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September 18, 2008

Nicola Legrottaglie - The Italian Stallion Abstains Until Marriage

By Sonya Gray

Handsome Nicola Legrottaglie is a famous Italian soccer star and a former playboy.

I use the phrase former playboy because, in a recent interview with Italian magazine Sportsweek, Nicola disclosed his decision to abstain from sex until marriage.

"I have not had sex in two years and honestly, it has not been a burden," Nicola said.

He was upfront about his previous conquests saying that if he didn't hook up every few days, "I panicked." Upon reflection of those encounters he said, "one who is able to live without sex, in the end, becomes a slave."

Nicola said he chose to abstain from sex until marriage, "not because I do not like women, but because I am waiting for the right woman with whom to have a family, a woman who shares the same values."

Hmmm...this guy is good looking AND intelligent. Eat your hearts out ladies!

Breaking Hearts On & Off The Field

Nicola's rise as a star defender in Turin, Italy's Juvenetus soccer club began on an equally prestigious Italian football club, the Associazione Sportiva Bari.

He played for the club as a youth for two years before moving on to other teams.

Nicola finally landed at the Juvenetus club where he had quite a bumpy ride. His new coach, Fabio Capello, didn't give him any playing time. He got bounced around to a couple more teams until the 2007-2008 season.

When another player was seriously injured, Nicola was promoted to starter.

Although Juvenetus finished third place in 2008, Nicola was awarded a 2-year extended contract due to his excellent form.

Hard work, perseverance, and dedication made him a star on the soccer field.

But it was growing up in a religious family that formed the foundation for Nicola's firm stance to abstain until marriage.


In my book, this makes him a star OFF the soccer field.

Sources:
LifeSite News: One Who Is Unable To Live Without Sex...
EmyDream: The Biography of Legrottaglie
Graphic: Newpress

Sonya provides information to help advance the message of total abstinence until marriage and its' advantages for people of all ages.

They say a college degree or a stellar work history is proof of expertise in a given field of study or profession. If that's the case, I'm in my junior year at the college of Total Abstinence Until Marriage. I'll graduate with a Bachelor's degree in Spring 2009. Then I'll concentrate on pursuing my Master's degree.

Seriously, though...

If you haven't figured it out by now, I have maintained a lifestyle of total abstinence until marriage for the past three years...with no regrets and a lot less headaches.

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Orgasm Secrets - Learn the Best Way to Have a Awesome G Spot Orgasm

By Bryan Burbank

When it comes to orgasm most people think they know it all but the truth is that we have very complicated bodies and an orgasm is not all physical there is a lot of mental stimulation involved as well. If you are a male looking to give your female partner a mind blowing orgasm then it is important to understand that she needs to be aroused mentally and emotionally as well as physically. It is important that you do not skip the foreplay because it is true that she needs to be warmed up and suing many methods of foreplay can be one of the best ways to accomplish this.

It is always best to set some time aside for the both of your to be alone and without distraction so that the focus will be on you and her not the cell phone, computer, etc. Once you have the evening to yourselves then you want to set the tone of the room such as adding some candles or incense. Also make sure you find some nice romantic music and this is best left up to what your taste are.

Next you want to maybe get a great romantic game such as foreplay dice. This will be a great way for you to have fun and get you both in the mood at the same time. The great thing about using a game is that you do not have to feel uncomfortable about what to do next because the game takes care of that.

Remember that when you are going for a awesome orgasm that you need to add a lot of foreplay and don't be afraid to try something new.


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A Woman Needs More Than Just Your Penis to Achieve Orgasms

By Zachary M Achachi

The female body is a complex work of art - beautiful to look at, but difficult to figure out especially when it comes to orgasm. Many men find it difficult to understand the female sexual response cycle simply because it differs so much from their own.

Unlike with the male orgasm, women have the ability to feel many different types of climaxes. These climaxes are dependent on the types of stimuli used, and whether the orgasm is clitoral or vaginal.

So, before you start poking and prodding in all the wrong places, learn all there is to know about the female orgasm - how it happens, and most importantly, how to make it happen.

Here is a brief overview of what takes place during a female orgasm:

• Stimulation of clitoris

• Tension build-up is caused within pelvis

• Tension is finally released and orgasm is experienced

• Series of involuntary (yet pleasurable) muscle contractions sweep through body

• Contractions are felt in the vagina, uterus, and/or rectum

Women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended. But considering the latter which is literally the other two put together and therefore is not necessarily classified as a type.

