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September 25, 2008

Good in Bed - 7 Tips For Men

By T. Lee

Women like men that are good in bed. But being good in bed doesn't just come naturally. It takes skill, and some practice. From the couch to the bedroom, here are some tips on what you need to do.

Caress Her Body

Start off by giving her a nice neck massage. Then proceed to go down her triceps, to her forearms, and then gently squeeze her fist. Don't forget her legs. Massage her thighs, ankles, and then her foot. Get her muscles as relaxed as possible before you start making love with her.

Remove Her Clothing

If she's not naked by now, gently remove the top pieces of her clothing. Do this slowly and casually, but effectively. The last thing you want to do is be stuck for 5 minutes unraveling her bra (Trust me, I've done this before and it gets awkward, fast). So know what you're doing. Then proceed to unravel the lower pieces of her clothing.

Kiss Her Body

Start off by kissing her neck, then small kisses on her face, then her lips. Gently breathe up and down her neck. Then continue to kiss around the sides of her stomach, down to her ankles. Then repeat the process back up to her neck. Do this for 5 to 10 minutes as you are getting her more aroused by the second.

Go Down on Her

Go in head first. Enjoy this. Women love a man who enjoys the pleasure of going down on them. Start off by licking the outer regions of her vagina. Then slowly work your way around her clitoris. Try to stall going in and out of her vagina by going up and down and in small circles backwards and forwards. Finally, go in and out on her with your tongue. When she starts to moan, keep doing what you're doing. She may then put her hand on your head, which is fine.

Last a Very, Very Long Time

Start off by going slow in missionary position. Kiss her while you're making love to her. Continue with the same motions until you can hear here breathe getting louder and louder. If you think you're about orgasm - don't. Immediately try to think of something to take your mind off of that - something nonsexual.

Making Her Explode

When you're done with military position, proceed to Cowgirl position, then Doggy Style position. Change up the speed; reduce the speed. Some women may life it slow an in rhythm, others may like it fast but in beat, a few with like it wild and uncontrollable. Mix in all the techniques until you find the right speed and continue to what you're doing until her moans get louder, and heavier. When she feels like she's about to cry out, positioning her body to a better angle where you are giving her the tightest sensations and deepest penetrations will allow her to climax, soon. Keep going until she actually begins to cry and scream and end it with as much force as it takes to get her to orgasm!

Cuddling With Her

Start off slow by complimenting her. Tell her how good she was in bed. She'll most likely be so satisfied with you that she'll start giving you after sex make out kisses. Accept them and stay in bed with her for a few minutes as this will show your respect and appreciation for her. Continue to hug her and cuddle with her. When this is done, go take that shower you deserve, you sexy beast.


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The Single Most Stunning Way to Make Her Orgasm - She Would Almost Scream & Cry With Pleasure!

By Pushpa Pal Singh

A lot of guys out there tend to complicate matters a lot when it comes to the matter of getting a woman to achieve an orgasm. You see getting a woman to climax is easier than you can even think possible. There are some proven powerful steps you can start taking right now which would instantly make her orgasm. Read on to discover what these powerful tricks are and achieve earth shattering results...

Get her in a very comfortable spot- This is the most important thing if you really want her to achieve an orgasm. A girl will never orgasm unless she is completely comfortable the way she is laying on the bed. Therefore make sure she is in a position where she gets the least tired.

Just use your fingers- You don't even have to penetrate her to actually make her orgasm. You see your fingers can work wonders in this area and once you have made her climax several times you can easily penetrate her and make her orgasm once again. Try to softly rub her clitoris at the beginning and gently insert your middle two fingers in her vagina. Make sure you go as deep as possible.

Here is the trick- Once you have your fingers deep inside her vagina try to force your fingers in the upward direction towards her pubic bone. You see this is the exact location of her G-spot and successful stimulation of this area can make a woman blast into multiple orgasms in seconds. Remember you don't have to go in and out rather up and down if you want to really make her orgasm.


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3 Most Important Places Every Woman Wants to Be Touched- Every Man Should Know This at All Costs!

