Sexuality Tips For You.

November 2, 2008

Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

By Tyler Privado

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie... but that doesn't guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there's one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies... what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there's no emotion it'll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn't seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was "forbidden" love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:


  • Having a special romantic evening

  • Teasing your lover

  • Having sex somewhere "naughty"

  • Abstaining... for a while

  • Playing out fantasies

  • Trying something "forbidden"

  • Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex... and who doesn't want that?


Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he'd had in the past, he decided to do something about it. Visit his website to find out how to make love to a woman's mind and body and download his free report "Why You Might Be Bad In Bed... And What To Do About It."

He prides himself on being different and avoiding unnecessary hype and huge promises. While other "sex gurus" promise mind bending multiple orgasms from super ninja g-spot techniques invented by Tibetan monks... he focuses on the power of a woman's mind for creating a powerful sexual response that lasts a lot longer than a night of passion.

If you're ready for the real, straight forward answers about amazing your lover in the bedroom, check out his website for more free information and articles.

Giving a Woman an Orgasm - Techniques!

By T. Lee

Okay, you just finished making love with a woman and you got YOUR orgasm but she didn't get HERS. She would have told you by now if she did and you don't want to spoil the moment of your intimacy by asking her, "So did you up end getting an orgasm?" Here are a few "giving woman an orgasm techniques" to help you increase your sexual experience with her.

Giving Woman an Orgasm Technique #1

Find the right psychology setting for you two to make love. If your room looks like an office cell, her internal senses won't be turned on quickly. Woman liked to feel that they like they are being courted, so you need to find a way to add some romance. To steam up the environment, sometimes all you need is some soft music playing in the background or some colorful scented candles placed in right areas around the room. This is the first step when planning to give her a HUGE orgasm later on.

Giving Woman an Orgasm Technique #2

Build up and foreplay is everything! Once you have the right psychology setting for her, start by working around her body. Whatever you do, remember that everything will eventually lead back to her vagina. Excite her by treating her skin as the most delicate thing on earth, not by forcefully groping her flesh until later stages. Touch and kiss will be your most valuable assets. Massage her shoulders, graze your hand over her face, and kiss her on her most sensitive areas like her neck and her inner thighs. Do this for a good amount of time. You'll drive her CRAZY by doing this for an extended period of time before she'll start signaling for you make the first sexual advance.

Giving Woman an Orgasm Technique #3

Once you're in her, pay close attention to her responses. Some women are more physical during sex while others express their feelings through their vocals. If she starts to grab you, meaning "go faster" then you need to go slower... If she begins to moan louder, you need to slow down... You want to increase the pace during one point, but then decrease the pace during another and doing this through multiple cycles. Also remember, you DO NOT want to orgasm before she does, since your primary goal is to pleasure her needs first. Build up AS MUCH of that anticipation as possible like a boiling volcano just ready to erupt at any minute, as this will help you give her an explosive orgasm later on.

These are just some "giving woman an orgasm techniques" that you should be aware of in order to fully pleasure a woman and give her the sexual experience that she's been craving for days. Good luck!


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Foreplay Tips - 3 Important Tips to Help Your Woman Become Extremely Aroused

By Susan Johnsson

Without foreplay, your woman will find it very difficult to enjoy intercourse, and therefore will take much longer to reach a climax. As a matter of fact, she might not achieve an orgasm at all. Foreplay helps to slowly and gradually turn your woman on. Unlike men, women need time to be aroused, and foreplay ensures that it happens.

By helping your woman to be aroused, she will be lubricated naturally, and therefore will be ready to enjoy intercourse with you. Because she is able to enjoy intercourse, she can concentrate all her efforts on enjoying the moment, thus making it easier for her to reach powerful climaxes.

In order to get the best out of foreplay, you need to make sure that you follow some basic rules:

- When you begin to kiss your woman, make sure that you understand that there are different types of kisses for different types of situations. For instance, the way you would passionately kiss your woman during intercourse would be totally different to when you are initiating foreplay with her. During foreplay, your kisses should be light, dry, and slow. This will allow your woman to enjoy the details of every kiss that you give to the surface of her skin.

- When you use your hands, don't grope your woman like someone that has not been with a woman for 20 years because he just came out of prison. Instead, caress her skin with your fingers in a slow manner, and gradually work your way around her whole body, especially the erogenous zones.

- Don't go straight for her most intimate parts. Take the time to slowly and gradually move in that direction, and while you are doing that, constantly tease her. This will create anticipation within her mind. By the time you finally reach your woman's most intimate areas of her body, she'll be in such an erotic high, that it will be easy for her to reach powerful orgasms.


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Female Orgasms - How to Stimulate Your Woman to Reach Two Types of Orgasms

By Susan Johnsson

In order to give your woman an orgasm without any difficulty, you need to first understand what type of orgasm you would like to give her. By doing this, it will enable you to use the right techniques to help you achieve that particular type of orgasm.

For instance, if you would like to give your woman a clitoral orgasm, the techniques would be different to the techniques used for giving her a g-spot orgasm.

Let us take a look at how these two types of orgasms should be stimulated;

To effectively stimulate the clitoris, you would need to use a rubbing motion directly or indirectly on it. The best way is to start is by gently rubbing around the areas of the clitoris, and once you feel your woman is sufficiently aroused, you would then begin to stimulate directly on the clitoris. You would then continue to do this until she achieves an orgasm.

