Sexuality Tips For You.

September 15, 2008

How to Get in the Mood For Sex With Foreplay

By Max E Whitson

Today, foreplay is vital and has become a crucial part of sex. In order to reap the rewards of an orgasm, your first have to get in the mood for sex. This is especially true when it comes to women. Most women will agree that great sex always starts off with terrific foreplay. In a nutshell, the better the foreplay, the better the sex. It's that simple.

Foreplay, what is that?

In order for you to start practicing foreplay you first have to know what it is. It general, foreplay is anything that makes you and your partner get in the mood for sex. This can be a variety of activities from fondling, kissing, undressing, petting, giving hand jobs, fingering or even oral sex. When you start practicing foreplay you will notice that your partner will achieve an orgasm more easily and it is often a stronger, better orgasm as well.

Give A little Spice to your sex life

With age, both partners will need something out of the ordinary in order to get aroused to the fullest and have an incredible orgasm. This is when foreplay comes in to play. The man needs to take apart of foreplay as long as it takes to get an erection and the women needs to continue practicing foreplay until she is well lubricated. There is never such a thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The longer you spend on it, the more intense the orgasm will be in the long run. The best time to stop, however, is when both partner are at their peak excitement and are having a hard time not giving in to having sex.

There is no best foreplay

There is no such thing as the best foreplay. Each person is different which means that each person likes something a little bit different than everyone else. Foreplay is about making your partner get in the mood for sex. It is about understanding what turns your partner on and making sure that those things happen. While there may not be the best foreplay, it can be a very helpful additive in terms of helping your partner reach orgasm.


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Getting Her Into Bed - Great Tips Every Guy Should Know

By Maria Holland

Getting a woman into bed is easier than most men make it out to be because after all a woman wants to have sex just as much as a man does. The only problem is that men make too many mistakes when they are trying to seduce a woman that the woman loses interest in having sex with them.

Here are some tips for the average guy that will make her want to sleep with you:

Be Assertive - women love strong and confident men.

Be Curious - ask about her, see what she likes and dislikes. Remember it is not always about you!

Be Passionate - when talking about what you do show some passion, there is nothing worse than a lifeless man and any woman will be able to pick up on this.

Be Playful - try not to be too serious all the time, show her you have a playful side and she will love you even more for it.

Be Adventurous - try new things. Women like to know that men are willing to try stuff they have not tried before and this will leave them more inclined to go to bed with you.

Be yourself - this is the most important factor, women will be able to pick up on the fact that you are faking who you are. So just be comfortable within yourself and your confidence and unique personality will shine through.

There they are, some great tips every guy needs to know when trying to get a woman into bed, and also remember to try not to make it all about sex otherwise you may not get anywhere!


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How to Have Great Sex - 3 Tips For Christians

By H R Miller

It's a sad truth, but a lot of Christian couples do not have a great sex life. Some don't even have a good sex life. Are you in that boat? If so here are a few tips that can help you and your spouse start experiencing GREAT sex.

1. Make time for sex

You see often times people get so caught up in their everyday lives that they neglect to be physical with their partner. Sex is a very important part of any marriage. Don't neglect this very important part. Make time for sex. Set aside a certain day and or time for you and your partner to be physical. Sounds crazy but if you set a schedule and stick to it eventually you won't need the schedule you will just naturally make time for it.

2. Try new things

There is nothing worse than having a lot of boring sex. Don't be afraid to try new things. You don't have to go overboard here but please stop with the same old thing every time you have sex. Try a new position or a different location. This can make things a lot more exciting for you.

3. Communicate with each other

If you want to have great sex then it is important that you communicate this to your spouse. Tell them your likes and dislikes. How else can you experience the pleasure you are seeking? Discuss different techniques or positions you would like to try. If you are willing to listen first and then communicate your own sexual needs and desires then you will be experiencing great sex in no time. Remember to keep an open mind and be will to fulfill each other's desires.

