party with you. What should you scan for? Obvious answers include sex, age, and if you are uptight about that sort of thing, height. What other factors should you consider? If it is not a costume party I strongly suggest that you avoid anyone in a nun's habit. You may be missing out on one of the most interesting people that you have met in a long time, but... If she is dressed like a hooker (the details vary enormously from culture to culture) then keep scanning. If he is dressed like a Mafioso, I would suggest that sensitive ladies keep scanning. Take a careful look. But remember, you can't judge a book by its cover. And that prim looking person sitting quietly in the corner may be a few hours from a sexual explosion, with you.

S is for screen. Screen your contacts. I'm not talking about dating only movie stars. But make sure that you stay away from the sickos. Meet your blind dates in a public place. Make sure that you can get home alone, on your own. Of course, no screen door can keep out all the insects and vermin.

S is for seduce. There is nothing like seduction. Even most guys will admit that they would rather seduce a gal than have her jump immediately into the sack with them. How to seduce women? That sounds like another article; that sounds like another series of articles. Making promises you know you can't keep is a very low form of seduction. So about the seduction articles, no promises. At this time.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

The Downside of Frequent Sex

By Francis K Githinji

Everybody and especially most marriage counselors encourage couples to have more sex as a way of bringing back passion into their marriage. You tell anybody that you are having more sex and the interpretation is that you must be very happy. Nobody ever thinks that having frequent sex can actually affect your smooth relationship. Yes it can and it makes some women feel like giving it so freely makes the man take her for granted and this in result means less tender loving care is offered to her. Most are the times that it indicates that an ongoing relationship is thriving. However in some situations one or both partners might be using sex as the escape gate for their problems. If a relationship conflict seems too large for a partner, he/she might evade talking about it by having sex whenever the two are together.

In some instances, frequent sex is an indicator of waning feelings to one partner. It might be that every time he sees you he thinks of easy sex. If all over sudden you start having outrageous amount of sex, think twice. It might be because both of you have become more intimate and more closer but unfortunately it might be a sign of some stress factor in or outside the relationship that he/she does not want to address. The quantity of sex might not be a problem only if it is quality romance. What is it like? Does it involve foreplay and kissing? Is it fast and plain? If you feel that the act is impersonal there might be an underlying problem which needs to be overtly worked on.

Frequent sex is not good especially if it is mechanical. A perfuntionary love making does not always result because a partner does not love you. It might be because he feels angered by something and he objectifies you subconsciously. Do not be too fast to accuse him of cheating. You might be the cause of his coldness and you better try to find out before going wild with accusations. Talk to him about it using the right words and the right tone. Lovingly, get an explanation from him as to why the sex is curtailed. Do not just refuse to respond to his sexual advances because he might feel rejected and get even more resentful.

Familiarity breeds contempt. Credit to the person who came up with this saying. When you get used to getting something without much effort you tend to take it for granted. Men who get frequent sex from their women have confessed to getting tired and losing excitement in having the common sex. This is sad but true. Men who do not have frequent sex with their wives and girlfriends treasured the few moments they got intimate. This means that the amount of sex determines its quality. One man likened it to drinking water after a long spell of thirst. The water tastes and feels like something very sweet. There is nothing wrong with frequent sex if it is done with the same thoroughness every time it is done.

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Problems in Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With S

By Levi Reiss

Whether heterosexual, homosexual, or somewhere in the middle we all want to improve our sex life. Who wants to be alone? I really do believe that you can perk up your sex life whoever you are. We present a double series of articles for the letter S. This article focuses on the problems and pitfalls that prevent you from improving your sex life. Another series focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions will help you get what you want. Here we examine sad, scene, and smoke.

S is for sad. I know that opinions are mixed on just about any sex-related issue but I don't think that going around with a sad expression is the way to meet or keep partners. In essence you are saying: "Help me get out of the mess I'm in." And your prospective partner is likely to say: "Why should I bother, I have plenty of problems of my own. Now if I could find someone to help me out of my own situation..." It seems like Dylan from the old 90210 (Beverly Hills) fantasy show was a counter example. If I recall correctly he wasn't sad from a lack of female companions ready to help him deal with his sadness. You can try such a tactic. But don't be sad if it doesn't work.