It is important to know that during stimulation of the clitoris, you always make sure that it is sufficiently lubricated. By not lubricating the clitoris before and during stimulation, you will cause discomfort and pain to your woman in that area.

The best way to stimulate the g-spot is by means of pressure, not rubbing. This can be achieved by either tapping your fingers directly against the g-spot, in a gentle yet firm manner. You would continue to do this until it reaches an orgasm.

By understanding the different ways of stimulation to these areas, you will be able to effectively use the right techniques, sex positions, and approach to help your woman achieve powerful orgasms.


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Female Orgasms - How to Give Your Woman Powerful Orgasms During Intercourse Every Time

By Susan Johnsson

If you really want to learn the art of intercourse, you need to understand that there is a lot more involved than just thrusting away in the hopes that if you do it enough times, your woman will achieve powerful orgasms. The reality is that this is far from the truth.

First of all, there is more than one type of orgasm that a woman can have through vaginal intercourse. In addition to this, each type of orgasm has to be stimulated in a different way. For instance, if you would like to give your woman a g-spot orgasm, stimulation by pressure to that area is the best way to achieve this. However, if you wish to give your woman a clitoral orgasm, stimulation by rubbing is the best way to achieve it.

By understanding this, you can then begin to realize why there is more involved in vaginal intercourse than just thrusting away. Think about it, in order to achieve any type of orgasm, it would make sense to angle your penis in such a way that it can stimulate the area that is capable of achieving that particular type of orgasm. It is also important to realize that depth and motion of thrust will also play an important part in successfully stimulating the area that is capable of achieving that type of orgasm.

By using this is of common sense, you will be saving yourself a lot of frustration. You will be able to effectively give your woman any type of orgasm that is possible through vaginal intercourse with the ease that you would have never thought was possible. Your partner will also enjoy it more, because she will finally have the right spots stimulated during intercourse.


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Cunnilingus Tips to Give Your Woman Exhilarating Orgasms

By Susan Johnsson

Cunnilingus can be one of the most amazing feelings that a woman can experience if it is done correctly. Another great advantage to cunnilingus, is that it is the easiest way in which to give your woman an orgasm.

The reason for this is because it allows your mouth to directly stimulate the clitoris. Because your mouth naturally lubricates itself, is easy to stimulate the clitoris without causing it to feel too sensitive, thus allowing your woman to achieve the most exhilarating orgasms that she is only ever imagined.

In order to improve your techniques in cunnilingus, you need to understand that not every woman has the same sexual preference. For example, while one woman might like you to be very gentle in your approach, another might prefer that you be a little more vigorous.

So think about it, no matter what technique in cunnilingus you might learn, it won't do much for you if your woman does not like that type of stimulation.

In order to find out what your woman likes and dislikes, it is important that you have an open line of communication with her. By communicating openly with her, you'll not only allow her to let you know what she likes and dislikes in the bedroom, but he will also make her feel more at ease and comfortable with you.

Another way of communicating with your partner is by watching how she moves, and the noises she makes while you are stimulating her. For example, when you are performing cunnilingus on your woman, and she squirms her pelvis up and down, it most likely means that she is enjoying what you are doing and would like you to continue. However, if she moves her pelvis from side to side during cunnilingus, it usually means that she would like you to try something else, because what you are currently doing is not working for her.

By paying attention to simple movements like this, you will be able to find out exactly what turns your woman on in a lovemaking session.


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1 Cunnilingus Technique to Give Your Woman Powerful Orgasms

By Susan Johnsson

One of the easiest ways to help a woman achieve and orgasm is through cunnilingus.Unlike intercourse, where it is a constant challenge for you to position and angle your penis correctly to stimulate the clitoris or g-spot through different sex positions, while at the same time facing the challenge of keeping your woman's vagina sufficiently lubricated, cunnilingus makes all of that look easy.

The reason for this is because your mouth is constantly supplying lubrication to the area you are stimulating, and the tongue is agile enough to easily stimulate any part of the clitoris, and other parts of the vagina.

However, this does not mean that you can just go about magically giving your woman orgasms through cunnilingus if you have no clue as to what you are doing down there. A reasonable amount of knowledge and technique is still needed. More importantly, communication is still by far the best tool to have in order to help you give your woman the ultimate pleasures through cunnilingus.

The only way to truly know if a certain technique feels good for your woman is by asking her, or by reading her body language and noises, she makes while performing that technique. So always remember to pay attention.

Let us take a look at one cunnilingus technique that you can try on your woman tonight;

"Tease to Please" Technique

With this technique, you simply make your tongue circle the area around the clitoris without touching it. Then once every few cycles, let your tongue lightly brush over the clitoris. However, once you have done that, continue once again to circle the clitoris without ever touching it.

This technique will drive your woman crazy with pleasure because it lets you tease her, thus building anticipation in her mind. By the time she has an orgasm, it will be an extremely powerful one.


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Pregnancy Sex - Guide For Dads

By Ron Afable

It's been two years since you've tied the knot. You're still madly in love with your wife, and look forward to spending every waking minute of the weekend in bed, appreciating her beautiful body. You love cuddling in bed with her, taking showers together and making love as often as possible. Life seems perfect.

