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October 28, 2008

How to Turn Your Girl on With Touch - Warning! Only For Men Who Want to Drive a Girl Wild!

By Megan Zoile

Okay guys, in this article we are going to talk about some VERY sexy ways to turn your girl on.....in some pretty unusual ways! If you are like many of the men who are reading this, you are CONSTANTLY on the look out for some easy and erotic ways to turn your woman on in new and inventive ways! The simple truth is that erotic touch is one of the FASTEST, easiest and most exciting ways to do JUST that...in a memorable and unforgettable way to boot! Read on as we take a closer look..:-)

Filed Under: Sensationally Sexy Tactile Touch Techniques

Women are FAR more sensory creatures than men...and simple, erotic techniques that stimulate her senses, AND her sense of emotional connection to you are REALLY effective in driving her wild!

Want to know some things that amp UP the erotic energy...without having to go out and buy anything expensive?

Ice: Can be a VERY erotic sensation.....a cool down that REALLY heats things up in a hurry..:-) The sensation created against hot skin can be delectably delicious for her, trust me!

A Feather Duster: You may THINK this one sounds unusual....but it's one of the most EROTIC sensations your girl can experience! This is a good one to surprise her with.....simply have it handy and break it out at the right moment and watch her wild reaction..:-)

Other ideas? Use your imagination. Some women LOVE to have their back scratched, others enjoy the tactile titillation of soft substances....you simply have to pick and choose and find out what YOUR girl likes! You won't regret it....I promise!


And One Last thing.....Remember:

Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable). You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-)

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Forbidden Female Sex Fantasies - 3 Common Sex Fantasies Most Women Have (I Told You These Were Hot!)

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to take a look at some forbidden female sex fantasies. One of our readers recently wrote in with a question about HIS girl's erotic fantasies and wanted to know if they were normal! So if you are wondering the same thing....read on as we shine a BRIGHT light on the often SECRET world of female sex fantasies! Read on..:-)

Q: My Girlfriend told me a few weeks ago that she often fantasized about having sex with a stranger. (even though she promised she would NEVER do it!) Should I be worried? Thanks, Rick

A: Hi Rick! It's a great question...and the truth is, it's actually FAR more common than you would think. The good news is, it's also VERY infrequently acted out, so you most likely have NOTHING to worry about. Here are 3 very common female sex fantasies that LOTS of women have, but very few actually follow through with, as they are often FAR better to relegate to make believe!

Stranger Sex: Yes, like Rick's girl, women often have recurring fantasies about having sex with a complete stranger. Many psychologists and sex therapists believe this is because of the societal taboo we place on women and anonymous sex ( whereas the same doesn't exist for men) In a sense - this fantasy act is one MORE of rebellion...than of cheating or being "easy".

Sex in Public Places. This is FAR more popular than you would think as a female fantasy! Very few women admit to ever doing it (less than 10%) but LOTS of women find the thought to be a tremendous turn on. Some women have gone as far as fantasizing about having sex in the middle of a athletic stadium, or in the middle of Times Square. It doesn't get much MORE public than that!

Rough Sex: Yes, this is a very common one as well. Some women claim to be excited about the thought of more aggressive sex....but of course, this is only something you should try when you are BOTH comfortable and in complete agreement. ( not something you should ASSUME your girl is interested in before you ask, that's for sure!) Women often claim to be HIGHLY aroused by a larger man, as this type of encounter can feel very primal and lustful for many of us!


And One Last thing...Remember:

Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable). You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-)

So Click Here to become a more Powerful lover and give her an ORGASM so STRONG ...she'll scream your name in her sleep!

Female Orgasm Difficulties - 2 Helpful Tips You Can Try Today

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to talk some more about female orgasm problems. The simple truth is that many women report having orgasms for a wide variety of reasons, and often the BIGGEST problem men have in figuring it out is simply not ASKING..:-) But many of you have continued to ask about specific issues related to your specific situation....so let's take a quick look at some common problems you (and your girl) may be facing together. Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Stress and Anxiety

Did you know that one of the BIGGEST reasons women have difficulty orgasming has NOTHING to do with you and your performance, rather it has EVERYTHING to do with her level of stress. When surveyed by a popular women's magazine, about 25% of the women claimed their most significant problem was a BAD day! What can you do to fix it? This is EASY! Slow down, pay MORE attention to the rest of her, get her nice and relaxed....and then amp UP the erotic energy. Will make her FAR happier - and much more sexually satisfied to boot!