S is for scene. It's one thing to make the scene. It's another to make a scene. The first is positive, the second is a definite no-no. Let's assume that you're in one of your favorite restaurants and your partner has just announced that his or her status is now that of ex. Whether or not you hear that famous phrase "It's not you, it's me," don't make a scene. No Hollywood talent scout is sitting at the next table waiting to scoop you up. And nobody will be so impressed by your reacting-to-getting-dumped performance that he or she tries to fill the gap in your life. Don't make a scene. Lick your wounds. Take a close look at what went wrong, and why. And get out there and make the scene.

S is for smoke. Don't smoke. It's a filthy, smelly, expensive habit. And it can ruin your health and the health of those you love. I'm a wine lover and I know that drinking in excess is bad as well. On the other hand, and we're not necessarily talking about hands, smoking down there is a good thing. Actually you have to determine the cause of the smoking. A cigarette lighter is definitely out, and dangerous. The chances are that you won't smoke. But you may sizzle.

Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

Great and Funny Sex Facts

By Francis K Githinji

There are some crazy funny sex facts out there, some of them are really hilarious. For example, did you know that during the world war 11, the condoms that were there were used to cover the rifle barrels so that they could not get damaged. Apparently, the salt water could damage the rifle barrels and the only way to be sure that they got across the river safely as the soldiers swam by was by rapping them with condoms. That is very funny. It was also found that thirty years ago,the sperm count of the average American was higher than what it is right now. Doesn't science just make you wonder? And that in India, a condom is too expensive and it is being compared with prostitution. According to some people, it is more expensive to buy a condom than to sleep with a prostitute! That is a sick one.

If you are feeling any kind of pain, the best medicine you can give yourself is sex. They even go further ahead and say that sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. During orgasm in women, endorphins is produced. This is a very good pain killer. Some more funny sex facts for you, if you want to loose weight, relax on going to the gym. Get yourself a good person and have a lot of sex. Sex is known to burn about three hundred calories in an hour. So for every sex you have for an hour you can count the number of calories you are loosing. In some of the states in the united state of America, if your man is impotent, you can file for a divorce and win the case. You no longer have to stick with an impotent person just because you are married.

Did you also know that condoms were made out of linen and they were used in the early 1500's. This people knew right from those years that they needed to protect themselves. The women are the ones who used this linen condoms. They however used the linen condoms to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies and not necessarily diseases. Having sex according to some researchers is also good for skin. They say the during sex, women produce a hormone known as estrogen in large quantities that helps in making their skin and hair look good. There was a scientific test done on this test people, you had better believe it, those are some funny sex facts to wonder about.

When you make love in a gentle manner, you decrease chances of getting some skin conditions. Did you also know that people who make love frequently attract a lot of people of the opposite sex? This is because, people who have sex often give out a chemical known as pheromones which is basically a sex perfume. There are a lot of funny sex facts around that are true, though they are funny and you might not want to believe them they are true. Next time you have sex, think of the many things you could preventing yourself from or you could be curing yourself from and enjoy the act.

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Are You Good in Bed?

By S Choi

You want to be the ONLY one that your partner longs for and desires, loves, and wants in bed? Oh yes...

What if you were good in bed, oh no, absolutely fantastic in bed? Is there a way you can achieve that? absolutely yes!

It's time for you to get free from in-bed anxieties and insecurities.

I know some of you are very reluctant to try new stuff, or too shy or ashamed to even talk about this with your partner, but if you really want your RELATIONSHIP TO WORK, and WORK ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUSLY, YOU NEED TO TAKE A STEP, RIGHT NOW!!

* Try different positions!

* Try eating the right food for harder erection (if you are a guy, of course)

* Lighting and music DO matter!

* Talk sexy!

* Touch in the most effective manner!

* Communicate with your partner

UGH! SO SIMPLE, yet DIFFICULT, if you do not know how. But trust me, these will get you two back into where you used to be. When there were butterflies and sparks! Make your partner long for you! Make him or her want it more and more..I am here to help you and guide you to achieve an improved love life.

Promise me that you will do as i say, then i guarantee you a successful relationship and very satisfying sex.

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Now, your worries are over, just do as i tell you, step by step, and do make sure you do them all to keep an exciting sex life with your loved ones.

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Sexual Seduction Techniques - 3 Personality Traits That Women Find Attractive

By Elle Marchand

Too many men believe that they are not good looking enough to attract and sleep with women. Of course this is not the case. At first glance, it might seem that women want a good looking guy and to be honest, that would make it easier. However, it is such a low percentage of the population that have such high quality good looks that most men would never get action if that were true.

I have compiled a list for you of other considerations and other things that you need to know.