Then all of a sudden, before you know it, you're wife, your sex goddess, is about to become your baby's mama! She's suddenly cranky all the time, and getting rounder and rounder by the day. You still desire her, but you're not sure how to thread. Will she swat you like a fly if you make any advances? Or God forbid, will you hurt your unborn baby if you actually manage to get to third base?

The way you're feeling is normal, I assure you. I had my fair share of questions the first time my wife got pregnant!

Is it safe for her to have sex?

Yes, for the most part! However, if for some reasons, the wife has some misgivings about her health, it is always a good idea to consult with your family doctor. If he says no, ask him to be specific about the reason.

Besides your doctor's warnings, there are also other situations when you could not have sex with your pregnant wife. While these are basically commonsensical considerations, it remains practical to still point the obvious, such as:


  • Having a history of miscarriage or premature birth
  • The placenta is covering the cervix (this is Placenta previa in medical terms)
  • Her water has broken
  • She is having bleeding problems
  • Your (or your partner's) religious belief or cultural upbringing about pregnancy sex (if ever there is such a thing)
  • Either you, or your partner, has sexually-transmitted disease (told you, these are obvious considerations).

Will she want to have sex?

Well, that really depends on your wives personality. But judging from what I've seen with my wife, some women would still want steamy, mind-blowing episodes with the Mr. even when she's fully bloated.

How will it feel?

At first, sex during the wife's pregnancy could be awkward, or even comical. A giggle here and a burst of stifled snorting laughter there could actually add fun to the adventure. You see, it's either the wife's so huge or/and both of you are afraid you'd hurt the baby.

The first order of the day would be to experiment and try new positions that would work. If you haven't been this adventurous with your love-making before, this is a very good time to start.

The first thing you would find out is that the missionary position is what both of you would want to avoid, for fear of squashing the baby. So be creative!

Here are some positions you could try

Wife on top - While some men may complain that they feel helpless when the woman is on top and is the one in control, this position works best during pregnancy as your wife can control how deep you penetrate inside her. She is also in control of how fast or slow the session will be.

On all-fours - this is sometimes referred to as"doggy-style." At the early stages of pregnancy, this could actually be one of the most preferred positions. The wife does not have to exert much effort and there is no direct pressure on the tummy. However, when the belly becomes bigger, it would be heavier and it might get pressed against the bed or pressed between her legs and upper torso. As long as she could keep her belly raised, this would work as just one of those position for a shorter time before switching to another position.

Spooning - this could be one of the most erotic and sensual positions lovers could have. The woman sits in front of the man who is also in a seated position. There is no pressure on the stomach, and the man could reach in front for added stimulation to his partner's erogenous zones.

Lying on one side - this position frees the woman's back from pressure, and the tummy is safely supported by its side. With one leg raise, the man could enter from either behind or he can be position perpendicularly (like a letter "T" position) and penetrate while facing her. This could be a tricky position at first but once you get the hang of it, you'd find that this is less strenuous for both of you.

If, for some reasons, you can't do any of the above, the simple but very intimate mutual stimulation of the partner's sex organ would do the trick.

Whatever the case, just remember to enjoy yourself, and spend time appreciating each other, both physically and emotionally.


Author:

Ron Afable

Writer
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In the Jungle, The Mighty Jungle - The Best Places to Get Sexy

By Otto Kreistler

Of all activities that make being human so fun and amazing, the act of making love perhaps tops all of them in enjoyability and importance. Not only does the mere thought of it give us tickly feelings deep inside, and not only are the acts themselves some of the most magical moments in the life of any human being but it is also, in a more scientific sense, vital for the survival of the species. Maybe that's why it developed to become so pleasurable? But whatever the reason for its being so good, it remains one of the last remnants of true magic in this world.

And because it is so amazing a lot of people go to great lengths just to push the envelope when it comes to finding unique sexual experiences. Many would do it in the most unheard of locations and many of us have unknowingly been products of a car's back seat or an alcohol binge. Some are lucky to have been created as a result of a once-in-a-lifetime luxury cruise or a scenic escape up in the mountains. But then things start getting a little old and the usual hangouts don't seem to be as fun anymore. When that happens you need to get a little creative.

Here are a few places that you can try if you have the desire, the courage and the means to produce the hottest and most unique experience you're probably going to have:

- In A Hot Air Balloon: Just watch out for incoming aircraft if you don't want everything to end with a literal bang! Doing it miles up in the air can both literally and figuratively send you to heaven and back again. There is something about the altitude, the view and the thin air that just makes hot air balloons some of the best vehicles of love ever. Just remember to clean up afterwards, unless it's your own balloon you're using!

- Up In A Tree: Doesn't the jungle just unleash a load of your primitive emotions? If you're like me and your idea of a great time is being in a hot place that just unleashes your primal side, than finding a rain forest with the most amazing foliage like the Amazon can really unleash the beast in both of you. It actually quite cool in the trees, if it gives you any motivation since it has a lot of moisture. Go Tarzan!


