The Female Orgasm - It's All in Her Head

By Tyler Privado

Ever had a lover that no matter what you did... she just wouldn't orgasm.

You worked your heart out, tried all your slick moves... but nothing?

She might have even told you she "can't orgasm" and maybe that released some of the pressure.

The fact is, she could orgasm... nearly all women can. Unless there's been a lot of trauma in her life... she can orgasm. It's just that you're both missing the one key ingredient.

Her mind.

Men (and women) don't seem to realise that a huge part of the female orgasm is mental. In fact, I'd go as far to say that how you make her feel is 80% of her reaching orgasm.

Because it doesn't matter how good you are at stimulating a woman's body... if her minds not there... there's no orgasm.

Trust me... I've experienced this for myself. I became so curious about these women that said they "can't orgasm" that I began to research it. And that's how I discovered what I was doing wrong.

My technique was pretty great... (if I do say so myself) but I wasn't fully turning on her mind as well. She was enjoying herself... she was asking for more... but as long as that little "mental lock" stayed on in her mind... there was going to be no happy ending to this story.

Now I'm not going to lie to you like some "sex gurus" will and say there's a 100% foolproof solution that will work every time (and instantly too!). Let's face it... women are a little more complicated than that. It's not like we're just changing a light bulb here...

But I do believe that if you learn to stimulate a woman's mind she has a much higher chance of reaching orgasm. There are some women that, due to their sexual past, will have a lot of trouble releasing this mental block. But I believe it can be done in a loving and trusting relationship.

Some women will find it a lot easier to release this mental lock and suddenly you're the best lover she's ever had. And I must say that's a pretty great feeling to have.

And if you're one of the lucky ones... your lover will have none of these sexual blockages at all. Then suddenly, by adding the power of her mind to the equation, she won't know what hit her.

So the next time you're in the bedroom... have a think about how you can arouse her mind, as well as her body. The results are worth it... trust me.

Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he'd had in the past, he decided to do something about it. Visit his website to find out how to make love to a woman's mind and body and download his free report "Why You Might Be Bad In Bed... And What To Do About It." He prides himself on being different and avoiding unnecessary hype and huge promises. While other "sex gurus" promise mind bending multiple orgasms from super ninja g-spot techniques invented by Tibetan monks... he focuses on the power of a woman's mind for creating a powerful sexual response that lasts a lot longer than a night of passion. If you're ready for the real, straight forward answers about amazing your lover in the bedroom, check out his website for more free information and articles.

Female Orgasms - Tips to Give Your Woman Powerful Orgasms During Intercourse

By Susan Johnsson

Achieving an orgasm through intercourse is something that most women find very difficult to do. The reason for this is generally due to poor technique from their partners.

One of the biggest myths that men are abiding by, is that successful intercourse is achieved by thrusting at a very high rate per second. What they don't realize is that this does nothing more than cause discomfort to their partners, and the man also loses steam very quickly.

By using a bit of common sense, you will be able to help your woman achieve explicit orgasms every time you have intercourse with her. Let us take a look at a few ways that can improve your overall performance of intercourse;

It is important to keep in mind that you should always have an end goal or purpose as to what you would like to achieve, or help your woman achieve in terms of orgasms. By understanding this end goal, you will know how to correctly approach it, and successfully reach it.For instance, it would be useless trying out certain sex positions that are made for helping a woman achieve clitoral orgasms, when you are trying to give her a g-spot orgasm. Also, just because you have the right type of sex position, it is important to understand that this does not automatically enable your woman to orgasm. You have to know how to correctly execute the sex position in order to get the best results.

For instance, while trying a certain sex position, you need to think about the angling of the penis as it enters the vagina so that it can successfully stimulate the right spots in order to achieve any particular type of orgasm. So as you can see, by applying a bit of logic, and having an end goal or purpose, you will be able to have a better understanding of what you are doing during intercourse, thus enabling your woman to achieve the most stunning orgasms that she is only ever dreamt of.

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Female Orgasms - 1 Powerful Tip to Intensify Your Woman's Orgasms

By Susan Johnsson

The reason why some men find it very difficult to give a woman orgasms is because they focus solely on the area that they believe will achieve an orgasm, but forget to stimulate the rest of their partner's body. For a woman this can be very annoying, because she would like to know that her partner finds other parts of the body attractive, and not just the vagina.Let us take a look at ways in how you can increase your woman's overall "erotic highs", and intensify her orgasm to new levels of ecstasy;

A great way to improve your overall lovemaking sessions with your partner is by mixing foreplay with any other type of sex that you are performing. For instance, if you are performing cunnilingus on your woman, or having intercourse with her, include foreplay into the mix. By doing this, it will allow you to spend an equal amount of time I'm paying attention on other parts of your woman's body while at the same time stimulating the most sensitive spots.