However, clinical studies most sexologists now agree that an orgasm is an orgasm, no matter what area of a woman genitalia or body is being stimulated.

Nonetheless, here are the two areas of a woman vagina that can lead to the most satisfying female orgasm:

• The clitoris' only function is to provide pleasure for women. Keep in mind that, because the clitoris is much easier to find, female orgasm is usually achieved via clitoral stimulation.

• Inside the vagina, you can find the infamous G-spot, or the Grafenberg spot. The G-spot is located on the front wall (toward the navel) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that the G-spot can be either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland (or series of glands) that produces a watery substance that may explain female "ejaculation". The tissue surrounding these glands, which includes the part of the clitoris that reaches up inside the vagina, swells with blood during sexual arousal. And there is some evidence that nerves in the area produce an orgasm different to one produced by clitoral stimulation.


Many people have questions about how they can make their female partner achieve orgasm. Find answers to common orgasm questions at http://how-to-achieve-female-orgasm.blogspot.com/

Pheromones - Can They Attract Someone to You?

By Tracy Kristalakis

Pheromones are chemical signals that plants and animals use to communicate with each other. The origin of the word is Greek (of course!) pherein = to transport; hormon = to stimulate. Of course we are only interested in the ones involving sex. Those are designed to attract a mate. The best example of this is seen in ants. When ants are in a line and marching along, you may notice that when one ant takes a side step the other follows. Those are pheromones at work. Wouldn't you like to put out your own pheromones and have someone you desire follow you? There are products on the market designed to do just that.

Here's the catch: no scientific study has absolutely confirmed that pheromones directly influence human behavior. Pheromones do exist readily in many other plants and animals like the above example of the ants. There is good news, however. Some studies have found that there is a possibility of pheromones in humans. It may have more to do with the association of odor as there has been found a link with special cells in the nose that can detect minute amounts of chemicals. Some salespeople swear that it helps bring clients to them and that it has increased their sales. Veterinarians and their staff also believe it helps to keep animals in their care calmer.

So while the scientific community continues to work in this area, it certainly doesn't hurt to use products that have them. You just never know you might attract.


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Why Some Men Have Their Women Craving For Sex and Some Don't

By Teddy Shabba

Given the choice which would you prefer; a woman who craves having sex with you and can't get enough or a woman who has just enough sex with you to keep around?

Assuming that you man who is interested in having sex with the woman that he is with, which scenario do you think is more empowering to you?

Hopefully you believe and know that having a woman who wants to be with you sexually is much more empowering than one who doesn't.

So how is it that so many men end up in relationships where the woman is giving him just enough sex to keep him around if any at all?

For the most part it is because she was the first one to say I've had enough and once that happens a man finds himself chasing instead of leading in regards to the sexual relationship.

Women in general have long known and in a lot of cases even taught that if you give a man what he wants he has no reason to stay and more importantly no reason to give a woman what she wants.

Yet, the same holds true for women as well, give her what she wants or so much that she knows she can get it whenever she wants and she won't want it as much.

Now, that you know what you know about women and how to have them craving for sex with you a decision must be made in regards to your next sexual relationship with a woman.

Do like so many men do and keep on taking and giving until she knows she is the one in control and then have her ration it off or you can take and give until you are satisfied and then ration it off so that you continue to be satisfied and more importantly in control.


Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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When the Woman of Your Dreams Has a Low Sex Drive

By Teddy Shabba

Imagine you find yourself with a woman who is everything you could want in a woman and more except her sex drive is so much lower than yours that both of you recognize it as a "issue" in the relationship.

What type of options do you realistically have as a man that will allow you to continue empowering yourself and your life?

Whether you like it or not you really only have two options if you are looking to maintain your own power and control.

1. Start sleeping with other women.

2. End the relationship with her completely

Anything other than these two options for the most part has you either settling for less that you deserve and/or hoping that you luck up and stumble upon something that increases the sex drive or rather sexual desire of the woman that you are with.

While there might be some different things that you can try to increase her sex drive for the most part her low sex drive has more to do with her brain than it does her body.

Meanwhile, here you are going without sex longer and longer which also means you are losing more control, power, and energy within yourself.

Not to mention the fact that considering this is her issue she is the one that needs to be searching for a solution not you.