These are only a few ideas that you can try if you want to make a memory that will give you amazing dreams for ages to come. If you want more ideas on where to go when the heat is one, just visit: http://lifehackery.com/2008/10/15/life-20/

She Started Having Sex Then Wanted to Know Where Things Stood

By Nicole Gayle

OK. I'm just about tired of this sort of drama. It's the dreaded "talk" a woman has with a man when she's unsure where things stand between them because she's given up her control. She either pushes in towards the man because she's trying to use his attraction to get closer to him or she gives him sex.

Oh, I know I'm not popular for this sort of thing. Yes, I'm not popular at all. If you can't deal with a man pulling away or wanting his space after you've slept with him, then don't. Here's a question: Have you been seeing a man and felt an amazing connection with him? Then you gave him a few weeks to kinda get to know you, you felt so comfortable with him that you thought it was no big deal to sleep with him?

Then after sleeping with him, you wanted to know where things stood, so you hijack him with having the talk? After the talk, he shuts down, pull away, and feel overwhelmed by all of your "emotions?" Do you see a pattern here?

Sex is just sex for a man when he doesn't have an emotional connection to you. Sex is not love. Sex is not about a commitment. Sex is not because he sees himself walking you down the aisle. It's just sex when he hasn't had the chance to fall in love. If you hold off on the sex and build the emotional and intellectual attraction then he has a chance to fall in love. When he falls in love then he'll commit. But he won't commit if he's not in love with you.

Please learn the pattern and get ahold of your inner world. Be a fun, independent, happy chick that draw a man in build the attraction. When you increase his attraction, it will pull him in. If you pull him in by creating sexual tension without giving him sex, he'll burn hot on fire for you. When he begins to boil, he'll fall in love. When he falls in love, he'll commit to being with you.


Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife, written to help you take your man from maybe to "I do" - Be the kind of woman your man HAS to marry. http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com

The Best Foreplay Ideas - Warning! These Are Only For Men Who Like a Wild Woman in Bed

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to tackle the very BEST foreplay ideas. Now, if you've been reading our articles for any length of time, you are VERY familiar with the importance we place, as women....on the idea of foreplay. If you are one of those men who believes foreplay is an "8 letter word".....it's time you learned an entirely NEW vocabulary for sure. So let's take a look at some GREAT foreplay ideas, and see how you can drive YOUR girl wild this weekend with some unexpected delights she didn't see coming! Read on.

Filed Under: The Magic of a Massage

It's amazing to me how many women I talk to LONG for a good, long, HOT massage...and how amazingly erotic this is for all! The simple truth is that there is just about NOTHING that turns a woman on more than being the object of her mans affection (and attention) in bed....and a phenomenal and erotic massage says this is warm and wonderful ways! Remember, when you are giving her a massage you are not ONLY telling her that you want to make her feel good, but you are also showing an erotic amount of emotion as well, another HUGE turn on for us!

Filed Under: The Diabolical Dirty Dialogue Technique

This is just OUR fancy way of saying talk dirty to her! If you REALLY want to accelerate and accentuate your foreplay, you'll whisper a whole bunch of dirty ditties in her ear. The simple truth is that just about NOTHING gets her body working faster, hotter and more anticipatory than the magic of hearing exactly WHAT you've got coming later on. And trust me when I tell you, not ONLY will this speed UP foreplay, it will make it hotter, make sex better AND help her have an orgasm more quickly to boot! All GREAT things in our book for sure!


And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..

Click Here --> to Learn to Give Your Girl an Orgasm SO strong She'll scream your name in her Sleep!

How to Make Her Orgasm an Adventure - The Dirty Sex Secret Every Woman Craves

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to talk about making her orgasm an ADVENTUROUS experience! Why? It's quite simple! The TRUE secret to giving your girl an unbelievably erotic and transcendental orgasmic experience is to take her by the hand ( and other parts too..:-) and simply lead her on a long luscious adventure of LUST and longing, that is FAR beyond the tired, tepid and ordinary experiences that most men provide.

The REAL Secret of Phenomenal Sex for Her, is...

The ride! The hills, and valleys...the ups, downs and panoramic pleasures that a skilled and well equipped lover can offer.

You need to be able to build erotic energy properly in the beginning...incorporate her senses, smell, taste, touch and sound. Her mind is the most erogenous zone she has...and no matter how good you may be with your body, if you don't make her mind melt with soaring sensations, her physique will NEVER follow in phenomenal fashion.

Sex as an Erotic Adventure is Easy...

It only requires that you INVEST in the experience! Rather than simply being "there", it requires you to simply immerse yourself in the desire to be devilish, and to satisfy and satiate her every want and need! there is NOTHING sexier than this for ANY woman - that I promise you for sure! If you really want to indulge her senses, and make her FEEL the full weight of your desire to lead her on this devlish dance...you will set the stage BEFORE you begin!

Ambiance is Very Important

Candles....lighting....music that makes her motor run hot. This is ALL part and parcel of passionate adventure for a woman, and neglecting this is simply going to take away from the amazing experience she truly craves. Pleasing a woman is VERY easy once you know how...and once you do, she'll never want ANYONE else but you - I promise!


And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight ...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-)

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Female Seduction Secrets - How to Seduce a Woman Without Waiting (& My Favorite Qualities in a Man!)

