How to Give a Woman a Nice Orgasm

By T. Lee

Many women crave the orgasm, but never reach it. When seducing a woman, knowing how to give her the best pleasurable and climactic experience is essential if you want her to continually come back to you for more action. Here are some effective ways to get her to orgasm - from foreplay techniques to being the sexual process.

Talking About Sex

From the minute you're with her, if you can openly make her feel comfortable talking to you about sex, then making sexual advances from her will be easy as she'll most likely be expecting you to initiate it. This will not only allow her to start slowly getting aroused around you, but there will be enough anticipation from the starting point that will heighten the chances of giving her a nice orgasm. Do everything you can to flirt with her, tease her, and be playful with her. Treat her as an obnoxious lady that is in love with you, yet as a sweet princess that needs to be pampered every so often. Once you have talked about sex, establish physical contact with her to make her comfortable with your touch. Hold her hand and play with it, massage her shoulders, kiss her face and down to her neck. Get as aroused as possible before you proceed into the next step.

Oral Sex

Doing oral sex "right" will really increase your chances of giving her a nice orgasm later. Many women actually prefer oral sex over intercourse. If you can show her that you enjoy the most vital sexual organ that she possesses, your separate yourself away from other men. When performing oral sex, they key is to change yours actions until you find what she likes and gradually continue to do this. Start off licking around her clitoris to tease her, and then lick the labia and vulva. Switch from up and down motions to circular motions, then go back and lick her clitoris. Once she starts to moan, don't go inside her vagina until later. This might get her sexually frustrated and she may start to become more dominating in directing you to do what she wants. When you've done this, it's time to finish the job.

Sex Positions

When making love to her, remember to use the three popular sexual positions - Military, Cowgirl, and Doggy style. If you want to be more adventurous you can always try new positions later. The point is to do something right until she feels that intense contraction in her muscles that will make her moan, scream, and orgasm, and the key to doing this is to angle and position yourself, as well as her body, in ways where you can feel the tightest sensations and deepest penetrations. Build up the anticipation for as long as possible - twenty minutes, thirty minutes, forty minutes, and even up to an hour. Finally, end it by giving her the best orgasm a man can give her. She'll love you for this.

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What You Can Do to Increase Your Libido!

By Sheryl Polomka

There are many factors that affect a healthy libido. Mental, Physical, Nutrition, just to name a few. All of these work together and should be included as part of a healthy lifestyle. One very important aspect of a healthy libido is strong blood circulation. There are many foods and herbs that will help you in this area.

Omega 3 is made up of unsaturated fatty acids that cannot all be manufactured by the human body. These fatty acids are found in oily fish such as salmon and aid the body's circulatory system by increasing blood vessel elasticity. One word of warning though, larger doses can lead to increased bleeding by patients who are taking aspirin, reduced glycemic control among diabetics, and an increase in LDL cholesterol in some. There are other health issues, but only with much higher doses. Normal intake by eating fish should not present a problem.

More foods that positively affect circulatory and blood vessel health are cherries, rasberries, flavonoid-rich dark chocolate, blackcurrent berries (a species of Ribes berry native to central and northern Europe and northern Asia), Schizandra berries, Jujube date (which nourishes the blood) and green tea extract. All of these are jam packed with powerful antioxidants and enhance blood flow.

Some common herbs also help with supporting the circulatory system. They are ginger, garlic, ginkgo, and cayenne. These are great for seasoning other foods with, not just for flavor, but for better health as well.

This list of foods and herbs is by no means comprehensive. There are many more that help with circulation, and thus, with the libido. These sources of nutrition are also not limited to aiding blood flow and circulation. They have many more health benefits that indirectly support the libido. The great thing about eating naturally is, you don't have to worry about side effects or overdosing. Combined with a low stress, physically active lifestyle, eating these foods and herbs will boost your sexual health quickly and naturally.

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Train to the Brain

By Luke Jackson

"Every person smells slightly different; we all have a personal 'odor print' as distinctive as our voice, our hands, our intellect," writes Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an anthropologist at the American Museum of Natural History in New York City, in her book, Anatomy of Love. "As newborn infants we can recognize our mother by her smell, and as we grow up, we come to detect over ten thousand different odors. So if nature be our guide, we are probably susceptible to odor lures."

Does that mean a special someone can lead us around by our noses? In a word: yes. "When you meet someone new whom you find attractive, you'll probably like the 'smell' of him, and this helps predispose you to romance," writes Dr. Fisher. "Then, once infatuation flowers, the scent of your sweetheart becomes an aphrodisiac, a continuing stimulant to the love affair."

There's an anatomical reason why that would be so. When an aroma wafts your way, it gets picked up by some of the thousand-or-so odor receptors that are lumped together in a small patch of tissue in your nasal cavity, right behind the bridge of your nose. Via an elegantly versatile nerve network that scientists have teased apart in just the last few years, we know that these receptors feed their findings to your olfactory bulbs, which process the raw data and send it on to various portions of your brain. One of those places is the limbic system, a primitive region developed early in our evolutionary past that controls emotions and sex drive. Among the five senses, smell is unique, because it has a nonstop flight to this region. (The limbic system is also the seat of long-term memory, which is why you can remember odors years later, while sights and sounds fade after a few days or weeks.)

"Anatomically, smell and the emotions overlap in the brain," says Susan S. Schiffman, Ph.D., professor of medical psychology at Duke University Medical Center in Durham, North Carolina. "So if you smell something nice, it's going to make you feel better."

Dr. Schiffman's research interest is nonhormonal ways to improve patients' moods. In pursuit of this interest, she's discovered that food odors can boost the immune systems of the elderly. But more to our point here, she studied the effect of perfumes on 56 women in midlife (ages 45 to 60). She found that nice smells did indeed make them feel better. Then she tested 60 men between the ages of 40 and 55. For 12 days these men doused themselves with either a cologne or placebo, and rated their moods twice daily in diaries. Result: Colognes improved men's moods, too. Not wildly- overall, the moods were boosted by a point or two on one-to-ten scales that attempted to measure such factors as tension, anxiety, dejection, anger, fatigue and confusion. If these all-male fragrances didn't give middle-age men the power to seduce young models, at least the scents gave them a lift.

You should know that Dr. Schiffman's research was funded by the fragrance industry. (Men now spend $1.5 billion on colognes every year.) But that does not make it mere propaganda. If colognes can make you feel calmer, more confident and therefore sexier, well, that's money well-spent. You can make that decision for yourself.

But what about the opposite sex? Does our odor print have any measurable effect? Although Dr. Schiffman hasn't researched that avenue yet, she does offer an interesting anecdotal observation. She counsels couples, and she says many differences can be overcome-except odor. If one person dislikes the other's smell, they've got trouble: "There's no amount of counseling you can do to make that go away." In one longtime marriage the husband disliked the wife's smell, so Dr. Schiffman counseled the wife to wear fragrance. (She refused, saying perfumes were unnatural.) Fragrances do not so much mask your odor print as meld with it. "What you come out with is a new odor," she says. She believes fragrances are useful in smoothing your interactions, both at work and at play. "It probably makes initial encounters more neutral," she says.

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How Fragrances Can Improve Your Sex Life

By Luke Jackson

You've given her roses before. But not this way.