Yet, if she isn't that should also be telling you that clearly you are the only one who seeking a solution because you are the only one who has a problem.

In her reality, there is no sex drive issue because she knows where she can get some anytime she wants it as you are willing and ready whenever she is.

To make matters worse as long as you continue to stay committed in a relationship in which you clearly aren't getting what you want the more power she gains in the relationship and the less likely she becomes to want or even find it necessary to change.


Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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What to Do When a Woman Has a Higher Sex Drive Than You

By Teddy Shabba

Most of the time if a man is going to write to me about the amount of sex that he is getting from a woman it is to inform me that he isnt getting enough.

However, every now and then a man will write to me with the exact opposite problem in which he is with a woman who has a higher sex drive than he does and wants to know what he can do abut it.

The first thing you must do is figure out if she really does have a much higher sex drive than you or if she simply enjoys sex and is willing to have it whenever you want.

A lot of men unfortunately are used to being in relationships where the woman is in control of the mount of sex that goes on in the relationship.

In other words, he is used to having sex with a woman until she says that she has had enough and then waiting till she is ready for some more.

Whether you realize it or not in those situations you become the servant and having sex with her is the master.

She is now in control and you lost it simply because you were willing to do whatever it took in order to have sex with her.

Now, you find yourself where you should want to be which is in control and instead of embracing it you are trying to give it away.

Why would you want to do such a thing?

Once you can get out of the habit of letting the woman control you through sex you then can control the amount of sex you have with a woman.

For those of you who have read this and still aren't grasping what you do when a woman has a much higher sex drive than you let me spell it out for you.

You begin leading her to do the things that you want a woman to do for you both in and out of the bedroom.


Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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Five Steps to Exploding Sexual Desire For Virtually Any Couple

By Stephanie Buehler, Psy.D.

Only very lucky couples escape the decline of sexual desire in a long-term relationship. Most couples, however, find that desire fades naturally as they become more familiar with one another. And while they might feel like good friends, a buddy isn't what they had in mind when they started having sex.

What about you and your partner? Are you stuck in a sexual rut? Know you love each other but find sex a drag? Even if you accept fading passion as normal, you are both probably wondering just what to do. From the behind the office door of a sex therapist, here are five ways to pump up passion and pleasure.

First, admit that there's something about your sex life that you would like to make better. Don't fight about it, because when desire fades, it's nobody's fault. It's a matter of grey matter--once the first chemical bath of love chemicals has drained out of the brain, we move onto other parts of survival, like doing the dishes and raking the leaves.

Second, see this as an amazing opportunity to explore your sexuality even further with a person whom you trust. Every time you hop into bed with your partner, do it with the attitude of adventure. What are you going to learn about each other's bodies today? How much pleasure can you experience? How much can you take?

Third, when you make love, slow way down. Going slow lets you really communicate your loving feelings, and to experience them in return. Let your hand, your index finger, your thumb, your tongue act as an extension of your heart. Send sexy energy all through your lover's body.

Fourth, make love frequently. The more often you make love, the more often you will want to make love. Don't allow long periods of time to go by without having sex. Women, especially, seem to find that they become like desert camels, going for weeks and weeks without sex. Frequent sex allows you to connect, pumps up those love chemicals, and helps you keep the sweetness in your relationship.

Finally, remember that every day counts as foreplay for the next time you make love. If you give each other compliments, hugs, kisses, and backrubs instead of piles of chores, tasks, and criticisms, you'll find yourselves more eager to get into bed at the end of a day, no matter how long and tiring. Sex can revive not only your love, but your body, mind, and spirit.

Try putting even one of these steps into practice and see how it revives sexual passion in your relationship. Remember, the love is still there, you just have to fan the flames.


And if you want to learn more about passionate sex, Dr. Stephanie Buehler has written a free e-book, "Sexual Discovery: 25 Secrets for Incredible Passion," available at http://www.yourpassionexpert.com - Dr. Buehler is a licensed psychologist and sex therapist in private practice at http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com - where she works with individuals and couples seeking better sex. She is frequently quoted in the media and is available for interviews and speaking.

Finding a Low Sex Drive Embarrassing - Here Are a Few Tips to Improve Your Love Life

By Sheryl Polomka

Let's face it, there aren't too many men out there that don't love sex and I'm sure if you are a male with a low sex drive you would feel a bit out of the ordinary.

So what if that does happen?

What if you do lose that sex drive?