Filed Under: Phenomenal Foreplay

Make NO mistake guys...no matter how many times you hear it, this is STILL one of the biggest reasons why women don't orgasm with you. You can try every position known to man, read every book and go to ALL of the best restaurants before hand. But until you learn to simply spend MORE time enjoying the rest of her body before sex....she simply will NEVER have the kind of mind melting orgasmic experiences you BOTH want her to have. And trust me....if your NOT giving them to her, she's silently fantasizing about someone who will!


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Bring a Woman to Orgasm - Common Questions (and Answers) About Women and Orgasms

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to examine problems you may be having with bringing your woman to orgasm. The very FIRST thing you should know is that you CERTAINLY are NOT alone! According to the most recent research, as we grow more and more willing to share our sexuality, women are reporting epidemic levels of difficulty achieving orgasm with their man. Amazingly of course, the reasons for these problems are PRETTY easy to fix, if you know the right erotic answers..:-) ( and the right questions to ask) Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Why do Women Take So LONG to Achieve Orgasm?

It's a great question, and pretty easy to explain. A woman has a sexual response cycle that is FAR longer than a man's. In other words, a man can become aroused quickly, and achieve orgasm fairly quickly. ( often times far TOO quickly..:-) Conversely, a woman's body ordinarily goes through a very specific set of "levels" of arousal before she is able to culminate in climax.

Filed Under: What is the BEST Way to Speed it Up for Her?

Ironically, the easiest way to expedite HER orgasm is by slowing down your OWN. If you ask women worldwide what the biggest problem they face with their partners, they will tell you almost universally - Time. As in...NOT enough. If you truly want to see your girl achieve orgasm, all you need to do is slow down, relax, and spend FAR more time attending to her body and HER sexual needs. Often a 5 or 7 minute in extra foreplay, massage or even simply hot and spicy conversation can go a LONG way in giving her the kind of gifts she's been waiting for. The rewards for both of you will be WELL worth it, I promise!


And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight ...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-)

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3 Questions Men Ask About Sex - (Here Are Some of My Personal Favorites!)

By Megan Zoile

Okay guys, are you ready to see some more common questions our readers are asking about sex? If YES, you are in luck....because we're going to share 3 more popular ones below! The simple truth is that NO question is too silly to ask, and if you are like many of the men who read our popular online Men's magazine, you most likely have a lot MORE questions about women and sex than you have good answers..:-)

Want to know what I find most interesting? The the very same questions you are asking are coming up over and over again. (no pun intended..;-) So with this in mind let's review a few recent questions, and some (hopefully!) helpful answers as well! I hope that this helps you on your quest to being a more informed lover! Read on..:-)

Categorized: I've Heard That Sex Drive Diminishes with Age....Is this True?

Actually it's not! Did you know that both men and women, on average alike, report NO change in their desire for sex even over the age of 55? It's true...and why it's SO important to pick a partner who shares YOUR love for sex now...especially if you think it's a relationship that's going to go the distance!

Categorized: How Come I perform Better AFTER I've Had a Few Drinks? Is this normal?

Actually...it's NOT, and you probably only THINK you're performing better..:-) After 4 ounces of alcohol, a man's ability to maintain an erection is diminished and performance suffers in all kinds of other ways as well. A woman may find her desire amplified as well....but her ability to orgasm goes down exponentially with every ounce of alcohol she drinks!

Categorized: Will Masturbation Help Me Become a Better Lover?

Strangely (or maybe NOT so strangely!) the answer is in fact YES! Men who masturbate regularly can have FAR more control over their ability to perform longer, and have a better understanding their bodies "boiling points" to boot! For women...it's slightly different, BUT, similarly, a woman who understands exactly what she likes, and what feels best for her, is MUCH more likely to be able to communicate that well with her partner.