A 55-year-old university professor offers the most romantic tip we received from our "The Sexual Mastery" members survey respondents: "I like to take fresh petals from a long-stemmed red rose and scatter them over the body of my lover just prior to engaging in intercourse," he writes. "Kissing and licking around the rose petals on her stomach, breasts, nipples and thighs add a new dimension to this experience. Finally, intercourse with rose petals between the lovers provides a very sensuous addition to sex-the petals cling to both bodies because of the sweat generated and leave interesting patterns when sex is over."

When you're done marveling at the possibilities of this idea, take just a second to note what the professor has left out. He praises the visual and tactile aspects of this very romantic act-but says nothing about smell.

Yet what's the first thing you do with a rose? You sniff and say, "Aahh."

Nothing much is ever said about smell and sex. And yet they are inextricably linked. Certainly, odors have the power to arouse you sexually-mankind has known that for thousands of years, and not for nothing has perfume been called sex in a bottle. The fact that women spend billions of dollars each year basically to enhance their sex appeal through sweet smells should not be lost on you.

But this is bigger than Chanel. Your sense of smell affects who you fall in love with and whether you stay in love. It has the power to improve everything from your mood to your penile blood flow. Lose your sense of smell, and you actually lose sexual function.

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Pop Quiz Hotshot - Are You in Touch With Your Inner Sexiness?

By Erik Skupeika

There are celebrities out there right at this moment that are nothing like those who boast of stick-like remains and yet they are strikingly gorgeous. You instantly realize that these famous people who radiate sexiness send off an attitude that makes other people see them as sexy. People who are teeming with self-confidence are not really graced with model bodies. It is fascinating to find out that their allure is purely because they are comfortable with their own bodies and they exude confidence which draws the notice of other people. Here are their secrets on how to feel sexy in your own skin.

Be proud of your body and emphasize what is great about your form. For example, apply your favorite scent whether it's expensive or discount perfume on those areas that you wish to flaunt. Showing off your greatest traits shapes the way you see yourself. If you believe that you are beautiful you will automatically feel gorgeous inside and that is why you act assertively. But you must know how to effectively flaunt. Begin by incorporating into your clothing anything that maybe brings out the best in you like your eyes or legs. Confidence takes out the anxiety of what to put on for the next day. Try asking a close personal friend what things they find sexy about you and start with that.

Enjoy the pleasure your body brings and learn to focus on them to feel more assertive. It means that you respect yourself and you deserve to be taken care of. Treat yourself with massages or other things that make you feel good. The small lavish things that you do such as enjoying a bubble bath will augment your satisfaction. It also helps in changing negative thoughts with positive ones and makes others value you as well. Try wearing a scent with a bold impact then the people around you are clued in to your personality sooner than you would expect otherwise. Try using a choice scent, be it expensive or discount cologne.

Stop being uneasy or torturing yourself what others may imagine and instead concentrate on your assets. It would not be helpful if you let angst dictate your mood and hold you back. Relax using soothing scents that remind you of how good you feel through your senses. Always refresh your look. The best way is to change your style to get a high rush of confidence. If you are still sporting the same old hairstyle or wardrobe then a makeover can boost your confidence immediately. A fresh look can free you from insecurities that you have in the past. Bring to a close worries over flaws that you think you have. Breathing in the subtle scents of lavender can help you lighten up.

Wearing scents such as orchid, jasmine or tuberose under your clothes can increase your confidence. Knowing that you are wearing sexy perfume underneath somehow makes you extra brazen and alluring. Start doing things that you consider wonderful and you will feel comfortable in your own body. Start recognizing your own allure and relish it. Be it an expensive perfume or discount perfume, start with a seductive base.

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3 Sex Games to Spice Up Your Love Life

By Maria Holland

Tried every position at least a thousand times? Tried every room in the house (and even some not in the house)? Well it may be time to spice up your love life and sex games are one of the best ways to do just that!

In this Article I'm going to give you the basics on some games that you and your lover may try and that will hopefully provide you with many unforgettable love making sessions.

Truth Or Dare

A Classic game that you may remember from your childhood, but this time it is the adults turn; start the ball rolling with a few truths about yours or your partners dirtiest sexual fantasies to get you both in the mood. From here the world is your oyster! The greatest thing about the adult version of this game compared to what you played as a youngster is you're never going to be scared of what you might have to put in your mouth!

Strip Poker

A game that is not only erotic by nature but also tests your skill and poker face. Start the game with a number of chips (I prefer to use 5) and an ante to be paid at the beginning of every hand (I use either 1 or 2) and when a player has no chips left they have to buy back their chips with an item of clothing.

Once one player has shed all of their clothing and loses again they must perform for their partner (I'll leave this bit up to your imagination).

Twister

Ever played twister? All those strange ways you had to move your body? Well try this twister for size; start fully clothed and with every spin an article of clothing is removed. Not hard enough? Try distracting your opponent during their turn by kissing, fondling or if you're too far away try giving them more than they bargained for with a quick flash of some flesh!

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How to Increase Your Sex Drive

By Francis K Githinji

No one is born with everything working just perfect. No one was born with a perfect body, they had to work for it. Just like no one was born with a high sex drive, you will have to work hard to get a good sex drive. For you to be able to please your partner and make them feel special, there are a few things you should do to increase your sex drive. This things include your body in general, exercises and food. Whatever you take in to your body can affect a great way the levels of your sex drive. One should always try to eat balanced diet every day. A meal that has vitamins, proteins, and carbohydrates. You should also try as much as possible to eat low fat dairy products so that you further increase your sex drive. You can also eat some foods that have been known to increase a person's sex drive like Oysters and chocolates. Oyster have a lot of Zinc that help increase testosterone.

Another thing you need to work on is your body and mind. Scientist found out that there is a great connection between sex drive and the mind and body. Whatever we feel in our bodies will be transmitted to the brain and in turn it will affect our sex drive. If your body is feeling tired your are more likely to have a low self drive than a person who is feeling rested and okay. The brain is always said to be the greatest sex organ and if the brain is feeling good and aroused, the body will also feel good. If you want your sex drive to increase, you will have to work with both your body and mind. Make sure you take enough rest and that you are free from any kind of stress or anxiety.

Apart from eating a healthy diet and keeping the body and the mind coordinated, you will also need to exercise. Exercise are very important in terms of giving one cardio endurance. This is when you can hold a position for a long time without feeling tired or without you straining your muscles. You can exercise by running, swimming or lifting a few light weights. Walking and Yoga are also a great way of exercising. A woman also needs to exercise her vaginal muscles to give both herself and her partner great sex. So go ahead and exercise and not only get yourself a great body but also increase your sex drive. You can even make it fun by exercising with your partner. You do not have to go to a gym to do some of this exercises. They are simple and can be done at home.

Another important thing you should do to increase your sexual desires is to be touchy. When you keep touching each other you not only make each other feel loved but increase the desire to make love to each other. Whenever you get a chance touch your mate. You can touch them in a suggestive manner when you are together or when no one is watching. Do not also forget to change you attitude towards sex for if you have a good attitude you are bound to enjoy it and have a good sex drive.

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How You Can Tell a Woman is Sexually Aroused

By Zachary M Achachi

For a woman is to experience orgasm then her body must under go two physical changes: The first is the pooling of blood in the breasts and genitals. This results in the breasts and genitals becoming larger, the body feeling warm or hot to the touch, the change in color of the breasts and genitals, and vaginal lubrication. The second is the build up of energy in the nerve endings and muscles of the entire body.