There are many things that can affect your sex drive and its not all about that one specific part of your body. Lets take a look at some of the factors that can help to maintain a good, healthy sex drive.

A good, healthy lifestyle is really the key to a good, healthy sex drive. Did you know that men who are heavy alcohol drinkers and/or smokers are more likely to have a reduced sex drive. This is one of the biggest factors and if you can give them up it will go a long way to increasing your libido. Not only that, much your general health will also improve.

A well balanced diet will also go a long way to increasing your sex drive. There are many foods that will give you increased energy which always helps with sex drive and there are also many foods that specifically help with the libido. In general, eating lots of fruits and vegetables and staying away from foods that are too processed will make a big improvement.

The last major contributor to low sex drive is stress. If you can avoid stress or even learn to deal with it more effectively you will help to increase your libido. Too much stress in your life will leave you feeling tired and you wont really feel like doing anything more strenuous than sitting in front of the TV. Starting an exercise program, even if it is just a 10 to 15 minutes walk each day, will help to reduce the stress in your life.

By changing your lifestyle and taking the steps outlined above, you will not only improve your general health and feel much better within yourself, but you will also get your old sex drive back and feel like a 16 year old again.


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Make Him Go Crazy Using Everyday Objects

By Sandrine Vondrejs

One of the tricks for maintaining a healthy and interesting love life is to find ways to spice things up in new and different ways constantly. While you can find new toys by shopping in specialty shops, you can simply use a bit of imagination to turn everyday objects into sensual & arousing bedroom toys. Here are a few examples we can give you to start with.

Bed Sheets


  • Place the sheet between you and your partner, and fool around... teasing each other until you can't bare standing on the other side of this soft barrier.

  • Tie your partner up using a bed sheet when he won't expect this sudden dominating move.

  • Pin the bed sheets on the walls or ceiling to create a small area where you will conduct a short sexy shadow play that will arouse him and make him want to tear everything off.

Satin or Silk Panties


  • This is a sexy version of hide & seek. Simply hide your panties somewhere in your house. Wherever he's going to find them, this is where you'll both get into the action.

  • Put the panties in the freezer until they are cold, and then caress your partner using the cool and silky material.

  • While at a restaurant or other public place, go to the washroom, take off your panty and slip them sensually in your partner's pocket. Chances are it'll be a challenge for him to wait until you get back home.

Popsicle


  • Lick and suck on your popsicle seductively without letting him touch you.

  • Suck on your popsicle until your mouth gets really cold and then gently kiss/lick any part of his body that may arouse him.

  • Place the tip of the popsicle on his warm body and let it melt and drip, just before eating it off.

White T-Shirt


  • Use the t-shirt to blindfold your man while you tease him and take advantage of the situation.

  • Wear the t-shirt and wet it completely for a private wet t-shirt contest.

  • Wearing an old white t-shirt, make small incisions in some weak areas of the shirt so that you can tear it off as you get into the action.

Pedestal Fan


  • Simulate a sexy photo shoot while posing with your hair being blown away in all directions.

  • Spread some of his favorite perfume or scent on some ribbons that you will tie to the fan. Once you start it, the aroma will fill up the room.

  • Direct it to yourself to make your body and nipples aroused by the gentle wind.

Paintbrush


  • Dip the paintbrush in warm massage oil and have him guess the dirty words you are writing on his naked body.

  • Warm up some chocolate and use the brush to spread it out wherever you'd like to lick it off.


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How to Make Her Orgasm Fast - 3 Most Important Things Without Which She Wouldn't Orgasm

By Pushpa Pal Singh

Wild and hardcore sex is not the way to get her to orgasm...The issue is that most men feel that in order to make her orgasm one should do it extremely hard and should be able to give her the type of pleasure she desires. You see no matter how well you thrust her...You will never be able to make her orgasm unless you do a certain set of things in the right way. Read on to discover what these certain set of things are and do them before it's too late for you...

Discover what her true fantasies are- Nothing can drive a woman more wild then bringing her fantasies to life. Almost every woman out there fantasizes about one thing or the other and if you can bring her most wildest dreams to reality she would be massively turned on which would make her achieve multiple orgasms one after the other. You should always discuss some of her most wildest fantasies and try to bring them to life.

Say what she wants to hear- Words can make a big difference and can really turn the girl on in a big big way. It's often said that you must be very careful with what you say to a girl in bed since that would make a big difference. Tell her how good she is making you feel and how much fun you are having with her in bed with a lot of emotion. The more you talk the more you will see her getting turned on.