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to talk about some female seduction secrets! Now guys, I know a lot of you have asked what is the absolute fastest way to make a girl want you WITHOUT waiting a long while....and I'm going to share some easy ones below for FREE. The truth is, CONTRARY to what you may have read in some of those guides written for men...BY men, these simple tips will turn her on using PROVEN traits, qualities and seduction secrets that women ACKNOWLEDGE make them weak! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: The 3 C's of Female Seduction Revealed

Quite simply, did you know that most women acknowledge deciding whether they will sleep with a man within the FIRST 5 minutes of meeting him? It's true....and some studies actually indicate a woman will "know" even FASTER than that! The good news is that if she's STILL interested in you after 300 SECONDS.....the chances are she's already decided to take you to bed. ( now you've only got to make it happen in a hurry if you don't want to wait..:-)

Confidence, Charisma and Creativity. These are the "3 C's" of fast seduction...and the quicker you can show her all 3, the FASTER she is going to want to explore those qualities between the sheets! Once a woman decides she is going to sleep with you ( remember - this happens FAR faster, and usually subconsciously) the whole "dance" is simply how much you can make her want to do it NOW.

The key seduction, from a woman's vantage point is feeling overwhelmed with desire for a man....and confidence and charisma are the kinds of qualities that not ONLY sweep her off her feet conversationally...but ALSO make her VERY curious how you are going to be in an intimate setting! Creativity is the ULTIMATE aphrodisiac for a woman, as MOST men have NONE! Show some in what you do, where you take her and MOST importantly...what you do when you are alone, and you will find her defenses MELT away in an overwhelming wave of wanton desire!


And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight ...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-)

Click Here --> to Learn to Give Your Girl an Orgasm SO strong She'll scream your name in her Sleep!

Female Orgasm Facts - The Shocking Truth Your Girl Won't Tell You About Sex (But I Will!)

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to answer some more questions about female orgasm facts. The simple truth is that there exits NO more mysterious domain in the wild and woolly world of sex than the female orgasm! Why? It's quite simple....there is so much MORE to it than meets the eye, that it becomes difficult to put your finger on exactly (no pun intended..:-) what is happening in bed. Let's look at a common question, and the SHOCKING truth that many men's magazines won't tell you.....but we will for sure! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Do Most Women Have an Orgasm Every Time They Have Sex? Mine seems to.....

A: The truth is...not even CLOSE! Unfortunately, in survey after survey, the ONLY fact we know for sure is that women are by and large NOT achieving orgasm on a regular and consistent basis. How irregular are we talking? Only 9% of women acknowledge orgasmic EVERY time they have sex...compared to well over 90% ( or 10 times more!) of the men.

Filed Under: Faking Orgasm. That only happens in the movies, right?

A: Don't we wish! In truth, over 50% of women admit to having faked an orgasm in the last year . ( in some popular surveys) Guys...these numbers are NOT good, and this means that most likely...either you, or the other guy reading this RIGHT now has a girlfriend who has faked it with you!

Filed Under: At Least She Loves Sex With Me.....Right?

A: Not so fast! Of the same group of women surveyed ( over 10,000) about half said they PREFERRED shopping for shoes over sex with their present partner. Ouch is right! And this is NOT the kind of enthusiasm that is good for relationships, OR that fosters monogamy either.


And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight ...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-)

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Does She Want to Have an Orgasm? I Told You She Wants an Orgasm, and This Proves It!

By Megan Zoile

Okay, guys. In this article we are going to take a look at some pretty large misconceptions about women....and ORGASMS! The simple truth is that there is so much myth and misinformation out there regarding a woman's REAL sexual wants, needs and desires.....that to REALLY be a magnificent and magical lover requires you to be a MIND reader to boot! Well NO more my friends.....you should know what women EVERYWHERE are really thinking about sex, and if you don't have the inside scoop on the studies, surveys and "inner sanctum secrets".....don't worry on red minute longer! WE do, and we'll share a few of them below. Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Female Orgasm Facts You Really Ought to Know

According to the most RECENT, large scale survey of women and sex ( over 10,000 participants) only 9% of the women admit to having an orgasm EVERY time they have sex! Ouch, right? Compare that to 92% of the men. Not fair, right? We agree......and of these women, the VAST majority said they were disappointed with sex more often than not, and WANTED their partners to be able to HELP them achieve more frequent climax.

Filed Under: Shopping.....Shoes......or Sex?

Would you believe that over HALF of the women surveyed admitted that sex with their partners had gotten SO "ho-hum" that they actually preferred shopping for shoes with their friends rather than being intimate with their male partners? It's true.....and another shocking but true fact about the sad state of affairs women are SILENTLY suffering in the sack! The good news is that most of these women, admitted that if the sex was better...they'd be ALL for dropping the shoe shopping for LOTS more sex!


And remember...you do NOT want to be one of the MILLIONS of men whose woman is secretly sexually dissatisfied with her lover. Research has proven repeatedly that with so many girlfriends, wives and lovers fantasizing about being with a MAN who DOES know how to satisfy her, divorce and relationship dissatisfaction continues to rise at unprecedented levels. Master the magical art of making her quiver with delight ...and you will NEVER have to worry about her even THINKING about another man...that much I know for sure..:-)

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Why is She Not Having Orgasms - The 2 Most Common Reasons Why She is Not Climaxing!