A woman's sexual response cycle goes through four phases, excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. The amount of time a woman spends in each phase, and even the order in which she experiences them may vary from one woman to another. A woman on a date may become sexually aroused several times, without her knowing it. She may experience arousal and the plateau phase during an intense session of dancing, but return to her un-aroused state on her way home. The manner in which a woman experiences sexual arousal and orgasm phases is unique to her, and even this will change depending on her mood and who they are with.

A female has three variations of sexual response that she can experience:

1. Multiple orgasms.

2. Arousal that reaches the plateau level without going on to orgasm.

3. Several brief drops in the excitement phase followed by an even more rapid resolution phase.

Sexual arousal in a woman may be accompanied by the following physical responses due to mental and/or physical stimuli on her:

• Vaginal lubrication begins first, within 10-30 seconds.

• The inner two thirds of the vagina expands.

• The uterus and cervix are pulled upwards.

• The labia majora flatten and spread apart.

• The labia minora increase in size.

• The clitoris increases in size.

• The nipples may become erect as the result of muscle contractions.

Use these physical responses experience to get her reach the desired orgasm that she desperately needs.

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Tips For Massaging the Vaginal Opening For Maximum Stimulation

By Victoria Setreva

For some reason, men are hell bent on getting as deep into a woman's vagina as possible. They think that there is more pleasure way in the back of the vagina than in the front. Well, there isn't, all the pleasure occurs in the first few inches of the vaginal walls and the clitoris. To really make a woman think you are a sexual god you must send these first few inches into ecstasy. There are several ways to do this with your hands, penis, and tongue.

Some women really enjoy having fingers inserted into the first few inches of their vagina while having sexual intercourse. The boring, stiff penis can sometimes not supply enough adequate stimulation to the vaginal walls all alone. So, some expert lovers know that if they include a finger in the act that they can give their woman the most explosive orgasms she has ever experienced. Pick a spot and gently massage until you get a positive reaction from your lover. Trust me when I say that you will give her levels of pleasure that she has never felt before with finger stimulation.

When you are performing oral sex, one way to give as much as you can, is to focus on the walls of the vagina with your tongue and stop focus on the center. Using fingers as well during oral sex can drive your woman up a wall. Take your middle finger and massage in the dead center of the bottom most region.

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How to Seduce a Woman - Some Arousing Tips For Guys

By T. Lee

Are you bad when it comes down to seducing women? Perhaps you know how to approach her and talk to her already. But when the date nearly comes to an end, you don't know how to close the date with "sexual techniques." Instead, the date just ends with a big hug and a kiss, and as a guy, we want more than just that.

When seducing a woman, the first thing you need to do get her is in a quiet place where it's just the two of you. This will help you a lot as it gets rid of any distractions. You want to be in an area where you can build as much sexual tension as possible.

The next step is to build anticipation. Anticipation is the feeling where you don't know what's going to happen next but you're excited for it to happen. Women love the feeling of anticipation and not knowing what is going to happen next. Start off by taking these slow... When she's at your place, make sure you already have a romantic setting played out like some soft music and some candle lit. Show her around the place; maybe you have some interesting pictures of your past that you'd like to share. Tell her to sit down on the couch and as you make her something to drink like a glass of wine or something to eat like exotic fruits.

Once you've done that, proceed to do a fun activity with her like watching a movie or playing a game with her. "Truth or Dare Jenga" is always fun game to start the night off by asking each other naughty questions. As you get into the game and she picks truth, ask her "So what's the meanest thing you've done recently?" Women are not as "nice" as they may seem so she may giggle a little bit. If she picks dare, say "I dare you to kiss me" and see see if she goes through with the game. Create as much sexual tension as you can with the questions, but have fun with it at the same time.

If you haven't done so yet, your next object is to kiss her. Kissing her will be a lot easier if you have been physical with her, as this establishes that she's okay with you touching her, and will be likely to open for a kiss from you. There are many ways to get physical with her; find a way like casually putting your arm around her and massaging the back of her head. The key is to not force anything and stay relaxed.

By the time you guys are cuddling, she'll feel a wave of emotions inside of her rising, and so will you. Landing an awesome kiss will blow her out and get her really aroused but you have to be patient. Wait for the right time to kiss. For example, you guys might be talking about something very emotional and deep. Gently start to stroke her hair and look at her in the eyes. If she stays in position, she's ready to be kissed. Lean in and softly kiss her on the lips. If you have built enough anticipation for the kiss, she may get really excited and start making out with you.

Once you guys are making out, tell her that you'd like to make out in a more private area. Take her by the hand and lead her into the bedroom. Continue to delicately touch and kiss her. Make sure all the lights are dimmed and prepare yourself for long, steamy night. Good luck.

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Sex Positions - 2 Great Positions to Help Your Woman Achieve Ultimate Bliss

By Susan Johnsson

Giving a woman the best sexual experience she has ever had, as well as helping her have the most amazing orgasms, will depend on the kind of sex positions you use. Being able to change and vary the sexual positions will keep boredom and routine out of your sex life. It will also allow for a more satisfying sexual experience for both you and your partner.

There are numerous sex positions available. Every one of them will stimulate differently. You have positions that give a more close up and intimate feel, or that give deep penetration, and others that stimulate areas like the g-spot. Depending on how you and your partner want to satisfy each other, or how you are feeling, there will be an appropriate position to best bring out that desire.

You may find some women to be a little shy when it comes to trying out new positions. If your partner is shy or feels degraded by certain positions, be sure never to demand it from her. The best course of action is to speak openly with your woman about what you would like. Tell her that it's your fantasy to make love to her in this position, and that it drives you absolutely wild. Get her to open up and ask her what position she likes or imagines doing.

Let us look at few sex positions you can try out;

Butterfly position

To get into this position, the woman should lie on the edge of the bed or table. She then raises her legs upwards with her feet pointing to the ceiling. The man then approaches and penetrates her from a standing or kneeling position. Once he has penetrated, she can rest her legs against him. This position is great as it allows the woman or man to stimulate her clitoris at the same time.

Missionary

The woman lies on her back with her legs spread open, and the man positions himself on top of her, penetrating from the front. This is the most basic position, but it provides a close up and personal intimate feel.

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Foreplay - 4 Explosive Foreplay Techniques to Spice Up Your Boring Sex Life

By Susan Johnsson

Many people fall into the situation of sex ultimately becoming a routine. If you are to keep boredom away from your sex life, you will need to start to spice things up and create anticipation by putting that spark back into it. A dull and boring sexual routine can lead to failure in relationships. All you need to do to get rid of this boredom is to spice up your foreplay with a few simple techniques.

Foreplay is said to have begun before you have even reached the stage of undressing one another. When you are kissing and talking dirty, or making suggestive comments, it is all part of foreplay to get your partner in the mood. Don't just rush to take off her clothes. Spend time kissing her and slowly undress her, exploring the exposed areas on her body.

Let us look at a few tips to help you with foreplay;

Hugging

Most women love to be hugged by their lover. It provides them with a feeling of security and gives a nice warm feeling. Try to hold her close to you, and gently kiss her neck. This will get her aroused and in the mood.

Petting

Gently run your hands along your partner's body. Explore every contour of her body with your index finger. If you are both undressed at the time, you can also kiss her body all over. Take time to appreciate her body as you would with any work of art. Take time to touch and kiss her erogenous zones.

Kissing

Kissing is a crucial part of foreplay. It is a very strong personal act and has a strong emotional bond about it. Many women claim that during foreplay and all through sexual intercourse, they are not kissed enough. Kissing will make a woman emotionally bond to you, making her orgasm a lot more intense.