1. Confidence

Whenever you talk to a woman, do so with absolute confidence. No matter what happens, you must across as calm and collected. In addition, it is useful if you come off as the leader. I have always said, and I always will, that we do not just give it away. YOU must seduce us, it probably will not work the other way around.

2. Talk to other Women.

It's a simple truth... Women are attracted to guys who are desired by other women. You can use their competitive nature to make them attracted to you. So if you're working the room, try talking to a bunch of different women. Eventually you'll have a few girls who are competing for your attention.

3. Try not to be too serious.

The "strong-silent" type of guy still attracts women. When you're talking to a woman, don't say too much. Let her carry the conversation. In addition, don't talk about serious things like work, school or family. Instead behave with a strong flirting manner and talk about fun topics.

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Pleasure a Woman - Give Her the Best Oral Sex of Her Life!

By Ben Evans

Being able to give a lady great oral sex is absolutely vital if you want to make her happy in the bedroom and be a great lover. It's also the easiest way to give a woman an orgasm if done correctly and can be a very enjoyable activity for both the man and woman. To be able to pleasure a woman with oral sex, there are a few important things you absolutely must know.

The first thing you must realise is that both women and men can be quite nervous about oral sex. It is a very intimate thing to do and sometimes women worry that the man will be put off by the sight, taste or smell of her most intimate areas.

For this reason, you must reassure her that these things are not an issue and tell her how much you would like to 'go down' on her. If a woman is relaxed and reassured, then she is much more likely to enjoy the whole experience. As a man, you need to enjoy the whole thing. Don't look upon it as something you have to do in order to please her, but something you WANT to do because it is a lot of fun for both of you.

Now you are both feeling good about oral sex, what techniques will actually take her breath away? There are many but the one thing that will give you the edge over any other man is the technique of building tension.

Don't go straight for the goal. Take your time and kiss her whole body first. Make her wonder what you are going to do next. This will drive her crazy and after a few minutes of this she will be putty in your hands. When you finally do progress to oral sex it won't take long for her to orgasm providing you use the right technique and keep a steady rhythm.

There you have it. Due to building tension and making her feel relaxed about oral sex you have now learned a great way to pleasure woman with great oral sex, but don't stop there! Keep practicing and try to make it better every time. There are many other amazing techniques that will make you the best lover she will ever have that you should take the time to learn. To learn these amazing secrets in much more detail, visit How to Pleasure a Woman today.

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Pleasing a Woman Sexually - Do You Make These 3 Critical Mistakes

By Ben Evans

If you want to be a great lover and keep your lady happy in the bedroom department, then there are some key things you need to make sure you DON'T do. Remember that women now expect to lead great sex lives so disappoint them! Pleasing a woman sexually is not an easy task so read on to get the edge over most other men.

One of the most annoying things men do, that all women complain about is rushing. Women take much longer to get aroused then men do so you need to slow down. Enjoy the foreplay and realise that if you put in the work early by being great at foreplay, you will get great benefits later.

Another major mistake most men make is not communicating enough (if at all!). Most women love to talk about sex so you should try to discuss your sex life and learn what your partner enjoys. If you can successfully find out what she loves in bed, you may be able to make love to her like no else ever has and she will adore you for taking the time to do this. This is a major part of pleasing a woman sexually.

The third mistake most men make is not making enough eye contact. Women love the emotional side of sex as well as the physical side. Normally, men only focus on the physical side and therefore, they leave their lovers feeling unfulfilled emotionally. The missionary position is a great position to make lots of eye contact. Next time you have sex with your partner, surprise them by making a strong emotional connection by using lots of eye contact.

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Sex Tips For Virgins - 5 Secret Techniques

By Angelina Andrews

If you are a virgin, it is entirely common for you to approach your first sexual experience with a measure of apprehension. You will have numerous questions running through your head: will I be any good? will she orgasm? will I bleed? will I maintain an erection. It can be a combination of your anxiety and lack of self-confidence that ensure your first sexual encounter will be a disaster. This article will share with you some very powerful sex tips for virgins. If you commit them to memory, I promise your first sexual outing will be more than successful, it will be an explosively enjoyable and perhaps life-changing experience.

1. Will I Bleed / Will She Bleed?

It is common for the female virgin to experience pain and small quantities of bleeding when having sex for the first time. If you are in a hotel room or you do not wish to stain the bed sheets, just place a towel on the bed before getting started. To minimize pain and blood-flow, ensure that you both enjoy plenty of foreplay and use copious amounts of lubricant. Try to forget your anxieties of pain and bleeding. Remember that such side-effects of virgin-sex are natural and entirely common. Spend as much time as possible in foreplay and ensure that both partners have lined themselves with plenty of lubricant.