Control yourself- If you can not last long enough you can not make her orgasm....It's as simple as that. You should have the natural ability to control your ejaculations so that you can last longer then her in bed. A great way to do this is to masturbate before sex. That way you will be able to control your orgasms with ease.


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How to Make Her Orgasm Every Time - Give Her the Greatest Sexual Experience of Her Life

By Pushpa Pal Singh

Do you know that men who really know how to pleasure a woman in bed are hard to find according to most women? Most guys out there lack some of the extremely essential skills on must have in order to satisfy a woman in bed. The issue is that most guys just don't understand the way women think in bed and in order to make her orgasm you should know how she thinks in bed. Read on to discover some of the most mind blowing ways to make her orgasm every single time.....

Stop shooting in the dark and start talking- This is the most important thing you must do in order to really know what she is looking for. The mistake most men make is that they try to do anything and everything in bed which she might or might not like. This is more or less shooting in the dark and if you hit you hit....If you don't you don't. Instead of using the old hit and trial method you should communicate with her in sexual terms and try to find out what she truly prefers in bed. The problem with most men is that they think that she might not tell them anything at all but the fact is that most women out there are just waiting to be asked.

Relax her and hit the G-spot- This is the best possible way to make a woman orgasm every single time in bed. And at the same time when she realizes that she can actually achieve massive orgasms when you stimulate her G-spot she would become more and more used to it due to which she would orgasm more often. You should start it all by making her highly comfortable and at the same time getting her into a relaxed state. You see a woman will never orgasm unless she is relaxed. The next step would be to use your fingers and stimulate her G-spot. Her G-spot is located 2 or 3 inches at the beginning end of the vagina and once you stimulate this part she would orgasm faster than you can even imagine.


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How to Make a Woman Orgasm - 3 Ragingly Powerful Bedroom Tricks Which Always Work

By Pushpa Pal Singh

Your performance in bed has a lot to do with whether she will orgasm or not....You see it's always a matter of what you do and how you actually do it in bed. The more skills you have and the stronger they are....the better your chances would be of getting her to orgasm in bed. There are some extremely effective tricks using which you can make her climax very fast. Read on to discover what these tricks are and get her to orgasm real fast...

Touch her right- Getting her to orgasm is just not about penetration but it's all about how well you touch her. It's all about knowing where her hot points are and stimulating them effectively. Start by gentle kissing her on the neck and then move to her lips. Then slowly start moving down her body and undressing her. Women love it when guys undress them slowly therefore make sure you do it as slow as possible.

Make her feel extremely sexy- As you undress her gently whisper into her ear and tell her how sexy she looks and how much pleasure you are having right now. Tell her that she smells real good and her lips taste so sweet. The more you say such things the more turned on she would be and it would become extremely easy for you to get her to orgasm.

Mix it all up- Don't spend too much time on one body part too long. Women have zones all over their body which can lead to massive amounts of pleasure. One mistake a lot of guys make is that they tend to stick to her vaginal area too long which is not the right thing to do. You should only attack her vaginal right at the end when you are ready for penetration and you feel that she is turned on enough to climax.


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How to Last Extremely Long in Bed - Become the Unstoppable Sex Machine and Make Her Beg

By Pushpa Pal Singh

One of the main issues a majority of men have out there is trying to last long in bed and not having a good sense of control on their orgasms. And it's a commonly known fact that women need greater stimulation and are normally slower than men when it comes to the matter of achieving an orgasm in bed. You will never be able to satisfy women in bed unless you can last long enough...This is the major reason why you must know this at all costs. Read on to discover some of the most stunning ways to last very long in bed...

Empty your bladder before sex- One of the major reasons why you might not be able to control your ejaculations might be due to your bladder being full. You see it adds extra pressure due to which you might not be able to hold too long at all. Therefore make sure you urinate before you get into bed with her.

Use the position which causes least stimulation- There are several sex positions but you must choose the one which would give you the least amount of stimulation due to which you will get the ultimate power to last long in bed. One of the best positions for this might be woman on top. You see when she is on top of you, you will feel the least amount of stimulation thus helping you last extremely long in bed.

Masturbate before sex- This is one of the best possible ways to really hold yourself longer than you can ever think possible. Men more or less do not have the ability to get aroused instantly after they have climaxed once therefore masturbation before sex will truly give you the power to go that extra mile.