Role Playing

You can have a role playing session where you both carry out each other's fantasies in the bedroom. You could do a striptease for your partner and turn her on as you dance and undress yourself.

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Cunnilingus - 4 Stunning Cunnilingus Techniques to Drive Your Woman Wild With Pleasure

By Susan Johnsson

Cunnilingus is a great way to help women achieve an orgasm easily. This is why many women who are unable to achieve orgasm through normal sexual penetration, prefer clitoral stimulation through cunnilingus. The reason it is such a powerful act is because the area you are stimulating has over 8 thousand nerve endings. This makes the clitoris the most erotically sensitive area on a woman's body.

There numerous methods for stimulating the clitoris, and cunnilingus offers the most sensual feeling a woman could want. Taking the time to learn how to perform different cunnilingus techniques will inevitably pay off on the overall sexual experience.

Below are some cunnilingus techniques that will make your woman adore you more than ever before;

Vacuum

Gently place the clitoris into your mouth, and begin to lightly suck it in and out of your mouth. You can vary how strong you suck according to her signals. However, be careful not to do it too strong as this could hurt her. It is best to do this only after she is very aroused, otherwise she will be very sensitive.

Sweeping

Place your tongue on either side of the clitoris, and then move it across from one side to another in a sweeping motion. You should start of slowly, and then increase the strokes as you go along. You can also do the same movement from an up to down motion.

ABCs

Place your tongue on the left of the clitoris, and then gently and slowly spell out the letters from the alphabet. Ask her to guess what letter it is you have spelt. Whether you draw out numbers or spell out words, both will give great stimulation to the clitoris.

Circles

To do this method, place your tongue on the left or right side of the clitoris, and then move your tongue in circles around the clitoris without touching it. This provides a very pleasurable feeling for your partner, and will make her very aroused.

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An Explosive Sex Position You May Have Overlooked!

By Stephanie Buehler, Psy.D.

Can you guess what it is? It often gets made fun of, seems like something Puritans would do, is thought of as boring, and has a terrible name.

That's right, it's the missionary position.

So how could the missionary position possibly be called "explosive"? Doesn't this way of making love position a woman below a man, or make it more difficult for her to have an orgasm? For him, doesn't it require Herculean strength to hold himself up?

Not necessarily. For one thing, some women like this position because their body is out of view. Face it, if you are a woman on top, you have to feel pretty good about your stretch marks, little pot, and other physical quirks. If you're on the bottom, all you have to do is hope your hair looks okay splayed out on the pillow and pucker up your luscious lips.

If you think it's kind of boring down there, then make some adjustments. Tuck a pillow or two under the woman's hips so that there is deeper penetration. Or the woman can try changing the position of her legs, either stretching them out to create more muscle tension (which can aid orgasm) or folding her knees toward her chest and resting her calves on her partner's back.

Another technique that can help the missionary position to feel ever so much better is for the woman to exercise her Kegel muscles. In doing so, a woman can pull up and then bear down on her partner's penis, massaging both her own and her partner's genitals in a sky rocketing way.

A man can add more excitement by running his hands over his partner, kissing and licking her neck, and saying hot things in her ear. He can add to a sense of domination by lightly pinning down his partner's wrists to the bed.

If he gets tired, he can try changing things a little bit, too. He can lie down on top of the woman and move up a few inches on her body than he might normally do. His penis should be just inside the woman's vagina in this position. As he and the woman rock back and forth, his penis should make good contact with her clitoris, a position that can help some women experience their first vaginal orgasm.

One last thing that's great about the missionary position: When you've climaxed, you're pretty much right in place for loving after play. Whoever thought that a position with such a ridiculous name could be so explosively hot?

And if you want to learn more about passionate sex, Dr. Stephanie Buehler has written a free e-book, "Sexual Discovery: 25 Secrets for Incredible Passion," available at http://www.yourpassionexpert.com Dr. Buehler is a licensed psychologist and sex therapist in private practice at http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com, where she works with individuals and couples seeking better sex. She is frequently quoted in the media and is available for interviews and speaking.

Orgasm - How to Achieve it Successfully and Avoid Frustration and Break-up?

By Sarah Scottts

Why do we fall in love? When we consider a person physically attractive and intellectually stimulating we are irresistibly drawn towards him or her. In other words we fall in love with that person.

Somewhere deep in our heart we visualize that sleeping and having sex with that person will be a gold mine of pleasure. It would be a matchless experience which nobody else would be able to provide.

Strangely enough only a few men are able to enjoy the kind of sex they dream of . Most men do not know the techniques of causing orgasms in the women. They usually ejaculate even when the women are just about removing their clothes. And when the women discard their overalls, they find a lifeless and wet organ dangling meekly. The dream of heavenly sex and an ecstatic orgasm are dashed to the ground. The disappointment is too painful to be expressed through tears.

This leads to deep embarrassment and shame for men and frustration for women. An awkward yet ineffectual effort is made to reawaken the spent passion. You start all over again. You kiss and hug. You roll your hands on the sensitive spots.

Nothing works now. It only further deepens the despair.

Since your relationship of love is still at an incipient stage, you try to rationalize the failure as being the result of first attempt, lack of confidence and experience. You express your regrets.

Next time it would be OK, you assure.

Next time and still next time, it is again the same un-fulfillment and failure to fully enjoy the sex. Love starts losing its meaning and charm. What promised to be a start of new life of joy becomes a nightmare. A joyous sex with orgasms becomes a mirage.

You start finding excuses to desert your partner.

Then a time comes, when one becomes an ex. This is almost a universal story.

If you want to:

• Avoid the embarrassment, frustration and break up in your sexual relations


• Enjoy your sex life to its full potential


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Increase Sexual Desire - Herbs For Men and Women to Increase Sex Drive Quickly!

By Samuel Leslie Berkovits

If you want to increase sexual desire and have a higher libido and more satisfying sex, the good news is the combination of herbs below can be taken by men and women and are proven to increase libido...

While there are differences in the inputs that govern men's and women's sex drive there are more similarities than differences and that's why the herbs we are going to look at work. Let's look at some of the common problems for low libido.

Causes of Low Sex Drive

Testosterone is known as the male sex hormone but women need it to or sex drive plummets. Both sexes also lose sex drive when fatigued or stressed.

One of the major causes of low sex drive though is sluggish blood circulation. What the first thing that happens when you get aroused?

Your heart beats faster and pumps blood to the genitals and when it gets there it needs to enter them. Nitric Oxide is realized in the blood vessel walls and allows them to expand and relax and allow increased blood in. In men this results in an n erection (in fact a man can never get an erection if not enough of the chemical is realized), in women the affect is not so obvious as in men - but they need plenty of it to. So you need strong blood flow and also plenty of nitric oxide.

A Proven Combination of Herbs to Increase Desire and Performance

Now we have the major problems. Let's look at our proven combination of herbs which are found in many of the best herbal sex pills.

Cnidium

This rare and powerful libido enhancer, increases levels of nitric oxide and also acts as a circulatory blood tonic pumping blood to the extremities.

Horny Goat Weed

Great name and very appropriate it works. The herb helps to increase nitric oxide and free testosterone levels in the body; it also plays an important role in boosting overall energy levels, while at the same time, decreasing stress.

Ginkgo Biloba

Ginkgo Biloba improves blood flow and oxygen throughout the body, while its anti-oxidant action helps to protect blood vessels and reduce arteriosclerotic lesions making the ultimate blood circulatory herb.

