Examples of Talking Dirty - Simple Yet Stunningly Effective

By Rufus Steele

With something as potentially involved as talking dirty, learning what to say is just as important as learning how to say it.

You could just try lying back and saying the first thing that comes into your imagination but that does sort of depend on how good and free ranging your imagination is.

When you are not quite on the boil and feeling off key, actually thinking of something to say can be seriously difficult.

Now, this article being printed on a family site, it's a bit hard to actually give you any written examples of dirty talk.

But what we can do is point your imagination in the right direction for finding examples of dirty talk.

Apart from the obvious source, there are a couple of great resources you could use.

The first would be via an adult film. Now granted, the majority of conversation in these films wouldn't exactly gain a pass mark in the most basic of English exams but there are quite a few snippets of comments and lines spoken that you can easily use when alone with your partner.

Heck, why not go even further with this idea? If you and your partner would be comfortable enough, why not watch a film together? Make it fun as opposed to just sitting watching - start watching the film together and then one of you hits the mute key. The other partner then has to provide the speaking parts to the action on screen. This will either end up as a great laugh or a pleasant surprise as you find your partner or you are actually very good at articulating in dirty talk the action playing on screen!

Second option is to buy one or two adult books. No, I don't mean the kind that come in glossy covers perched high on the top shelf that help Hugh be able to afford even more dressing gowns - I mean the book type books!

There are adult books to sort all favor of taste and desire - finding something that lights your fire should not be a problem at all.

Once you have the book, again you have two options. Either read it to yourself prior to settling down with your partner, using what you have just read as examples and suggestions for you to expand on or actually read some of the juicier passages out to him. If you find something especially intoxicating to you both, make him act out what s written with you!

Finally, if neither of these ideas appeal - you can always just cast your mind back to any previous times you have enjoyed making love with your partner. Remember what he did, what you did and how it felt. The simply talk to him about it, tell him what you remember, how it made you feel and why it gave you pleasure.

How to Talk Dirty to My Boyfriend - Dealing With the Hardest Bit, Getting Started

By Duncan Roberts

Without going into your reasons and motivation for talking dirty to your boyfriend (because there is another article in that subject alone!) you are faced with a second choice to make following your first of deciding to actually talk dirty to him.

How do you get started?

More specifically, how do you get started in such a way that you don't surprise him so much he jumps out of bed thinking you are someone else, trip over the discarded clothes left strewn around the floor in your build up of lust and end up breaking his leg?

Well, there are a couple of things that you can do to 'ease' him into this new found pleasure.

Let's take a clinical view of your relationship for a second shall we?

Is your boyfriend or relationship the type where you tend to talk about most things in an open and free manner?

If it is, you have the option to actually ask him outright if he fancies you talking dirty and vice versa. Now I don't mean you should include it as just any other old subject like who's parents you are visiting this weekend and what shopping needs picking up from the store later - take a break, take a walk or have a 5 minute cuddle on the sofa and gently broach the subject, something along the lines of "Baby, I was just thinking the other day, remembering some of the great sessions we've had together in bed and out of it. The nicest thing was, as I was thinking about it all, I found I was getting quite aroused again - and that led me to think about trying talking dirty sometime. Would you like that, would you enjoy it do you think?"

Excellent way of broaching the subject and getting his feedback. Your explaining to him that just thinking about you and him together does it for you and you'd like to introduce another level of pleasure, verbal stimulation!

If you're both talkers and communicate - he'll answer you, don't worry!

But what if you aren't great talkers or you feel to shy to actually ask him first? How do you deal with introducing it now?

Here's what you do.

Break him in gently.

If you launch into your first session as soon as his hand touches you, reeling off the 15 most famous Porn film lines of all time - he'll pass out probably.

Be subtle, move into it slowly and gently.

Introduce it during some mutual foreplay or build up play.

Tell him how what he is doing to you makes you feel. Slip in a sentence here and there that is descriptive and emotional:-

"I love it when you touch me there like that, it makes me feel all tingly everywhere"

"Your touch is so gentle and soft, it really does turn me on."

If your boyfriend doesn't shy away or look at you as though you have suddenly developed two heads (don't worry, he won't!) then carry on talking softly, almost whispering.

And this is important - don't talk normally, don't shout. Whisper, murmur or even mumble. By lowering your voice and whispering, you create a sensed air of privacy, intimacy and closeness between just the two of you - and that will help your boyfriend join in, enjoy and ultimately want to participate in talking dirty!