By Pushpa Pal Singh

Do you know that there are places in a woman's body which when touched would drive her completely wild with pleasure? Do you know that once you successfully stimulate these areas you would be able to make her orgasm extremely fast? You see most men tend to directly attack the vagina thinking that's what will get her going but that's totally wrong. Read on to discover what these places are and how you can stimulate them give her an orgasm after orgasm.....

Her ear lobes- Gently sucking and blowing in her ears can drive her absolutely mad with pleasure. Her ears are an extremely gentle and sensitive part of there body and at the same time it is also one of the places which a woman wants stimulated since it can give her a lot pleasure real fast.

Her tummy area- Most guys don't even know how important this area is! Gentle licks and kisses while going down to her vaginal area can really make a big difference in turning her on in a big way and really arousing her to the extent where she would blast into an orgasm after orgasm.

Her breasts- You will never be good in bed unless you know how to successfully touch her in this area of her body. Most guys just don't know how to successfully stimulate the female breasts. Gentle sucking and biting of her nipples can really drive her wild but one mistake most guys make is that they tend to go too hard which would only cause more pain than pleasure to her therefore make sure you remain gentle.


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Problems in Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Continuing With S

By Levi Reiss

Whether you are heterosexual, homosexual, or somewhere in the middle you probably want to improve your sex life. It's just no fun being alone. Unlike many others we don't promise you instant success. We do think that our double series of articles for the letter S should help improve your sex life. This present article focuses on the problems and pitfalls that prevent you from attaining the sex life that you want and deserve. Another series of articles focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions can help you get what you want. Here we examine sore, stale, and star.

S is for sore. Don't be a sore loser. I am not sure that you will mind being a sore winner. (Do you remember the punch line of that old joke where the Norse gods and others meet after an orgy? One says "Hello, I'm Thor." The other says, "You're Thor. I'm tho Thor I can't pith.") But if you break out in sores you should get medical treatment. And you may have reason to be sore at your partner, your partner's partner, and so on down the line. There probably won't be any Norse gods in the lineup.

S is for stale. Don't let your sex life get stale. Try new positions and just as importantly new ways of spending those precious moments together. Remember, only one letter separates stale and style, but there is a world of difference. Even styles can get stale. But being stale will never go into style.

S is for star. It's not really necessary to be the star in the bedroom. Your sexual activities should be a partnership, or a group activity. Stars are really out of place, even if they have no trouble finding the place. And meeting the pace. On the other hand, when you do it right you and your partner may see stars. Especially if you bump heads. And there's something just great about a starry-eyed partner, unless he or she is starry-eyed from staring at too many fan magazines. Don't forget, star spelled backwards is rats. And that hardly rates. I'm starting to get the idea and feel like joining my co-star.

Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.


Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Continuing With S

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. We present a double series of articles for the letter S. The focus here is on sign, strip, and surprise.

S is for sign. Read the signs. A yes should not come as a bolt from the blue. In fact if you are a really good sign reader you may be aware of the long-awaited outcome (and ingo) as soon as your partner has made up his or her mind. Now if you have misunderstood you should, in fact you must, pull back. I strongly suggest that you don't mention the sign theory at all. You should be more careful next time. Perhaps she was breathing real heavily because you walked up six flights of stairs. Perhaps he was laughing real hard at your joke because he actually thought it was funny. Perhaps she started swearing like a trouper because that's the way she talks. But when your potential partner starts signing his or her name on your butt, I would say that's a good sign. Unless it's in indelible ink.

S is for strip. The striptease is getting to be a neglected art. Why be in such a hurry? Why not build anticipation by slowly and lovingly removing articles of clothing? The more intimate the clothing, the more slowly and more lovingly it should be removed. And why stop at strip poker? There are lots and lots of games that can be transformed into a strip version. For example, why not play Strip Jeopardy? In the beginning you may wonder what you can use for a buzzer. But this problem usually works its way out and its way in well before the end of the game. Make up your own categories. And I'm not talking about 19th Century Polish Literature although they tell me that can be good too. It may be too easy; if you run in my crowd nobody can answer the questions. It's almost enough to want to go to the library.

S is for surprise. Why not surprise your lover with a new position or a new twist on a good-old-standard position? You do have to be ready to answer the question: 'So where did you learn that?' You might be in for a surprise if you answer: 'I found a book in the library, right next to the 19th Century Polish Literature section.' Or you could try: 'You might be surprised to know why some 19th Century Polish Literature has become so popular.'


Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

How to Hit Her G-Spot During Sex - Secret Positions Exposed

By George Sampson

The g-spot is often considered the holy grail of sexual intercourse between men and women - and with good reason. If you can hit her g-spot during sex then she will be taken to heights of pleasure that she never knew possible. I used to be terrible in bed, then I decided to become incredible, and have since uncovered all of the mysteries that the best lovers know. In the article I'm going to share one of these mysteries with you...

There are many things that you can do to hit her g-spot during intercourse but I'm going to cut straight to the best sex positions out there.

Cowgirl

This is where your partner is on top of you and she is in control. Women, occasionally, love to be in control of the rhythm, depth and speed of sex. She can control everything from here and because your bodies form an 'L' shape (she is the vertical bit and you're the horizontal bit!) your penis naturally hits the front wall of her vagina. This is, of course, where the g-spot is located.

Doggy Style

World famous, this position is great for you to hit her g-spot during sex. My main tip is to make sure that you point your penis downwards to hit her front wall. Women love this stimulation as, not only do you hit the front wall but, you go very deep inside her.

Legs on Shoulders

This way you can look her in the eye as you have sex. This increases intimacy and pleasure for you both. Also, you're able to put your hands underneath her behind and pull up a little. While you do this your penis will naturally hit her g-spot more than it otherwise would.

The best way to hit her g-spot during sex is to make your penis bigger in girth. While this seems like a tall order in recent times advances in science have meant that attaining a better girth is far easier than it used to be. I used male enhancement to do this, which also gave me more stamina and a harder penis.


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3 Mistakes Guys Make in Bed - She Hates This

By George Sampson

To be incredible in bed you need to be able to pull out all the right stops at the right time. There are many mistakes guys make in bed and in this article I'm going to talk about the most common ones so you don't keep making the same mistakes. If you take onboard what I teach you and use it then you will separate yourself from most of the guys out there...

The number one error that guys make is forcing a girl into having sex with you when all she wants to do is go to sleep. The reasons she doesn't want sex are two-fold. One, she isn't in the right mood. This can't really be helped, but if you are subtle enough then you can change her mind! The other reason is that you simply don't satisfy her as much as you should. This is a more tricky situation but one that I was in for years. I know how to change it! I'm going to tell you how to at the end of this article too...

Another thing is guys who rush into sex. There are many problems with this. If you watch porn then you think that women always like it hard and fast and, while this is sometimes true, it isn't always the case. Yes, women do sometimes like a quickie, but not every single time. There is a lot to be said for slow lovemaking.

One of the biggest other mistakes guys make in bed is that they don't take care of personal hygiene. If a woman had hideous breath and bad body odor would you really want to be intimate with her? I know I wouldn't. Take care of these things, wear nice cologne and trim your nails! It makes a big difference.

As I said, I was terrible in bed until I decided to embark on a journey of male enhancement. I made my penis bigger, firmer and gave myself more stamina. This elevated me so that I was far better than most guys out there. You should look to do this too


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Women Sexual Mistakes to Avoid

By Francis K Githinji

Some women do not love their own body and they are not confident about them. Men love confident people. Think about it this way, when you are confident you are beautiful. Now stop worrying about your but and how it looks like, or the stretch marks that you have been trying to fade out for months now with no success. Relax, he is with you. Even if you are having sex for the first time, you should not worry about what you look like; you would be committing a sexual mistake. You do not have a body like Alicia Keys, so what, get over it and appreciate yourself. Do not think men are sexual being and whenever you want to have sex all you need to do is to touch their member and there, they have an erection. Take time to romance a man, like you, they need to be aroused.

Whoever told women they needed to fake orgasm to make a man happy surely did a good job. A majority of them fake orgasm yet they fully know they are not enjoying the sexual act. Point is you are not lying only to the man but to yourself. A great orgasm can be attained but it has to start with you stopping all the fake ones you have had before and telling your man the truth. If he loves you, he will want to please you. Start by telling him what you would like him to do to you and how he should do it. This way, you will not only have great sex, but one that is satisfying. Great sex has a lot of benefits; do not deny yourself all the benefits that come with good sex by faking orgasm and at the same time committing a sexual mistake.