Ginseng

Chemicals in Ginseng, stimulate the part of the brain known as the hypothalamus to direct the production of hormones that stimulate cell growth and healing of the sex organs. It also improves blood circulation, lifts mood and energy levels and is the world's most popular tonic herb.

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The above herbs in combination with a sensible lifestyle will help to increase libido naturally and will give your overall wellness a boost at the same time, so you feel better and sexier and can get more from sex and life.

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How to Spot a Fake Orgasm - You Must Know This Before It's Just Too Late For You!

By Pushpa Pal Singh

It's a very commonly known fact that a lot of women out there tend to fake their orgasms on a consistent basis. But you see if she is faking orgasms around you then it's just not a good sign. Often faking orgasms means that she is not satisfied in bed with you and at the same time she might end up finding someone else who would help her with what she needs in bed. This is the major reason why you must know this before it's too late for you...

Her vagina did not have strong or wild contractions- When a woman tends to orgasm her vaginal muscles contract rapidly and you will instantly feel all that. Therefore if you feel no sign of any contraction inside her vagina and she still claims that she has climaxed then it obviously means that she faked it.

Women get highly sensitive after an orgasm- Women can not take much stimulation after they have achieved an orgasm simply due to the fact that after an orgasm they get highly sensitive in the vaginal and if you continue stimulation she would more or less push you away very quickly. Therefore if you don't see any signs of sensitivity and she is ok with you stimulating her even after she claims she has climaxed then she faked it for sure.

She is still highly energetic- An orgasm takes a lot out of the woman's body in terms of energy therefore if it still seems like she is full of energy and seems like there was no hard work done at all then she probably didn't orgasm. If she truly climaxed then she would more or less be completely drained out after the whole deal instead of being full of energy. At the same time does she quickly get off the bed and gets on with work? If yes, then again she did fake her orgasm.

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The Best Female Orgasms - A Girl's Guide to Making Her Melt With Desire

By Megan Zoile

Let's take a few minutes and talk about the very best female orgasms. Contrary to what many men believe, did you know that many women simply CAN'T have an orgasm through regular intercourse? It's true...and depending on your girl, it's more than likely that she is one of the tens of millions of women around the world who are FAR more sexually frustrated than she's letting you know!

The Simple Facts

Now, there is ONLY so much detail I can write here of course, but depending on lots of different factors, (your size, HER size, sexual positions, adventurousness, etc) her body simply many NOT be being stimulated properly to enjoy an orgasmic experience during sex.

The very BEST female orgasms are usually stimulated most powerfully by the sensitive bundles of nerves located on the inner wall of her pelvis. Many men have searched in vain for the mysterious "g" spot, and unfortunately for MOST women, the majority of men will simply NEVER be able to find it on their own..:-)

Simple Tips You Can Try Tonight to Amp UP the Eros

The truth is, women are FAR more full body sensitive than our male counterparts. A woman's inner thighs can be EXTREMELY sensitive, as can her breasts and other often overlooked spots. Some women can actually have a powerful orgasm when a number of erogenous areas are stimulated simultaneously - a trick that most men never learn!

The Language of Love (and Lust!)

Creative Conversation is Sexy Too! Did you know that many women report the most INTENSE orgasms while talking dirty? It's true...and different women have different thresholds, but simply TALKING during sex is a HUGE turn on for many women, and one that is SIMPLE to try immediately...especially if she's NOT orgasming regularly already!

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Female Orgasm Tips That Are Sure to Please - Explosive and Easy Ways to Make Her Melt

By Megan Zoile

Many women today are simply NOT having orgasms with the man in their life. This is an unfortunate fact that I've written about MANY times, and spoken to many of my female (and male!) friends and readers with on many occasions to SEE what exactly is going SO wrong for so many of our most intimate encounters. The simple universal truth is that for MANY men, learning how to REALLY spice it up in the sack was NEVER on their educational curriculum. Let's take a quick look at a few simple ways to do JUST that in a hurry, and give her an orgasmic experience she simply WON'T forget. Read on..:-)

Talk DIRTY to Me!

Women who CAN'T have an orgasm often quietly and secretly complain of being bored in bed. One quick way to turn that around in a hurry? Talk dirty to her! I promise, MOST women(even the prim and proper ones) really find that spicy conversation can lead to an instantaneous orgasmic experience! And if you are having trouble pleasing in her in bed to begin with...TRUST me, this is one super way to fix that in a hurry!

Explore Parts of Her Body You've Never Touched

Many times women can't have an orgasm with their man simply because he doesn't know the RIGHT hot buttons to push. This isn't totally your fault, if she doesn't tell you, how can you know, right? Well...the key is to experiment and explore...and if you're comfortable, simply ASK her where! This is very hot in of itself, and will open up a wide window of physical and erotic exploration that will bring you BOTH closer, and will allow her to REALLY let go and help YOU help her enjoy mind bending climaxes from that day forward!

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Female Orgasm Facts - Stunning Facts About Women and Orgasms You Need to Know

By Megan Zoile

Think you know YOUR girlfriend or wife well? You very well may...but there COULD be a secret she is NOT telling you! Did you know that over 90% of women admit to having have faked an orgasm with their current partner...and 50% of them say they've done it in the last year! Ouch, that hurts...doesn't it? It's true, and many men are GREAT companions but simply NOT getting it done in the bedroom, and that's a scary fact for women everywhere!

The Numbers Don't Lie

Why is it that so MANY women are unhappy with their lovers? It depends on who you ask. Many women will readily admit that it's partially THEIR fault as they are NOT nearly as communicative with their boyfriends, lovers and husbands as they should be. The simple truth is that MOST men, simply DON'T know where to touch...and HOW to touch in erotic, hypnotic and explosive ways. I tell MY readers to ALWAYS tell your man what you want NOW...rather than waiting for later, when sex feels like a chore and you simply have had so MANY sub par experiences with him that you start to make excuses....and fantasize about other men. By then, unfortunately it's too late!

Learn the Landscape

I always tell men to simply LEARN her body. How she moves, what she REALLY means when she says what she says in bed....and how to learn EVERYTHING you need to know from that and simply make her melt. Her body is FAR more complex than you think, and there are in fact MANY little sensitive spots she PROBABLY hasn't shared! ( but hopes you'll find on your own!)

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The Top 4 Places to Touch Your Lover to Drive Her Wild!

By Maria Holland

There are a number of places on the female anatomy that can be very pleasurable to touch mainly because they are very sensitive. The thing about these places is that they are not very well known so you can use them to drive your partner wild when you are having sex and get lots of credit for doing things no one has done before.

So starting from 4 they are:

4: The inside of the knee - this is the spot on the back of the leg where the knee is, this spot is highly sensitive and feels really nice when it is rubbed. You could use this technique during cunnilingus and just reach down with your hands and rub, or as a build up to cunnilingus you could kiss and lick up her legs resting at the back of the knee for a while!

3: The hands - You can use hand techniques when you are out and about, just hold her hand and caress it while you are walking down the street. The best thing to do is to very lightly rub the inside of her palm while the two of you are maybe in a movie theater or at a play, do this and she will definitely be leading you to the bedroom when you get home.

2: The feet - After a long hard day nothing feels better than a nice foot massage. Then after all the tension built up from the day has melted away it can start to feel very erotic.