If your desire is to start having great sex then remember these 3 tips. Make time for sex, try new things, and communicate your desires. Once you start to do these things your sex life will become more exciting and pleasurable. Remember, GOD created sex for you to enjoy it.


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How to Have Better Sex - Advice For Christian Couples

By H R Miller

For some reason many married Christians think that GOD does not want them to get down and dirty when it comes to having sex. Listen, GOD wants you to enjoy sex. He created it for two purposes. Pleasure and reproduction. PERIOD! It was created for pleasure as well as reproduction. You should be doing whatever it takes to please each other.

The biggest question many Christians have is "what is allowable?" Well I think that is all up to you. Use a bit of common sense. No, GOD would not approve of a three some so I wouldn't go there. After all marriage is for 2 people so you don't bring an extra party into your bedroom. But as far as toys and different positions you are free to explore those things.

Being a Christian does not mean you have to have boring sex. Spice it up. Remember, GOD wants you to enjoy sex. He wants you to have a healthy and happy sex life.

What you do in your bedroom is really up to you and your partner. Get together and discuss a few things you would like to try. One of the greatest things you can to do make your lovemaking more interesting and exciting is to try new positions. Stop it already with the boring old missionary position.

Be free. Open up. Allow yourself to explore your partner fully. Christian sex should be the best sex. Do you think that GOD would want you to be unfulfilled sexually? Of course he doesn't.

Another big question that comes up a lot is "is oral sex ok?" I personally feel oral sex is ok. I see it as another way to please your partner. But just like everything else you have to do what you feel is best for your relationship. If you and your partner don't feel it's appropriate then don't do it. It's that simple.

The bottom line is this. You should be having enjoyable sex. If you want to try something and you are not sure if it is ok in the eyes of GOD then simply ask him. He will answer you. That I can promise.


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Why I Feel Discussing Sex With Mom is As Good As Learning How to Cook

By Francis K Githinji

There is nothing as worse as imagining your own parents having sex. Think again. There is something else worse than that. Sorry but feel it: Your parents might be having better sex than you. As a child I rarely thought about discussing sex with mom or dad. I thought it as an abomination. In the earlier generation, no one even talked about sex. My mother never talked about sex with her own mother and so it never crossed her mind that parents can talk about sex with their children. My father died when I was young but that did not deter mum from dating other guys. I used to play with the guys a lot but I never imagined what happened between mum and her friends when I retired to bed.

Ask anybody about their parents' sex life. The answer they will give you shows that they view their parents as pure and chaste not petting or pawing. This is usually during childhood but as people approach teenage hood, the thought might creep in their mind but they usually brush it off. What happens behind our parents bedroom doors is not a pretty thought you will agree with me. It is funny because when parents are in the age where they can have sex, they do not talk about it. They actually gather the courage to broach the subject once the phase has passed. Discussing sex with mom is now possible and for your knowledge she is now 82 years old. Intellectually, I am supposed to listen and support her sex identity but sometimes I feel there are some things I would rather not know.

My mind tells me that discussing sex with mom is not a big deal but my gut contradicts it. Would you ever want to know how many guys your mother slept with? Who was good at it and who slept on the job? My mum decided to write a book about her sex life and I was given the role of proof reading the draft. Reading her romantic episodes, word by word, paragraph after paragraph on every page would have been exciting only if it was another woman. The imagination was shocking and I realized that her sex life was far much better than mine. It was full of drama but very spontaneous. If only she taught me about sex like she taught me about cooking I would be enjoying all the pleasures nature can give.

By the time my mum was 18 years old, she had romance stories with internationally big people who gave her the best. On the other hand when I was about the same age the best I would do romantically was watch a Hollywood romantic movie in the TV room. When I read her romance story I knew my mother was appreciating her being a sexual being more than I do. If discussing sex with mom was something I grew up with, I would have appreciated physical needs, desires fetishes and faults. My mum is beautiful but I attribute her success in the romance field to her experience. If I would have learnt from her my experience would be more fulfilling. This is just but a thought.


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