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3 Deadly Mistakes You Are Probably Making in Bed - Don't Even Think About Sex Without These

By Pushpa Pal Singh

It is often said that when you do the perfect foreplay with the perfect penetration the woman will achieve an instant orgasm....Well this might be true in several cases but there are some things men do in between all that which completely turn women off. The whole scene often turns from pleasure to pain and this is the reason why you must be aware of these before it's too late for you. Read on to discover some of the most deadliest mistakes people make and what you can really do about it...

Pressing her breasts extremely hard- You must understand that rough sex is not liked by every female out there and you should always try to be as gentle as possible. Doing it too hard will only cause a lot of pain instead of the pleasure. Therefore try to keep the girl as comfortable as possible.

Not disposing the condom off yourself- Some guys tend to have a habit of leaving the condom on the bed when they are done. You see it's always the guy's responsibility to dispose it off and you should never ever leave it just like that for the girl to actually deal with it.

Calling her dirty names in bed- Now this is where you must be absolutely certain whether the girl is ok with this or not. You see a lot of women out there are simply not ok with this and would take this as an act of high disrespect. Not only this it might turn off the magic of the whole moment and you might not be able to pleasure her at all in bed.


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3 Crucial Reasons Why Most Men FAIL in the Bedroom - You Must Know This Before It's Too Late

By Pushpa Pal Singh

Do you know that there are certain things men do in bed due to which women get completely turned off and would never ever be satisfied in bed? The problem is that most guys don't even notice that they are making such mistakes and they keep on doing it thinking they're doing the right thing. You see this is the main reason why you shouldn't miss this at any cost. Read on to discover some of the major reasons why men fail in bed and what you should do about it right now...

Having a high sense of performance anxiety- Now when you are too anxious about your performance you will automatically turn the woman off since she would notice that you are nervous and when the comfort levels are low in bed that's the time when you will always struggle to keep her relaxed and comfortable in bed. The solution to this is to let go off the feeling of trying too hard and let everything flow naturally.

Doing the same thing every day- Some guys have a huge habit of being too repetitive and they keep on doing the same thing over and over again almost every time they have sex. Again this is a big turn off according to most women since sex becomes boring after a while if they already know what the next move is going to be.

Trying new things that she isn't ok with- Now women might not be very direct with you on this one but there are some things women just don't like in bed and this varies from woman to woman. You must always try to see if she is comfortable with what you are about to try even before you think about trying it.


What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Do you know there are some secrets women don't want men to know but you absolutely must know these secrets in order to succeed with women? Read on to discover 9 most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to know. This is something you can't afford to miss at any cost click here- Tell Me The Secrets

3 Top Techniques to Make Her Orgasm With Your Fingers

By Maria Holland

Using your fingers to make your lover orgasm can come in handy all throughout your life. Whether you are trying to be discreet or if you just want to provide your lover with a powerful orgasm your fingers can come in really handy. I am going to give you 3 top techniques that will enable you to do just that:

1) Rubbing - This is hardly a secret but is very important, women are driven absolutely crazy by their clitoris being played with. so rubbing it with the tips of your fingers will drive her wild. When performing this technique make sure your fingers are lubed up correctly preferably with some water-based lubricant

2) Speed it up - A lot of women like fast paced sex, so when you are attempting this technique you must make sure that she is in the right mood and lubricated sufficiently and that she enjoys fast paced sex!

3) Doing Both - This technique is simply a combination of the two mentioned above but is often hard for men to master. There are two ways you can attempt this:

One handed - This technique is the most difficult to pull off. It involves penetrating the vagina with two fingers whilst using your thumb to caress the clitoris. The downsides to this trick is that it is more difficult to pull off as it is hard to speed up whilst you are caressing the vagina.

Two handed - This techniques is easier to do as it basically involves using both hands (obviously). Use one hand the penetrate the vagina while you use the other hand to caress the clitoris.


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3 Top Foreplay Techniques to Have Her Coming Back For More

By Maria Holland

Most men are constantly complaining about the regularity of the sex they have with their partners. For some it can be as infrequent as monthly! The main reason behind this is that your partner is just simply not in the mood for it. Don't worry though I am about to give you some great tips to getting her in the mood for having sex:

1) Take a shower with her - Most women are often self-conscious about the way they smell, especially if it has been a long day. So just hop into the shower with her, as getting all soapy together is a great turn-on and gives a great chance for some foreplay.