Some women do not take care of themselves sexually. Just because he said you should not shave off your pubic hair he never implied you should not trim it, come on girl. Who wants to perform oral sex on something he can barely see or recognize? Take care of your vagina and make sure it does not produce any foul smell. That does not necessarily mean you wash it, you should also eat some healthy food. Another sexual mistake is not giving his man oral sex. This is very unfair by the way, how can you expect a man to give you oral sex but you on other hand cannot offer the same to him? I actually believe there is nothing like it disgusts you. If you love someone, you should be able to give it to them happily.

Some women can barely move their hips; they just lay there and wait for the act to be finished. That is the greatest mistake you can ever do, what are you? Sex is supposed to be a dance between two people. People in love and enjoy each other's company. So move your body, flow with his rhythm and see what happens, you will have the best sex you ever had. Another mistake women make is letting the man do everything from initiating sex to the actual act. Once in a while make a man feel wanted by being the first one to make the move, avoid sexual mistakes.


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How to Use Dirty Talk With Your Lover to Spice Up Your Sex Life - 3 Quick & Easy Tips!

By Deanna Raymond

If you want to use dirty talk with your lover but you are a bit unsure of how to approach the subject this article should help. Sex therapists consider erotic talk one of the easiest and most healthiest things you can do to kick your sex life into overdrive. So many couples are using dirty talk to enhance things in the bedroom, so don't let it intimidate you at all. I have a feeling if you begin using dirty talk with your lover you will be surprised by just how hot things will get!

The first tip I would highly recommend is to sit down with your lover before you head into the bedroom and have a frank discussion about using dirty talk with them. Be honest and open. You may find that some words just aren't acceptable and this can help you avoid any awkward moments in the bedroom.

The second tip is that you need to take a moment and relax. Take a deep breath and do your best to try and let the words flow naturally. You want to try and not sound forced or rushed. You may want to consider practicing in a mirror before hand.

The third tip makes a fantastic icebreaker in the bedroom. Use compliments mixed in with your erotic talk. Everyone loves a compliment and telling your partner what turns you on about them physically or how they make you feel makes using this type of talk much, much easier.

The most important thing to remember is that using dirty talk should be fun!


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History of Sex - Ancient Cultures

By Brian Welsch

Perhaps if our schools did tell us about the history of sex in ancient cultures , we would've have cut class so often. As our species has become more civilized, sex has become more and more of a mystery. In looking at the history of sex in ancient cultures , we see that our ancestors also regarded sex as a mystery - but a mystery in the original sense of the word.

The Great Rite

Contrary to what you may have been taught, our ancestors knew all too well where babies came from. It was this generative power from sex that gave it its mystery. As the sexual act was an all-consuming, it was felt that this energy generated could be used to create more than just babies. It also could be used to generate magic spells for the good of a family or for an entire country.

The term "the Great Rite" pops up now and again in the history of sex in ancient cultures . It is unknown just how ancient this rite is. It was known to be preformed in Egyptian times and in pre-Roman Europe . In this ritual sex, the male becomes the fertilizing force and the woman the land itself. By ritual intercourse in the fields or in a temple, the fields of a country were fertile for the next year.

The Great Rite was also a way of showing a King's sovereignty in a rather explicit way. The Queen was considered the human embodiment of the Earthy or the country. If a King could get the Queen pregnant, this sympathetic magic would ensure that the land would become fertile and the nation would be prosperous. The history of sex in ancient cultures had a lot of practical purposes rather than just gratifying physical desires.

Other Uses

The history of sex in ancient cultures also included the roles sex could play in the life of the lower classes, which didn't have the whole responsibility of the country's fertility hanging on their every move. In the Middle East , sacred prostitutes worked as priestesses in temples to Goddesses of Love and War. One of their sacred duties was to take soldiers fresh from battle and get them through the culture shock of coming back home to live a normal life.

Sacred prostitution lasted through the Greek civilization and through Rome . Sex was considered a release of your personal and magical store of energy. This was why having virgins attend some other sacred duties like tending a sacred flame was essential. Virgins still had all of their power inside of them and could be pre enough to perform very sacred functions.


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