2. Communicate Desires And Fears

Communication is important in any relationship. Communication before and during sex for the first time is no less important. Share your hopes, share your fears. You will be surprised to learn that you will each have many hopes and fears in common. It is the act of sharing your desires and anxieties that will, ironically, act to reduce them or, perhaps, eliminate them altogether. Knowing, for instance, that you both worry about "being any good" will act to eliminate this anxiety because now you each feel less pressure related to performance because you each know the other is equally worried about his or her performance. The same rationale can be used for each anxiety. When you share your fears and such fears are mirrored by your partner they will, almost magically, disappear.

3. Will I Maintain An Erection?

Let me ask you a question. Do you suffer erectile problems during masturbation? No? Then you will not suffer erectile problems during sex. It is, yet again, anxiety of an act that has yet to happen that may actually cause it to happen. You worry about not maintaining an erection; therefore, you do not maintain an erection. Do you agree? It is true. As a virgin, making love for the first time, you must put this anxiety out of your mind and concentrate on the act of lovemaking. Fear of erectile problems will cause erectile problems. Since you have no problem maintaining an erection normally, there is no biological reason why you should suffer the problem during sexual intercourse. To ensure that you can maintain an erection you must spend much time on initial sex-foreplay;work yourself up to a highly aroused state. Foreplay is also important because, the longer you spend at it, the more your confidence will build and the less chance you will have of losing your erection.

4. Will I Perform Well?

As sex tips for virgins go, this tip seems to be most popular. Why? I think it is because virgins tend to be more anxious about overall sexual performance more than they are about anything else. What is a good performance? A good performance occurs when both parties enjoy the experience. The secret to giving a good sexual performance is concentrating on your partner and ensuring they receive as much pleasure as you are able to give. Let them be the center of your universe. Notice what they seem to like and respond to it appropriately. It is common for virgins to feel uncomfortable during sex and also to make mistakes. If you do make a mistake, just laugh about it. It is common to make mistakes after all. If you laugh about a mistake it makes it seem like nothing at all.

5. Will I Orgasm?

Women tend to orgasm less frequently than men when having sex for the first time. It cannot be said whether you will orgasm or not. However, one thing is certain, you will have more chance of having an orgasm is you do two things. Firstly, you must not worry about having an orgasm. It is not essential to your enjoyment of sex. Secondly, concentrate on the pleasure of lovemaking, so much so that you forget about anxieties and, perhaps, even the world about you. Like most anxieties, the more you worry about orgasm, the less chance you will have of actually having one.

If you follow the five sex tips for virgins, I guarantee your chances of making love successfully for the first time will be greatly improved. Overall, if you take one thing away with you from this article, just remember to relax and concentrate on the beautiful act of lovemaking with your partner.

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Speed Seduction - A Girl's Guide to Real Seduction Secrets Exposed!

By Megan Zoile

Let's take a quick look at speed seduction techniques. Do they work...or are they all JUST a bunch of over hyped, basic tricks that men are tricking each other with to make a few extra bucks? As many of you know, I've been writing about love, lust and sexual health for quite some time...and if you REALLY want to get a competitive advantage in the meat marketplace, you've come to the RIGHT place! Read on..:-)

What is Speed Seduction Anyway?

In MY view? It means hooking up with a guy who just BLOWS me away FAST...and I simply am willing to SKIP the appetizers, main course and head STRAIGHT for desert..:-) Does that happen often? Very rarely....and it's mostly because MOST speed seduction techniques that are being "taught" are simply NOT effective!

Common Speed Seduction Techniques That DON'T Work?

Anything that tries to lump ALL women, and ALL circumstances into some sort of bulk rate approach is FAR more likely to get you laughed at...and turned down, rather than turning HER on...:-)

Speed Seduction Techniques That DO Work?

I can ONLY speak for myself and MY friends...and of course, SOME things I can't share here! But the family friendly answer is be INTERESTED (rather than trying so hard to be interesting) and you'll find that you are SUCH a refreshing romantic change from what she's used to, that you will become MAGNIFICENTLY alluring and seductive, almost by accident.

Women find confidence very sexy and seductive. But we ALSO find men who get up close...and are mesmerizingly attentive INCREDIBLY magnetic and irresistible as well! Get it ALL going fast...and so TOO will she fall under your spell in a hurry!

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