By Maria Holland

In my time as a sex therapist the thing that comes up most often is that the woman of the group was just not having orgasms. Men usually view this as something that is out of their control and that it is not their problem it is the woman's. This however is just not true, there are many things that men can do or can stop doing that will easily help in making their lover orgasm. Read on in this article to discover the 2 most common reasons why she is not having the orgasms she deserves.

So here are the 2 most common reasons she is not climaxing with you (in no particular order):

1) She is not turned on - For a woman it is much more difficult to get in the mood for sex than it is with a man. So keep this in mind when you are trying to make her orgasm and remember to turn her on properly before you attempt to make her orgasm.

2) She is not in the mood - This one is easy, she may not be turned on but you wont be able to turn her on because she is simply not in the mood. Perhaps it has been a long day and all she wants to do is put her feet up, if you try to persevere without considering what she wants she will definitely not orgasm. So if she is tired or shattered try giving her a nice massage to get her in the mood.


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Have Her Scream Out For You - Great Tips to Have Her Having Earth Shattering Orgasms!

By Maria Holland

Every man in the world longs to be able to make his woman orgasm but are unfortunately unable to do so. The main reasons for this is that women need to be in the right mood and frame of mind in order to have a full blown orgasm. Another main reason for this is that it generally takes women a lot shorter time to orgasm than it does for a man. In this article I am going to give you some great tips so that you can really give your girlfriend or lover the earth shattering orgasms you have been trying to give her.

Here are 3 tips to make her have mind blowing climaxes (in no particular order)

1) Do not rush into penetrative sex - When it comes down to it men just try to rush into straight penetrative sex utterly unaware that the woman needs a lot more turning on before she will properly enjoy penetrative sex. So before you rush right into penetrative sex try a lot of foreplay stimulating all of her erogenous zones.

2) Kiss her A LOT! - Women love feeling close to whoever they are having sex with, kissing allows them to do this. When you are kissing her remember you do not just have to kiss her lips, try kissing her cheeks down to her neck and onwards. Don't stop kissing her until she is squirming with pleasure.

3) Cunnilingus is your friend - Women just love cunnilingus, and guys here is a secret, it is the easiest way to make a woman orgasm. The clitoris is the only part of the human anatomy that is purely devoted to pleasure. So use the clitoris to your advantage.


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Guys, is She Faking Orgasms? - 3 Sure Fire Ways to Tell If She Really Did Have an Orgasm!

By Maria Holland

It is very well known these days that women fake orgasms, all you have to do is switch on the television and you will see some show joking about it. The main reason why women do fake orgasms is because they do not want to hurt their lover's feelings and knowing that they will most likely not climax rather just fake a climax than continue on! But guys do not worry in this article I am going to be giving you 3 signs to look out for to see if she really did orgasm.

1) There was no vaginal contractions - During orgasm the vaginal walls will contract rapidly usually feeling like a clamping motion around your penis. If she says that she climaxed but you did not feel any contractions it is likely that she is lying to you!

2) Lack of sensitivity - post orgasm a woman is very sensitive to touch. Especially her vagina, just a slight touch of her vagina and she will be squirming away from you to stop. So after you have made her 'orgasm' just lightly play with her vagina (the clitoris works just as well) and see how sensitive she is about it. If she is not pushing you away then chances are again that she did not have an orgasm!

3) She is not tired - Having an orgasm for a woman is a physically and mentally draining act. The energy lost during an orgasm is great and usually requires a time out from doing anything strenuous for at least 10-15 minutes. If your lover just hops up after sex and is ready to go about her business then again she may not have climaxed!


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Give Her the Quickest Orgasm of Her Life - 3 Tips to Give Her Speedy Climaxes!

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Sexual Positions Women Enjoy the Most

By Lee John

According to American Sex Survey by ABC News, only 30 % of women manage to orgasm every time. What's worse, more than 50 % of women had faked orgasm just to please their partners. It's no wonder why men enjoy sex more than women. However, healthy intimacy between couples is very important to relationship. It other words, sex is supposed to please both you and your partner. This objective can be achieved by mastering sexual positions women enjoy. These positions help your partner to achieve orgasm quickly and easily, with minimal efforts from your parts.

#1: Missionary Position: It's the typical man-on-top position, with partners facing face to face. To enhance sexual sensation, put a big pillow underneath her back to lift up her buttock. Gently lean forward as you penetrate against her thighs. With this position, you can pamper her some "body love" including eyes contact and body massaging. If your partner is flexible, put her legs on your shoulder. This position allows deeper penetration and helps her to achieve G-spot orgasm easily.

#2: Milk and water embrace: This position needs to be performed on a firm chair with supportive back. To begin with, you take a seat and let her sit on your thighs. She should be facing against you. Then, use your hands to stimulate her hot spots (including breast, nipples and genitals). When in doubts, ask her how she likes it to be done and let her guide you. As she is aroused, she then move up and down along your shaft give you both explosive orgasms. This position is an awesome way to incorporate foreplay and love making.


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69 Sex Position - How to Supercharge Orgasm

By Lee John

69 position, also known as its French term "soixante-neuf", is very popular as it allows both partner to experience sexual pleasure simultaneously via oral sensation. Some people complain that the position caused discomfort. It's usually because they don't know how to do it right! When done properly, 69 position can spice up your sex life tremendously. In following section you will find the step by step guide to perform 69 position :


  1. Firstly, lie down on your back and let her lie on top of you. Spread her legs apart so that her genitals are positioned over your face.