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Learn Male G Spot Massage Orgasm by Educational Video

By Maurice Tate

For a man, an orgasm achieved through the male g spot is an extremely pleasurable experience. The male g spot, or prostate gland, provides a source of intensity for men unlike any other. While the prostate is located fairly close to the anal opening, sometimes men find it helpful to consult male g spot videos to learn proper techniques.

Male g spot videos are very useful tools for preventing discomfort or injury. In order for a man to achieve orgasm or simply experience the powerful effects of prostate stimulation, the anus is the only route. Since the anus and anal canal are such delicate areas, male g spot videos can provide helpful solutions for making the experience as comfortable as possible.

Another practical function of male g spot videos is to teach different methods of stimulation. While many men gain pleasure from stroking the prostate area, male g spot videos usually explain other approaches, including touching, teasing, or wiggling a finger to set off powerful sensations. For men who are ready to share the experience with a partner, male g spot videos are an invaluable source of information.

There are a variety of male g spot videos on the market, but not all are created equal. It is important to find a video that is easy to follow, instructive, and informal. While many people find erotic videos arousing, they should not be used as educational tools. There is a significant difference between male g spot videos specifically designed for learning purposes and those intended for pure entertainment.

Reaching new heights of pleasure through the male g spot is an incredible way for man to grow sexually, especially those who share the experience with a partner. Once the best technique has been found, renting or buying male g spot videos with a significant other can become a new part of any sexual relationship.


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Want to Know How Tight a Condom Should Be?

By Francis K Githinji

How tight should a condom be? This is the question that many men ask themselves. It is perfectly alright to wonder because studies have revealed that many men have this question in the back of their minds. A condom is used by a man during sexual intercourse to protect his partner from sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. A condom must be fitted to an erect penis. In the recent past, there were standard size condoms which did not take into consideration the various sizes. Consequently, many men have had to use condoms that are too tight or too loose. Experts say that condoms should fit snugly. This means that they should fit just right. There are very many incidents where the condoms break and others just slip off. It is truly a topic of concern that condom manufacturers are taking very seriously. There are manufacturers who have started to produce large size condoms.

There are also smaller condoms and, you will have to know what fits you best. Just like a bra size or a shoe size, condoms have revolutionalized and come with many options; tailor made just for you. Trojan and Durex have been on the forefront to produce condoms that come with a variety of sizes. Therefore, the next time you ask how tight a condom should be. You will have the opportunity to choose. There are men who have stated that some condoms are hard to put on and, fit very tightly to a point of being painful. If you have experienced this, you need to stop in your tracks and find a solution the problem. A condom should never cause pain to your little man. Other concerns that men have had about condoms is that, they make them loose an erection. Let us face it; most men do not like to wear condoms. There have been cases where condoms have been reported to interfere with the mood. However, experts claim that it is all in the brain. Men, who have had problems grappling with how tight a condom should be, find it difficult to get into the mood when a condom is in question.

Therefore, when you are a man seeking to enjoy yourself to the fullest, it is probably wise to make sure you get a condom that fits. Another thing that you can consider while putting on the condom is lubrication. This makes it easier and convenient. Many men have been known to use Vaseline or petroleum for this. You should never use these petroleum products or hand creams. They may cause vaginal infection to your woman. Since they are based on gasoline, they will also destroy latex which makes condoms. Look for water soluble lubricants like Glide and Aqua lube. The products can be bought in drugstores and large markets. If you are asking how tight a condom should be, know that it should be just right for you. Getting the perfect condom will not only improve your sex life but, it will also improve your relationship.