If you are performing cunnilingus on your woman, feel free to use your hands to stimulate her breasts, thighs and buttocks. It would be good now and then to also use your mouth and tongue on these areas as well. In other words, use it as a way of teasing your woman so that you can build anticipation in her mind.

For instance, begin by kissing her breasts, then grew gradually move down her body until you reach the areas surrounding her clitoris. Take your time in kissing this area, and once you feel she is fully aroused, you can then begin direct stimulation on the clitoris with your mouth After doing this for a few minutes, move away and begin to gradually kiss up her body until you reach her breasts again. At this point you can then throw your hands into the mix and use it to stimulate the clitoris while you're kissing her breasts and other erogenous zones.

By taking this approach, you will be able to give your woman the most exquisite orgasms that she had thought was only possible as a fantasy.

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Am I Good in Bed? 2 Crucial Questions EVERY Man Needs to Ask (Because She Sure Is!)

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to take a quick look at one of the most common questions we get asked by men JUST like you every week: "Am I good in bed....and how do I know for sure?" The simple truth is that with the scary statistics out there about women and faked orgasms ( a recent survey of over ten THOUSAND women revealed that 50% of us are faking at LEAST once per year...and with the man we claim to love!) men are literally finding their sexual esteem at VERY low levels. And with the female sexual revolution hitting levels NOT seen since the 1960's, there is GOOD reason to worry!

Women are simply NOT settling for unsatisfactory sexual relationships these days, and will continue to be more selective in the future as well. Let's take a quick look at 3 questions you NEED to be asking yourself...because if you're not, the likelihood she's asking them SILENTLY about you! Read on.

Filed Under: Have You Learned the Landscape?

There is NOTHING worse than a man who simply does not know WHERE to touch on a woman's body. With so many DIFFERENT sexy and sensitive spots, if you aren't familiar with EXACTLY where feels best, it's high time you learned. (or asked her to point them OUT)

Filed Under: Have You Mastered the Phenomenal Art of Foreplay...or Not?

Don't laugh - for many men, foreplay is SPORTSCENTER on espn. Look, the bottom line is a woman's body REQUIRES a certain amount of stimulation to have her erotic engine amped UP, and if you can't provide that BEFORE sex, she eventually, will find someone else who will.

And One Last thing.....Remember: Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better (understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable) You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold. So Click Here to become a more Powerful lover and give her an ORGASM so STRONG ....she'll scream your name in her sleep!

She Definitely Does Not Like That! Learn the 3 Things Women Hate in Bed!

By Maria Holland

A lot of people go on about things that you should be doing to please your woman in bed, but what you should really be looking out for is what you are already doing in bed that she really hates and makes her not want to see you again! Do not worry though, in this article I am going to be giving you some of the things women really hate in bed!

1) The foreplay is too short - This is the number one pet peeve of women out there, men are just not spending enough time on foreplay! This annoys women for 2 reasons, firstly it makes them feel that the man they are with is just not interested in pleasuring them and are only interested in getting their own pleasure. The second reason this annoys women is because without an adequate amount of foreplay women simply cannot have an orgasm, women need to be turned on and fully charged in order to climax!

2) "I have other body parts yano!" - This is another hate for women, when men get into bed with them and just go straight for the breasts or the vagina. A woman's body should be viewed as one big sex organ, almost every single part of a woman's body can be used to make a woman orgasm.

3) Take Your Time - Women hate it when a man gets into bed with them does his business and then hops straight back out again, take your time and stick around after wards and you will be invited back again and again!

4) You simply are not good enough! - Sexual Technique and a large penis are vital for making your lover orgasm. However a small penis need not be a tragedy, there are ways to remedy the situation and it is called Penis Advantage Penis Advantage is a revolutionary new guide which gives great advice and techniques for penis enlargement. You can read a full review of this guide over at Top Seduction Techniques

Masturbation - The History

By Leigh Reeves

We all know what it is, manipulating your genitals to the point of intense pleasure or orgasm.

While masturbation can involve another person, most think of it as a very private act.