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How to Achieve a Fulfilling Sexual Relationship

By Tristan Bailey

An active and healthy sex life is usually a source of great pleasure and enjoyment, but it can also cause a great deal of stress between couples. Even if you have a fulfilling sex life that satisfies your desires, you may still worry about how normal your relationship is compared to other couples.

A great sex life is not dependant on frequency or performance and each person will have their own definition of what constitutes a fulfilling sexual relationship. If your sex life satisfies your desires and makes you and your partner feel good you have nothing to worry about and you should not be concerned with what other people get up to in the bedroom.

Its common for couples to wonder how normal their sex life is and compare it with their friends and people they know to see if there are any differences. The problem is that there is no single definition of what a normal sex life actually is and each person will have their own opinion about it. What one person thinks is normal may not be for someone else.

With so many different cultural and religious beliefs in today's society, its impossible to define exactly what a normal sex life actually is. Couples may even disagree with each other about what a normal sexual relationship should be so its important to find a compromise that will meet each other's needs.

While the average married couple may have intercourse several times per week, it doesn't mean that this is a normal sex life that all couples should strive to achieve. Some couples may only have intercourse once per week or every few weeks, while other couples may have intercourse as many as twenty times or more per week.

A fulfilling sexual relationship should be whatever makes you happy, so it doesn't matter about the frequency and performance, as long as both you and your partner are satisfied. No matter how many times you have intercourse per week, its within the range of normal human experience and should not be considered abnormal.

We all have our own sexual fantasies and desires, but as long as they don't lead to emotional or physical discomfort they should not be a cause for concern. Achieving harmony in a relationship, both emotionally and physically, should be the first priority as this will lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life between you and your partner.

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Christian Sex - How to Get My Wife to Initate Sex

By Chess McDoogle

If you are in a healthy Christian relationship, then sex should be a mutually satisfying venture, where both couples should have the desire to initiate it. So what happens when your Christian wife won't initiate sexual intimacy? It tends to leave the husband in an awkward position where he may feel that this shared intimacy is one-sided.

How to get my Christian wife to want to initiate sex?

1. First you want to make sure some basic satisfactions are being met. Is your wife really being satisfied sexually? Often times the reason why she won't initiate intimacy, is because she isn't fully being satisfied. This isn't always the husbands fault, especially if he isn't fully aware of it. The wife should take action herself and realize that sex is an amazing gift from God that should be experienced to the fullest and to the most enjoyable extent as possible. So work on really trying to please you wife during intimacy. See #3 for ways to accomplish this.

2. Erase the guilt factor. Many times there is this ingrained guilt attached to Christian sex. Even whether the person realizes it or not, guilt may be present and likely was a product of earlier experiences or teachings where sex was seen as something sinful. It can take a while to mature and finally realize that Christian sex is actually a joyous celebration and a very important part of a Christian relationship. But even realizing this, there may still lie some dormant guilt. Many times the wife will experience this dormant guilt, and won't be able to initiate sex on her own. Once you realize this, you can begin to work at dispensing that guilt by introducing literature, lectures, and teachings to your wife that all speak about the underlying effects of Christian intimacy guilt.

3. Finally, the best way to tackle the issue of how to get your Christian wife to initiate sex, is simply by getting a Christian sex manual which deals with this issue, and many more. It can provide actual step by step methods which you can employ to increase wife sex initiation. It will also provide you with tons of new and exciting ways that you can satisfy your wife sexually. All these techniques are "Christian safe", so any fears of sin or guilt will be negated.

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G Spot Positions - Try These Sex Positions to Hit Your Woman's G Spot During Sex

By Susan Johnsson

G-spot orgasms are one of the most intense pleasures you can give a woman. To achieve this, you need to have the right technique and positions so you can stimulate it. The G-spot isn't always easy to find, as it is only the size of a quarter.

Let us look at 3 powerful sex positions to give your partner mind blowing orgasms;

Ride 'Em Cowboy

This is a "woman on top" position which gives all the control to her. She will be able to control the speed and the depth at which you penetrate her. This will allow for pinpointing where the g-spot is. You should communicate with your partner and find out which side she needs you to move. Once you have both found the g-spot, you can stimulate it by gently rocking back and forth.