  2. Stroke and rub her perineum and clitoris in circular motion. Be very light and gentle as these areas are highly sensitive.

  3. After some times, you may feel that she is getting more excited. You can tell from the one of the following signs: she starts to moan, her breath becomes slower and deeper, or you feel more wetness on your fingers. At this point, slide your finger in vagina wall to locate her G-spot (a rough, bean-like tissue located at the front wall of vagina wall).

  4. After you find the G-spot, press and rub her G-spot in systematic motion and pressure. Then, tease her G-spot with your tongue.

  5. After her first orgasm, you can help her to achieve multiple orgasms with your penis in doggy position. This position allows you to penetrate deeply and stimulate her G-spot further.


Final note


  1. It's very important to take care of dental hygiene if you plan to perform 69 position.

  2. You may use massage oil or lubricants to enhance sexual pleasure.


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Friend With Benefits - The New Age Relationship

By Judy Barton

For thousands of singles, this new age relationship design can, and does present as a cure-all for numerous age-old dating woes, while taking friendship to a new dimension. It is not a new concept, however, today's singles are merely more open and receptive to the many positives it has to offer and the freedom it allows. But is it truly sharing or does it constitute abusing the privileges of a friendship?

The skeptics paint a picture of booty calls, bed buddies and degradation. They view it as a clear violation of the rights and privileges of friendship. Some see it as impossible to accomplish given the processes of human nature and the emotional issues relative to intimacy. However, for the growing number of participants, it presents as an extension of friendship and a refreshing manner of bonding. It is viewed as a positive alternative to the traditional standards of love, dating and relationships. It allows for our most basic of human needs to be met safely while providing a sense of belonging and normalcy in a not so 'normal' society and lifestyle.

For many it means the elimination of the dreaded 'one night stand'. Needs are satisfied by reaching out to the warmth and security of friendship rather than settling for the emptiness felt in a dating encounter. It replaces the loneliness felt in self-pleasuring with the therapeutic benefits of another's touch. It fills a need for the 'no strings attached' sexual relationship and is a practical alternative to the risks of sex with multiple partners. It provides a trusting atmosphere, which promotes a continual exchange of the positive sexual energies necessary for satisfying and fulfilling experiences.

Aside from the many sexual advantages, other factors make this relationship a practical and preferable choice. It addresses issues of safety and the health risks that plague our society. It alleviates being trapped in the cycles created by many of the dating pitfalls. It offers an environment conducive to less restrictive and inhibitive communication where discussions of sex and other normal life experiences are not taboo. As a result, it provides a comfortable atmosphere for the exploration and experimentation of new ideas and designs.

Each couple sets the tone and clearly defines their rules, limits and boundaries. The idea is to provide a complete understanding of the expectations so that there is little risk of misunderstanding or hurt feelings. The relationships are as unique as the individuals involved. For some there is no need for formal agreements or arrangements. They simply do what feels natural for them and is mutually satisfying. Others find it important to design a well thought out plan of action. In the final analysis, it works, and no matter how they choose to deal with the terms of their relationship, it is a satisfying, fulfilling and rewarding experience.

As with any relationship, it does not come without flaws or obstacles. There are many positive emotional benefits but it does require mental preparation and maintaining the proper mindset. It is imperative to stay focused and be mindful of the traps. This aspect can present an ongoing challenge but the positive benefits overshadow any negatives. The 'friend with benefits' relationship is far from the traditional ideals and standards, however, it has proven to bring great rewards and is a fabulous asset in today's complex and chaotic world.


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Tips to Bring Your Woman to Orgasm

By Gerry Restrivera

Lovemaking is an important part of a romantic relationship and it strengthens the bonding between couples. But there are times that lovemaking create problems in a relationship especially when men failed to satisfy their woman. If you failed to bring your woman to orgasm during lovemaking, then it could hurt your relationship.

There are women who can tolerate not to have an orgasm but most women want to experience the pleasure of having an orgasm during intercourse. It is sad that sexual dissatisfaction is one of the reasons why some relationships fail but there are things you can do to prevent this from happening. Here are some tips to bring your woman to orgasm and give him the pleasure she deserves during lovemaking.

She needs to feel loved. Most women need to be emotionally attached to a man before engaging to any sexual act. She needs to feel secure ad trust you to be able to let go and make love with you. You have to let her feel that you want her and that this is something you want. You can bring your woman to orgasm if she feels secure with you.

Do what she wants. You do not have to be clueless to give her the pleasure that she wants. If a woman really wants to have an orgasm, she will guide you and let you know what she wants. Just do what she likes and you will definitely bring your woman to orgasm anytime. Just listen and be sensitive to her reactions and she will give you hints on what to do.

Be patient. It takes time for women to reach orgasm and you have to be patient wit her. A long foreplay is needed and do not get tired of the process. Give her time and do not pressure her or yourself to bring your woman to orgasm. The more you are both pressured, the longer you have to wait for her to reach orgasm. Just enjoy the foreplay, let her get aroused and bring her to the heights of ecstasy.