1: The neck - This is the best place to touch and kiss your woman to get her in the mood for anything. You can go here during sexual intercourse or as a build up, when you are kissing her just stroke her hair to the side and lightly kiss your way down her cheek to the inside of her neck!

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How to Make Your Woman Cry Out During an Orgasm!

By Maria Holland

As a man the only sign you guys can get of whether or not you are doing a good job in bed is whether or not you can get her to cry out during an orgasm. Otherwise how will you ever know if she is really enjoying what you are doing. Well I am going to give you some great tips so that you can have her crying out every time you have sex with her.

To start with you need to make sure you are in an empty house and let her know that she can be as loud as she wants. Letting her know this will stop her from keeping it in and will make sure that she will be as loud as you make her!

When she is aware of this you need to make sure you take your time in pleasing her, remember you have the house to yourself so there is no need to rush!

Start off with plenty of foreplay, women love foreplay. During this foreplay make sure she gets plenty of attention so she will be ready for an orgasm.

Keep changing positions and techniques until you find one that she seems to enjoy and just go with that one for a while.

Once she is nearing orgasm change position to either doggy style or missionary with her legs over your shoulders. These positions allow for the deepest penetration possible which results in the best orgasms.

Use these great tips and you will have she cry out during her orgasm.

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A Top Position All Men Should Use Regularly

By Maria Holland

There are so many positions around that you could memorize the Karma Sutra and be changing positions all night long. But the question remains which positions really work? Which positions will she reach orgasm the easiest? This primer gives an insight on those positions that are sure to leave her satisfied. Missionary position is a hit every single time as it provides the stimulation required for her orgasm.

Many females do not orgasm from penetration alone, so this means that most will require additional stimulation on the clitoris to reach orgasm. During missionary position the penis creates friction against the clitoris, giving her the best of both words; stimulation to the clitoris and penetration. Additional stimulation can be had by propping up her pelvis by using a pillow or a folded blanket. This will allow the penetration to stimulate the g-spot. G-spot stimulation has been known to produce a more intense orgasm than clitoral stimulation.

Missionary is one of the easiest positions for females to reach orgasm and do you know the best thing about it? There are many variations on the missionary position. If she likes to be penetrated deeply try holding her feet in the air while you are thrusting,. Other variations include placing her feet in the air behind her head (if she can stretch this far!). This modified missionary position is a favorite of most women, as it practically guarantees an orgasm every time the position is used.

Also missionary is beneficial to some women because they are able to control the depth of your thrusts by wrapping her legs around your waist.

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3 Top Tips For Lasting Longer in the Bedroom - Make Her Orgasm Before You Do!

By Maria Holland

As a lot of you probably know, it takes a longer time for a woman to orgasm than for a man. Now this is very bad for men as it means that from the start you are fighting an uphill battle to make her come at the same time or even before you! In my years as a sexual therapist I have learned a few great tips that men can do so they can hold off on their orgasm until they really want to and I am going to share them with you:

1) Position - Some positions cause less tension on the penis meaning less movement and therefore taking longer to orgasm. Unfortunately I can not tell you which position will work best for you as all men are different in this respect. It takes a lot of experience to find which way is best for you but once you find your position try to maneuver the situation into that position!

2) Masturbate before hand - This is the best way to hold off your orgasm, after an orgasm your penis is less sensitive and will take much longer to become stimulated enough to orgasm. This may not be ideal as you never can be sure of when you are going to have sex but if you are always try to masturbate before hand so you can go that extra mile.

3) Go the toilet - No this isn't the same tip as before! Always empty your bladder before you have sex and you will be able to control your orgasms and ejaculation better. A full bladder puts pressure on the penis and provides it with more tension. Also it can be a bit off putting if you really need the toilet whilst trying to have sex.

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Why It's So Important When it Comes to Making Passionate Love

By Jared Wadel

Making passionate love with your partner is one of the best moments which a husband and wife share with each other apart from the rest of the world. It is a common form of an expression of love which both partners feel towards each other.

Making love is just more then sex. passionate love is an expression of deeper emotions that only you and your lady can share in private. Making Love is part of that work. Making passionate love is a different story. The words themselves tell us that were going to make something, were going to create it or build it, or mix the ingredients to get something more or different than when we began.

Sexual playfulness is vital for continuing to experience each other as lovers. We both feel free to be ourselves. Sex can be a source of both pleasure and suffering. Sexual intimacy is meant to be shared by two people who love one another in the context of marriage. Because this is the deepest form of sharing between two people, and because there is an emotional bond that takes place when two people are intimate with each other.

Women will not be happy in a relationship without intimacy. Women often resent having sex without affection and conversation first, and men resent talking and being affectionate with no hope for sex or recreation. By combining the fulfillment of all four needs into a single event, however, both spouses have their needs met and enjoy the entire time together.

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7 Mistakes Most Men Make in Bed! (You Can Fix Them Right Now)

By J. Sexton

1. Cut your finger nails!

This is such a simple little thing, but it goes a long way. You will be hard pressed to find any area on her body more sensitive than her vagina (inside and out), and the LAST thing you want to do is completely ruin the mood with a scratch. How do you know if your nails are cut short enough? Touch your gums with the tips of your fingers, how do they feel? If you're not sure, cut them. (If you're having daily sex with your partner, you might be cutting your fingernails as often as every 2-3 days.) But believe me, it's THAT important.

2. Listen and pay attention (in bed) in order to know her body.

This topic is so important, it needs its own post, but for now I will summarize. You need to figure out how she wants to be touched, which is pretty difficult to do if you don't have 100% of your concentration on her. Does she prefer her clit stroked from the side? up and down? circles? Are you sure? You should be. No matter what you're doing or how you're touching her, you have two main ways of figuring it out: First you can always ask, "did that feel good, or is that better?" This works great as long as you don't over do it. When you ask, your tone should be confident, you know what you're doing, you're just fine tuning. The second way is watching for those subtle clues. The flush of her skin, the way her mouth opens, her breathing (moaning), her fingers and toes are all good indicators of whether you're doing something right. During foreplay, try touching her one way for 30 seconds, then another way and see if you can spot the difference. This takes practice to learn, but it's well worth it.

3. Don't focus too much on intercourse, and not enough on oral or fingering.

Most men don't realize that there are ways that you can please your partner with your fingers (will discuss in future posts) that you can't even come close to with your penis.

If your fingers aren't involved 4 out of 5 times you're engaging in sex, then chances are you're not leaving her fully satisfied.

As far as oral, I don't think it's a big secret, but many men still don't realize that there's a huge difference for a woman between vaginal and clitoral orgasms. (Especially clitoral orgasms given with your mouth). Some women find clitoral orgasms more intense, others say that vaginal is the big full body orgasm. I find it best to give her both and cover all my bases.

4. More Lubrication Please!

There is nothing worse for a woman than when a guy takes a dry finger and drags it over her clit. The pain is very intense. So just remember this:

When touching a woman don't be afraid of Over-Lubricating.

This is one of those times when more is definitely better. And no you don't have to run out and buy the latest K-Y Jelly, the age old porn technique does the trick every time. Saliva is a fantastic lubricant for most common vagina-related sexual activities. If you are going to be having Anal sex then I really don't recommend saliva, as that might be the last time she will agree to anal :P .

5. Extend the foreplay.

Most women are not constantly lubricated. Just like men need to get hard, women need to get wet in order to enjoy sex. And even though you can shorten this step by applying rule #4, you are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice because, simply put:

The more intense the foreplay, the more intense her orgasms.