Doggy Style

The doggy style allows for a deep penetration, and will enable you to stimulate the g-spot. Have your partner go down on all fours, then penetrate her from the rear. You can further improve the angle at which you hit the g-spot by having your legs spread outside hers, then leaning forward as you push in.

Your Highness

This is a great position because it allows you to look into each other's eyes. You can perform this in any place, on the sofa or coffee table. Have your partner spread her legs open, and rest them on your shoulder. You can then penetrate her from a kneeling or standing position. This will allow you to thrust and stimulate the G-spot.

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How to Make Her Orgasm Stunningly Fast

By Susan Johnsson

To make your partner orgasm very fast, you need to get her warmed up and highly aroused before starting sexual intercourse. Since women take longer than men to reach orgasm, you must spend time to get the mood and atmosphere right for intercourse.

The best way to start is by speaking to your partner about it, and open her mind to the thought of powerful orgasms. This will be beneficial as a woman needs to be turned on mentally and emotionally in order to reach orgasm.

Get her talking about her fantasies. Ask your partner to tell you about her wildest fantasy. By getting her to talk, you will know what to do to get her really worked up. This is a sure way to satisfy her, as this is what she wants, thus giving it to her will drive her crazy with ecstacy.

It cannot be stated enough that spending time on foreplay is a must. It is the foundation needed for any sexual engagement to be a success. Also, make a point of not rushing through it. Try to dedicate up to 45 minutes on foreplay alone. When engaging in foreplay do your best to make it as exciting as possible, and build anticipation levels until the moment of penetration.

Learn some of the many positions you can engage in, and try to create your own scenarios, as well as the fantasies of your partner. Changing your approach to foreplay and love making will turn it into something to look forward to, and not just another routine of the day.

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Achieve What Most Men Fail - Get Her to Orgasm From Intercourse Alone

By Kat Williams

Most women finish a sexual encounter feeling dissatisfied. This is because, in most cases, she did not reach orgasm from the efforts of her partner. Now this is not strictly the man's fault, there are many things a woman can do to maximize her experience. However, most men who are successful in any endeavor, do so by taking responsibility for all outcomes. So why not take responsibility for getting your woman to climax from intercourse alone?

For starters, you can take responsibility without taking it personal. According to a survey of over 500 women, by sex therapists Solot and Miller, only 6% of women climax strictly from sexual intercourse. Most women can only climax through masturbation, either with their own hands or with a vibrator. Many women have better luck climaxing through oral stimulation.

If you feel you have been unsuccessful in getting your woman to climax through intercourse alone, do not be ashamed to try other means, initially. The more she reaches orgasm, through any means, the easier it become for her to reach orgasm through intercourse. A complex neural muscular system is responsible for the female orgasm and it requires training and practice just like any other neural muscular system.

Practice using your fingers and mouth on your woman before intercourse. While doing so, listen to her vocalizations and pay attention to the tensing of her muscles and movement of her body. Learn what motions she enjoys.

Foreplay: Foreplay is the most consistently overlooked stage of the sexual encounter. Stimulate her as much as possible before intercourse. And not just sexually. Remember, a woman's brain is her largest sexual organ. Through sensitive, sensual and prolonged foreplay you are building sexual tension in her mind and body that only orgasm can relieve.

Talk to her in a low, passionate, yet masculine fashion. Practice teasing her with gentle touches from lips or fingers. Don't give her what she wants immediately! When touching her erogenous zones, start light with hints of what's to come. Whisper in her ear and tease her with your lips. Learn how to seduce her with eye contact. Let your eyes express to her your desire and virility.

Do your best to stimulate her as much as possible, through gaze, speech, touch before touching intimate areas. Always start gently! Every woman likes to be touched differently and you may even have her guide or show you how she masturbates herself. Pay attention to place, pace and pressure.

Intercourse: Experiment with different positions. Let her take a female dominant position so she can be in control. Some women only climax through rear-entry positions. Many women are benefiting from Coital Aligned Technique (C.A.T).

Be sensitive and aware. Experiment and vary depth, pace and motion of your hips. Experiment in finding the right spot and the right motion then "lock in"!

Communication: Yes it is your responsibility to be sensitive and aware of the many non-verbal cues a woman will provide, either voluntary or non-voluntary. But you can't read minds and shouldn't be expected to do so. Ask her what she enjoys!

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