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Learn How to Give Your Girlfriend an Orgasm

By Gerry Restrivera

If you are in a sexually active relationship, it is important to know how to give your girlfriend an orgasm and enjoy it together. Of course you are on the right age and know how to practice safe sex right? There are times that men get disappointed because their girlfriend find it hard to reach orgasm during intercourse which makes them feel incapable or inadequate to give their woman what she needs in bed.

Men sometimes get frustrated when they fail to give their woman pleasure in bed. But if you know the techniques on how to give your girlfriend an orgasm, pleasing your woman during lovemaking is not that hard. Here are some tips:

Great and long foreplay. Most couple start their foreplay hours before the intercourse but it would be better if you start it days before the lovemaking. Flirting and fondling her days or hours before the lovemaking will give her more excitement and arousal. This act prepares your woman to be emotionally and physically ready for lovemaking. It is easier to give your girlfriend an orgasm if your woman is prepared and highly aroused to make love with you.

Put her at ease. Women find it hard to achieve orgasm when they are uneasy and have a lot of inhibitions. You have to talk to her and assure her that there is nothing to worry and shy about. That you adore her and she is the most beautiful woman for you. You can give your girlfriend an orgasm easily if you succeed to make her feel secured and comfortable. She needs to trust you and throw all cautions in the wind to surrender herself to you.

Give her time. Allow her to take her time to enjoy the moment and do not rush her. It takes time for women to reach the climax of lovemaking and you have to be patient with her and do not rush her. Let her feel that you are giving her all the time and opportunity to experience the pleasure she deserves.

Know what turns her on. Of course you have to know what turns her on and you have to be sensitive with her reactions on your every move. Knowing what turns her on will guide you what to do to give your girlfriend an orgasm.


Giving your partner sexual satisfaction makes the relationship even stronger. There are women who find it hard to reach orgasm during lovemaking but if you have the knowledge and skills to give what she is looking for, lovemaking will be enjoyable for both of you. Learn more on how to give your girlfriend an orgasm visit Secret Orgasm

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Is She Having Difficulties to Climax in Bed? Essential Knowledge That Every Man Should Know

By Derek Rake

Getting a girl to achieve orgasm may be tough. This is because females are generally not as fast as males when it comes to climaxing during love making. This is perhaps the biggest reason why most women seem to be unable to orgasm with their partners. If your woman is struggling to climax, then it means that you are not doing things right. You must therefore fix the situation quickly before it becomes too late. Read on to discover the reasons why she is having difficulties to orgasm and what you can do to overturn the situation...

Three Reasons Why She Is Not Achieving Orgasm

Reason Number One - Wrong Technique Used. If you are not using the 'right' sexual technique, then you will face difficulties in making her come. One way to learn about the best techniques is to read up on sex manuals and watch lovemaking videos. I am not talking about porn here - where the reaction is usually exaggerated.

Reason Number Two - She Is Not Turned On...Emotionally. This is the biggest reason why she is struggling to orgasm. The biggest sexual organ is the brain - therefore, to make her 'high' sexually you must also stimulate her emotions. Note that she will almost always struggle to climax if she is not aroused emotionally.

Reason Number Three - She Is Not "In The Mood". If you literally force yourself on her to satisfy your urges without considering her needs - she will not climax, plain and simple. Ensure that she is in the 'right mood' before you make a move on her.


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Is She Faking Orgasms? 3 Surefire Signs That She Has Faked It

By Derek Rake

It is a common fact that there are many women out there who tend to fake their orgasms consistently. If she is faking it when she is with you - it is a clear sign that she is not satisfied sexually with you! The danger is that she might just end up going for someone else who she thinks will satisfy her in bed. This is a big reason enough for you to be able to spot if she is faking her orgasms before it's all to late...

Three Surefire Signs That She Shows If She Is Faking It

Sign Number One - "High Energy Levels". You see, an orgasm is physically taxing for the woman's body. If she is still very energetic after 'orgasm', then she probably didn't! If she truly achieved orgasm, she would have been drained out and want to go to sleep. Here's another surefire sign - if she jumps out of bed to get back to work then she 100% faked her orgasm! Believe it.

Sign Number Two - "High Sensitivity Levels". Studies shown that women get highly sensitive (especially in the clitoris area) after climaxing - therefore she will not be able to take more stimulation from you after orgasm. If she has absolutely no signs of sensitivity (meaning she still continues being ok after orgasm) then she would have faked her orgasm.

Sign Number Three - "Wild Vaginal Contractions". When a woman orgasms, her vagina tends to contract and you should be able to feel that immediately. If you did not feel it, then she would not have climaxed.


Now a that you know whether she is faking orgasms for not...here's a killer tip that you will find useful if you want to make any woman orgasm fast...

There exists a secret two-step method that underground seduction masters use to make any woman orgasm literally by COMMAND: details are at this website - http://www.ZenGasms.com.

The ZenGasms" system is chock full of unknown methods on generating female arousal - derived from the sex secrets from Zen masters of the East. Highly controversial and often perceived to be manipulative - this stuff is not for the faint-hearted.

However, if you are ready to give ANY woman mindblowing orgasms virtually by command, and don't mind pushing the envelope, then do this. Click on the following link for a free report on how to induce female orgasms by using only your voice: ZenGasms - Leaked Chapter