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Tips on How to Select the Condom Size

By Francis K Githinji

Every man wants to know how to pick a condom size. This is for the obvious reason that men come in different shapes and sizes. Women have also developed a keen interest when it comes to how to pick condom size for their men. These is a good thing because it shows that more and more people are coming out the pit of ignorance and, are willing to learn more about issues that affect them. The first thing you consider is the kind of brand you like. Trojan and Duplex are some of the leading manufacturers. Just like you choose the brand of your cloths or any other product, you have to consider which product you think will work best for you. When you have considered this, find out whether they manufacture condoms of different sizes or just standard ones. Variety is very vital when you are thinking of how to pick a condom size. If they offer variety, it is time to ask yourself what your penis size is. I'm not sure whether you know exactly what your size is. Every man probably rates themselves as small, medium or large.

However, you need to go a step further and measure what your size is exactly. This must be done on a hard and erect penis. Using a ruler is the best way to get your size in centimeters. When you have the numbers, you will be better placed to reading the label of various sizes as you choose. On how to pick condom size, there are other things that come to play that ensure your feel is just right. I'm talking about how to put it on and take it off. Many young men who are doing this for the first time may find several pitfalls a long the way. However, this information will enable you escape them and, make sure you use a condom the way you are supposed to. You already know that you should wear it on a hard and erect penis.

This is usually the guideline that is provided by the manufacturing company. There have been very many concerns that condoms affect the sexual mood. Instead of rolling up a condom, you should try pulling it like a sock. Make sure you do not damage the condom with your nails. This is one cause of it ripping off. The splitting of condoms is caused by many things among them being damage by teeth, knives, pencils and others. Lack of experience is another cause of breakage. Another thing is lack of lubrication. If this is not present you will create an unusual friction that will be conducive for the breakage. If your penis size is too big, you will definitely break the condom if, it is not compatible. You should never use a lubrication that is not based on water or silicone. Another thing you need to be careful about on how to pick condom size is never to pick a condom that is expired. It is therefore vital not to forget such vital details. Take time before you choose the ideal condom for your use. You will not regret this.


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Learn How to Talk Dirty - How to Make it Easy!

By Duncan Roberts

Do you want to know how to learn to talk dirty the easy way? Well it isn't rocket science, but it can be nerve wracking if you've never taken this particular little walk on the wild side.

One thing you need to ask yourself at the beginning to help you settle into the right frame of mind is 'WHY' are you thinking about how to learn to talk dirty?

Is it because it's something you really want to give a shot at, or is it something your guy is pressuring you to learn?

Any kind of new sexual boundary you want to explore, it should never be just because your guy is pressuring you and asking you to do it. It should always be something you yourself are interested in trying, otherwise you are just creating a recipe for disaster within your relationship.

You will end up resenting each other, him because it's like pulling teeth to get you to try something new, and you because you will feel he is forcing you to do something you're not ready to do. An unpleasant situation no matter which way you look at it!

So, any new sexual adventures you decide to undertake should always be something you mutually agree on and are into trying. All of that being said, if how to learn to talk dirty is still a burning question rolling around in your mind, there are many resource you can look at to help you learn, without completely embarrassing yourself.

You can do a bit of online research on talking dirty, for one thing. There are hundreds of self help websites on bringing the sexual spice back into a relationship, and talking dirty is one of the top ways on the list. You can, of course, watch a few adult movies to get some ideas, but I wouldn't recommend that too much, as most are very over exaggerated, and might wind up only making you more nervous about the whole scenario. (Also, it can be really hard to keep a straight face and not burst out laughing when watching such films as they are so badly made - even the big budget porn films seem comical!)

Another, and better, idea is to read a steamy novel, and draw some ideas from that to apply to your own lover's romp.

Another well worn and age old method is to get some advice by asking your girlfriends how they do it! Although you are more than likely going to get a wide range of do's and don'ts if you go that route, as every girl has a different take on talking dirty to a guy.

Some key points that apply to every situation and relationship though.

Always remember to be yourself and do and say what comes naturally to you.

Don't force yourself to say something that makes you uncomfortable, and give yourself permission to be a little silly with the scenario.

You and your guy should agree not to make fun of each other, and just see what happens.

It's OK to laugh and enjoy yourself.

The idea is to bring some spice to your bedroom, and it doesn't have to be X rated spice for it to be effective, nor is it hard to get the ball rolling.


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