According to some health care providers masturbation allows a healthy way to express and explore your sexuality and to release sexual tension without all the associated risks of sexual intercourse.

Health professionals generally agree that this private touching is a natural, normal mode of self-exploration and sexual expression.

Most surveys suggest that approximately 94% of teenage males "admitted" that they masturbated and about 70% of teen females "admitted" to it too.

This is great that teens are finally able to do the deed without guilt. Hopefully this will cut down the rate of teenage pregnancies.

Teaching Masturbation?

In the 1970s and 1980s, a woman named Betty Dodson, Ph.D., achieved much fame from her approach to masturbation.

She held classes for women to teach them how to masturbate. Dodson believed women needed to overcome certain degrees of repression instilled by the church.

Interesting??

In 1994 Dr. Jocelyn Elders, the second woman appointed to the position of U.S. Surgeon General, lost her job as Surgeon General because she dared to say that masturbation should actually be taught in schools.

Her Mistake

Was probably when she said, "It's practicing for sex."

History of Masturbation:

Around the turn-of-the-century, some adults were so against masturbation that they forced their daughters to wear gloves made of a steel-wool-like material (like Brillo pads) at night so they wouldn't touch.

They made their sons wear metal chastity belts to cause a painful erection.

During the 1820s, some parents prevented male masturbation by piercing the foreskin with a wire and soldering the ends together. Boys and girls were discouraged from masturbation by the threat of blindness, madness and illness.

All kinds of chastity belts and other devices were used to prevent masturbation, probably as far back in history as you can go.

This will vary from culture to culture

Leigh Reeves Creator - http://www.sexstrology.org Managing Editor - http://www.getintimate.org

How to Please Her - The G-Spot

By Leigh Reeves

What is the g-spot?

It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the para-urethral gland, which is only about the size of a quarter. The G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, so it swells up when blood rushes to it -- especially if you learn how to master the woman's G-spot effectively.

Location: one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall.

3 Easy Steps to Finding the G-Spot

Foreplay (it is easier if the woman is sexually aroused)

1. Face her while she is lying on her back and insert your index or middle finger into her as far as it will go, while still being comfortable to her.

2. Move your finger(s) toward yourself as a "come hither" motion. Slide your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you feel an area that is rougher than the rest. This is the G-spot. Touching it will be very pleasurable to your partner.

3. If this does not work, keep feeling around. Do NOT be afraid to ask your partner how it feels or what you could do differently.

Do not be discouraged if you get no reaction. Some women may not react as expected. Don't give up!

Tip to remember: Some women may have multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, while other may feel discomfort. Please remember to ask her if she likes what you are doing.

Other ways to penetrate the G-spot: You can try using a dildo/vibrator and penile penetration. See which one your partner prefers.

Leigh Reeves Creator - http://www.sexstrology.org Managing Editor - http://www.getintimate.org

How Can I Get My Husband to Be Better in Bed?

By Eileen Henderson

A recent sex survey revealed that 68% of women are unsatisfied with their husband's erection strength and staying power. It's also likely the man isn't satisfied with himself. The resulting tension can be very damaging to a marriage. But steps can be taken to relieve this frustrating problem.

If your husband is receptive to the idea of improving his sexual performance, there are many things he can do. Exercising for at least 20 minutes a day, for example, is very helpful. The Harvard School of Public Health studied over 31,000 men and concluded that those who exercised had a 30 percent lower risk for erectile dysfunction than men who didn't exercise.

If your husband smokes or drinks too much, that could also be a problem. Try to limit his alcohol intake to a couple of drinks a day. And definitely cut out the smoking!

Kegel exercises can also greatly increase the strength and duration of an erection. A kegel exercise consists of contracting and relaxing the muscles which form part of the pelvic floor. When a man stops the flow of urine midstream he is doing a kegel exercise. Try to get him to do a minimum of three sets of 10 kegels every day. They really make a difference!

Herbal supplements are also very popular right now, with good reason. Natural remedies don't require a prescription and have no significant side effects. Herbs have been used for thousands of years to help men achieve and maintain an erection. Today, there's a growing body of scientific evidence that these herbs really do work.

It's very important to buy a supplement from a reputable company that thoroughly tests its ingredients. Only the highest quality herbs will work effectively. Also try to find one that's manufactured only in the United States and follows strict FDA guidelines. A money-back refund policy is also desirable. If your husband follows all the advice in this article, I can guarantee you that sex will be better than ever--and so will your marriage!

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