6. Consistent Rhythm is the KEY to her Orgasm!

One of the biggest mistakes men make as they try to bring a woman closer to orgasm is constant varying of the firmness and speed of their touch (, lick, or thrust). When a woman tells you that she is getting closer, keep doing what you're doing!

Do NOT start going faster, or harder unless she specifically asks you to.

This is such a simple concept and yet so many men out there just don't get it. Women need a rhythm in order to cum, think of it as playing a tune on a musical instrument, you generally stick to the same rhythm the entire song. If you keep switching up her rhythm you will be unpleasantly surprised as you both become frustrated by her inability to reach orgasm.

7. Orgasm second!

You usually want to make your partner cum (at least once) before you do. Why? Because its fun :-). It gives you that feeling of power and control. It makes you feel great about yourself... Actually if you have to ask why, you're in the wrong place. This rules applies doubly to any of you that are struggling to last longer in bed. Imagine what a great stress reliever it is, if before you ever put your penis inside of her, you've already made her cum twice with your fingers and once with your mouth ;-) You might be so relaxed, you might not even realize that you've conquered your issue. (And if you do cum too soon, no biggie, this was just the icing on the cake for her).

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How to Please Your Wife Sexually - Advice For Christian Husbands

By H R Miller

There are a few things every Christian husband should keep in mind when it comes to sex. Sex is an amazing gift from GOD. He wants you and your wife to enjoy it to the fullest. Here are a few things to keep in mind when it comes time to make love to your wife.

1. Take it slow so you can last longer

Many men, not just Christians suffer from now being able to last long enough. Many Christian husbands suffer from this due to the fact that they haven't had much practice.

The key is to take your time. Don't rush. If you feel you are about to ejaculate to quickly then pull out until the sensation goes away. They continue on. Changing positions will also help you last longer due to the fact that you have to stop, change positions and then enter back into your wife.

You can also learn exercises that will train the muscle that is responsible for ejaculation and make it last longer.

2. Variety is the spice of life

Many Christian couples suffer from pure boredom in the bedroom. Husbands, take it upon yourself to learn new positions and techniques. Your wife will love you all the more for it. Surprise her the next time you make love. Don't just get on top of her and go at it. Switch it up.

Trying new things will make sex more exciting and enjoyable for both of you.

3. Pay attention

This is probably the easiest of them all yet many men don't do it. You can tell by the way your wife responds to you if she likes something or not. Just pay attention. If she moans or pulls you closer then she likes it. If her body is not responding to you then she probably doesn't like it so you should try something else. Better yet ask her what she wants from you. Ask her what she would like for you to do to her. Talk to your wife during sex. Ask her "Does that feel good?" or "How does that feel?" She will respond and let you know. This is probably the best way to ensure you always please your wife.

Remember these 3 things the next time you and your wife make love. If you take it slow, try new things and pay attention to her I guarantee she will have a very pleasurable experience.

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How to Make Her Orgasm Quickly

By George Sampson

There are a number of things you can do from today to make her orgasm quickly in the bedroom. As a man you should make it your job to ensure that she orgasms fast. The techniques I'm going to reveal in this article are gold for any man who wants to please his woman and make her moan more loudly than ever before...

The best ways to make her orgasm quickly involve three areas; your penis, your tongue and your fingers. I'm going to start by talking about using fingers to get her off. The best way to do this is to make your fingers wet and to gently use very small circular movements around her clitoris. If you can keep it up while using the same rhythm and pressure then she will reach a fulfilling orgasm faster than you'd think. If in doubt then just ask her how it feels and what you could do to improve the feeling.

When using your tongue you can do much the same as with your fingers. This time you should begin by concentrating on the whole vagina. Sliding your tongue inside her is a great way to make her feel incredible. Also you should use the flat part of the tongue over the tip (when stimulating her clitoris) as this is softer and feels much better to her. Be gentle at first, using only the lightest touches. Then, as she gets more turned on you can vamp it up and go a little harder.

For the best sexual experience you should aim to use your penis on its own to make her reach orgasm fast. This can be quite difficult for girls who always rely on clitoral stimulation to come. But given the right guidance you can turn this around and make her vaginally orgasmic every time. This alone will make her orgasm quickly.

The trick to make her more vaginally responsive is to make her orgasm without any clitoral stimulation at all. With this in mind the best thing to do is to make her very turned on, then use your fingers and slide them as deep inside her as they will go. When you do this you'll feel a ridge (like that of a Frisbee) and if you stimulate this firmly you will make her orgasm quickly in the end - although it may take a few times of taking longer to really get it right.

After that all you need is a thick penis which is able to last the distance, and then she will be vaginally orgasmic. I used natural penis enhancement products to achieve this and the results are phenomenal.

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The Biological Meaning of Love and Sex

By Francis K Githinji

Love and sex are phenomenon most common with human beings. In mammals, it is only in human beings that we see things like romantic love and sex. The sexual urges are very strong in human beings and this has triggered a recent research. Love and sex in humans was important to pair up people since life is so hard for one to be alone. People need to have partners to help them in daily duties far from romance. It might sound unromantic but as observed in the African grassroots women were carrying 20-pound ball in one hand and holding sticks and stones with the other hand for security purposes. These shows that a woman needs a man for security. No wonder a woman cannot stay alone. She needs a partner.

Raising children is better when it is done by two people and therefore it is important for the two partners to enjoy love and sex so that they stick together. When the researchers dealt with love struck men and women they found that their brains were different. The experiments performed showed that men's brain was more active especially the region that is responsible for integrating visual stimulus. This proves that men respond more on seeing than on reading or hearing. It does not shock me that men like watching pornography and women spend most of their lives trying to impress men's eyes. A man is supposed to carry out his evolutionary mission of filling the world by spreading his seed. He has to look for the most impressive girls so that only the good genes will be passed to the next generation. If he is attracted to a 90 year old grandmother he won't reproduce. No wonder his love and sex have to be towards the young and the beautiful.

You will be puzzled by the woman's brain activity. The scientists or researchers discovered that women in love had most activity in the brain region that controls memory. This mechanism helps a woman when she is making a choice for a mate. She doesn't have to use visual clues to determine whether a man can sire babies or make a good father but her mental capacity to remember a man's behavior can help her choose the best man. Women are not just picky about what they want. It is nature in the Darwinian evolutionary strategy. After studying most lovers brain, the scientists concluded that romantic love and sex is not just but an emotion. It is something deep rooted in the brain.

The urge to eat or to drink some water is no different from the one to get love and sex. Isn't this why we do crazy things for love? Edward VIII gave up the throne of England in Wallis Simpson for love. Rejection is very painful as proved by the experiments carried out on college students who had been rejected by their objects of affection. The brain scan showed that the insular cortex becomes very active. People were all tears because this is the region responsible for physical pain.

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Just How Much Sex is Too Much Or Too Little

By Francis K Githinji

Ask anyone how much sex is too much and how little is too little and you will be surprised at the kind of answers you will get. The answers are as varied as the people in this world. Many people have their own perception of how much is too much and vise versa. Someone should come up with what is too little. There are people who have ended their relationship and the bold ones if asked always said there was too much sex or too little sex involved that kept pushing them away. Little by little they could not take it anymore for their partners and the best they could do is to find someone they were compatible with.

A survey was recently carried out where a group of women representing various groups and age groups were sampled. Some of the women were married some of them were singles, while others were young and old. They were then divided into two, a group that filled the questionnaires and one that were involved in discussing things concerning sex. The women in both groups were generally agreed that having sex at least three to four times a week was what they would consider to be okay. Anything less than that would be considered to be less sex and anything more than is too much sex. However, there are women who said they would have sex everyday and other who thought once a week was just enough for them.

The survey was also carried on the male counter parts and the women did not fall far below them. It was averagely found that the men considered having sex four to five times a week is what they could consider to be enough sex. However, there are men who said they could have sex the whole year round and still not have enough of it. However there are others who thought they could have sex once a week and still be okay with it. The men were generally found to be more sexually active and are also more likely to initiate sex. So does this mean that men love and enjoy sex than their female friends? That is up to you to decide.

The question still remains, just how much sex is too much and how little of it is too little. The sex therapist are in general agreement that people should have sex at least once after every two weeks. They are the experts and maybe we should consider them, but the results indicate something else that maybe we need to follow. However, people are different and what you consider to be enough of you could be falling short of the other person's. Once you meet with your partner, you should discuss about sex. Do not shy away from the topic. Those who could not talk about sex have been known to have broken relationships. It is always good to know what your partner is looking for in a relationship and how many times they would rather have sex in the relationship.

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An Overview of Online Dating Services - UK

By Francis K Githinji

Online dating service UK is one of the most lively in the world. They have been pace setters in this industry. More Britons are opting for this kind of meeting for singles. In the recent past, this kind of dating used to be for young people in the UK but, today, you will find profiles of all ages. This shows that everyone is embracing online dating. Consequently, there are numerous online dating service UK sites. It does not matter what kind of group you are coming from. The group may be religious or social. For example, you will find a lot of single parent sites, sites for religious groups and the list goes on. Many people have found themselves soul mates and life partners. Others have had short term flings. It will all depend on what you wish to achieve in a relationship. There are so many people who are not looking for long term commitments. They may be looking for friends or even pen pals. Many are looking for short term romantic flings. You will find many online dating service UK sites that offer a variety of services. Most of them are exclusive for the people of the United Kingdom. When you log on to them, when you are not from the area, you will not have access to the service. Singles from this location need to take advantage of the opportunity. You have no excuse of being lonely. There are many challenges that you will face when you are choosing online dating service UK.

First, if you come with certain religious beliefs, you will find a service that will be suitable for you. For example, if you are Muslim, look for online dating services for Muslims. The UK has a significant number of Muslims and the sites are numerous. There are many Muslims who have found love that have resulted in marriages. The same goes for Christians, Jews and others. Consider the issue of security. You must have a sense of security when you are communicating with potential suitors. There are so many things that online dating service UK services do to ensure safety. First, they can make sure that no member with a criminal background has a profile. This will happen when you have screened the background of members. Some people cannot use this method of meeting people mainly because, they feel unsafe. Internet predators have pretty much tainted the image of the business. But, more vigilance is being employed to deal with this problem. There are a lot of punitive measures that have been put in place. Criminals have been discouraged in their path. When services make it known to members that this issue is serious, members will have more confidence. Take time and establish what services are doing about security. The other thing is the issue of cost.

Nobody wants to go for services that charge too much. Singles want sites that will have a flexible plan of paying. Take time and determine the plan that will be most suitable for you. This days, you can subscribe for even a month. This is only making it easy for singles to take advantage. The process is not always fun but, you can keep a positive attitude and focus on a positive end.

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Learn Dirty Talk - Just 3 Easy Steps

By Duncan Roberts

Learning dirty talk is not difficult. Sure, it takes practice, a little bit of confidence and a partner willing to participate and learn with you. It can be a fun journey, as involved as you want but with one major benefit - there is no end.

The results of you taking the time to learn dirty talk is a greatly improved sex life, a more open and honest relationship and a breaking down of the barriers that often exist between two people even after they have known each other (or been married) for many, many years.

For something that still (wrongly) carries such a social taboo and earns a sharply indrawn breath from those less honest with themselves than you are - talking dirty really does pay out huge dividends for very little investment of your time and thought!

So here are three easy steps to help you learn dirty talk in next to no time. Study them and apply them; you will be surprised how easy talking dirty will come to you after you give it a shot.

Step 1 - Get Started

Starting dirty talk is the most difficult part. It is hard just to come outright with some dirty speak out of nowhere. For this reason, why not ask your partner straight out if he/she is interested in talking dirty? If they say yes then great! You can lead into it by using some subtle dirty talk language and describing to each other what you enjoy. If they are unsure about talking dirty then they are more than likely just a bit shy of being quite so honest and truthful. You may need to take the lead here and start off with some fun and light dirty talk first to help them get into it.

Step 2 - Set Some Rules

Whilst you do not want to be overly restrictive as it can ruin the mood, it is still wise to ask your partner whether there are any words he or she doesn't like. Some words may simple not be appropriate for some people and that is fine; dirty talk does not have to mean having a filthy mouth. It just means being erotic and raunchy and a little more naughty than you normally are. Once you have set some ground rules for words either of you don't like, you can continue.

Step 3 - Feel Your Way Around (Stop smirking!)

After a while you will be able to talk dirty with no prompting but in the first stages it can be easier if you are in close contact and touching each other. When touching each other it is more likely that you can let out dirty talk words easier as your senses will be heightened.

These three easy steps to becoming a dirty talk expert are a simple guide for anyone wishing to delve into the world of erotic talk. Talking dirty really enhances a relationship and takes you places you never dreamed of! To help you more to learn dirty talk, check out the site at http://www.howtotalkdirty.info/

Three Best Ways to Get Sexual With a Woman

By Derek Rake

Now you have probably had a couple of dates with this woman. You start to wonder if you could start getting sexual with her, but you are not sure how to go about doing that.

It's a good thing that you want to escalate from platonic to physical, because if one stays long enough in the 'comfort' zone with no sexual tension, he will be thought of as a friend rather than a lover.

However, there is a danger of being blown totally out of the water if you don't do it smoothly enough. Do it too fast and you'll ruin the whole damn thing. Here are three surefire tips to ensure that you get physical with a woman as smoothly as possible.

Tip 1. Escalate the kino.

'Kino' is the term coined by the seduction community to mean "non-sexual touching". If you have been doing the right thing, you must have been kino-ing her during your first dates. Now it's the time to extend that to playful touching. Examples of this are - tickling, brushing against her, and bumping her while walking.

Remember that your ultimate aim at this stage is to create sexual tension. While you want to escalate the kino, don't 'go for the jugular' and hug and grab her boobs.

Tip 2. Be physically seductive.

Remember that you don't want to act as her best friend. Hold a strong eye contact with her, talk slowly, and look that you want her.

Try this technique popularized by Neil Strauss (Style) - look at her left eye, then right eye, and then to her lips (The Triangular Gaze). Do it slowly, and sensually. If she looks back at you fondly and comfortably, then go for the kiss.

Tip 3. Be opposite how a 'friend' would behave.

Don't talk to her like she's a 'friend'. If all you talk with her are her problems (especially with men!), you will risk becoming her 'emotional tampon'.

Instead, create sexual tension by teasing and challenging her. If you need to talk about relationships, make sure that you talk on the positive (or imagine the positive ie "how would your ideal partner be like?"). Avoid discussing about past relationships.

Follow the above tips and you'll be able to get sexual with a woman smoothly and avoid the dreaded 'friend zone'.

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