2) Massage her tension away - Massages are one of the greatest ways to get a woman in the mood for sex. A massage releases all the built up tension in her body, and as the tension subsides you can get bolder about where you are massaging. Try heading for the buttocks after a while and if she is still up for it try turning her around onto her back and letting your imagination sore.

3) Do it without expecting anything in return - Women know that nothing comes for free so if you offer to pleasure her without expecting anything in return she will be eternally grateful and will be likely to jump your bones!

So keep these tips in mind next time your woman says that she is not in the mood for sex and you may just get lucky after all.


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Problems in Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Continuing With R

By Levi Reiss

Whether you are heterosexual, homosexual, or somewhere in the middle there's a very good chance that you want to improve your sex life. Who wants to be alone? Unlike some others we won't promise you an article, magic pill, perfume, potion, or pick-up line that will automatically send you and your intended partner to the bedroom. And yet, I really do believe that you can perk up your sex life whoever you are. We present a double series of articles for the letter R.

This article focuses on the problems and pitfalls that prevent you from improving your sex life. Another series of articles focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions will help you get what you want. Here we examine ridicule and rush.

R is for ridicule. Isn't it ridiculous how some people ridicule their sex and love partners? Are they trying to tell the world I'm ashamed of myself and so am taking it out on you know who. (And guess what, such people probably even know why.) Humor within the couple is a great idea. But don't make it nasty. Actually for great 19th Century cartoons and caricatures it's hard to beat Thomas Nast (the guy who gave us a great Santa Claus.) To compare, take a good look at caricatures from the Frenchman Honore Daumier who lived approximately thirty years earlier. I don't think you'll find either of them ridiculous, even if cul is a French word for butt and other sexual attributes. Now I'm not familiar with either of these great artists' sexual work but you can have fun looking at their caricatures before and after your joint activities.

R is for rush. Why rush through it? Enjoy life. Stop your stopwatch. And stop watching your start watch. Actually if you do it right, which may very well mean nice and slowly, you'll get quite a rush. Now if you fell marshy you can try to do it in the rushes. Just watch out for the bull rushes. And don't get between a bull and a cow. Don't be cowed, you coward. Or they may have to rush you to the hospital. And it won't be to meet eligible doctors and nurses. Actually you may be meeting lots of doctors and nurses. But you won't be meeting any of them; there is too much at steak. Does this sound like a lot of bull to you? Rush to read my next article.

Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.


Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Continuing With R

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most of us do, whether we are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. Most people want more sex and want better sex, and want it now. We really believe that our articles can make a very big difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that's what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have many, many suggestions for improving your sex life and so have put together an alphabetical list of what to do. We also put together an alphabetical list of what not to do. You really shouldn't squander your time, effort, perhaps money, and even love by putting your foot in your mouth when you know what you really want. We present a double series of articles for the letter R. The focus here is on reliable, respect, and ribald.

R is for reliable. Being reliable increases your chances of lying together. And that's no lie. But there is more to it than that. The way I see it, your partner has the right to rely on you to some extend beyond the bedroom. I know of a case where the two people actually were married, admittedly a second marriage for both. She wanted his phone number at work. (Sounds OK to me.) He said "I don't want you calling me at work." (Sounds OK to me.) He completed his sentence with the word "Ever", and presumably never gave her his phone number. (Sounds crazy to me.) By the way, he was not a spy or anything so super special. Now he's retired. I don't know if he has a separate line. But I wouldn't rely on it.

R is for respect. If I hadn't told the above story to illustrate reliable I could have told it to illustrate respect. Way back when and perhaps still today, girls ask guys, if we do it will you still respect me? The immediate answer was always Yes. And the deferred answer, the one after the consummation was often No. The way I look at it such guys have a lack of respect for themselves. They figure that something is wrong with a girl who says Yes to them. They know in their hearts that they are not really good enough for her. Sorry guys, I can't respect your attitude.

R is for ribald. Ribald originally meant to be licentious, to be in heat, or to copulate. All of them sound great to me and often lead to great sounds. Now ribald mostly means to be licentious such as a ribald story. Sounds great to me. But be careful; don't impose ribald stories on those who don't want to hear them. More precisely don't impose ribald stories on those who don't want to hear them from you. There's an old sea shanty song with a line that goes something like: If all them young ladies were singing this song, it'd be three times as dirty, and four times as long. Be that as it may save your ribald stories and ribald activities for those who will appreciate them.


Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

Ladies, When Abstinence Ends, Use a Condom

By Kathleen Scarlett-Mancos

It is true that abstaining from sex is a good way to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. It is also true that if you wait to have sex until marriage, and you marry a virgin, and you both remain monogamous for life, you will never catch a sexually transmitted disease. But, realistically, how many of your friends and associates do these requirements apply to?

For most people, abstinence comes to an end at some point, and usually not with another virgin. If your first sexual experience is with a partner who is not a virgin, then you are at risk for contracting every disease that he and all of his previous sexual partners have had. Once you make the choice to become sexually active, be sure to stay safe by using condoms.

You can find a wide selection at great prices by buying them online in complete privacy. Your order can be made so that your credit card bill or PayPal account does not indicate the type of product you are buying and the products will be mailed to you in discreet packaging. So, if you have decided to become sexually active, you can be prepared with a supply of condoms without having to go through the embarrassment of buying them at your local store.

If your partner is reluctant to use a condom, take the matter into your own hands and buy a supply of female condoms. A female condom gives you control over your own body. They are easy to use and many people, both girls and guys, prefer their feel to the traditional male variety. Sometimes the female condom is difficult to find in your local store, so plan ahead and order them online.

There is no reason for other people to decide what is best for you. Take responsibility for your body and your life, and respect the fact that some really bad diseases are floating around out there. These diseases might just be lingering in the body of the cute person you're getting serious about. Until you know for sure, stay safe by using a condom every time.

Whether you are pro-choice or pro-life, make the choice to prevent pregnancy until you are ready for the responsibilities of parenthood. Use condoms and enjoy your sex life without fear and without guilt. Sex is natural and it is also fun, at least most of the time. But, with sex comes responsibility, both to yourself and to your partner. Make the right choice for you. And use a condom.


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The Best Strategies of Harmonizing Sex

By Francis K Githinji

There are higher chances of making a sex connection if you work hard at harmonizing sex life. Many sex therapist advice that couples should acknowledge sexual distress at an earlier stage in a relationship. It might be challenging at first but with time you will learn that admitting that you have different libidos is the best thing you may have done. Try something totally new to your relationship. This shared task might not be something romantic but ensure that the exercise is fun and unique in its own way. Sex experts say that when couples work together they fuel passion through their combined efforts. Enjoy doing something like cooking together or going for mountain climbing. Never estimate the power of touch. It might be a familiar touch but when it is done with a different temperament the results can be wonderful. You can cuddle on the couch without expecting sex and the results can be equally fulfilling.

Harmonizing sex is one of the topics that is discussed most in marriage sessions. If this is made possible we can see reduced number of divorce cases, cheating cases, extra-marital affairs and even rape. Men think about sex more than anything else and are therefore more likely to be the more interested partner. If a man gets better sex somewhere away from home, he grows fond of that person and with time he lacks attachment with his wife. The wife becomes more of a friend and less of a lover. There are some people who do not feel free to broach the sex subject when they have stayed for a long time without having it.

Romantic love is conditional love and it can only be normal to fulfill conditions in order to stay intimate with your partner. Some of the conditions are getting home early, providing for everything without complaining and the greatest of them all is giving them good sex. Harmonizing sex calls for coordination in all other areas of life. The conditions must be looked at all the time to ensure that there is no resentment in the relationship. Harmonizing sex starts at paying bills in time, complimenting your partner, looking smart and buying gifts too. If you do all these things for your partner, they will have a good reason to love you especially female partners. If you love somebody, you can show it best by making love. Women need a reason to have sex and so give her enough reason to always come back for more.

Read books as a couple, enroll for mentorship classes and watch some blue movies together. This shows that you are in harmonizing sex together. Many women do not like when the men in their lives watch pornography but have they ever tried to join in? When you find him fixated on the screen shout something like "wow, that must feel pleasurable" then join him with equal interest. This can open up your sex communication lines and assist you to try new things. In an effort to synchronize the desire always remind your partner that you are in the sexual engagement together.


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Synchronizing Sex - Time to Bring Passion Back in Your Marriage

By Francis K Githinji

Many couples who are married know the experience of having to sleep next to someone who has no interest in sex. It is so disappointing when your partner is snoring next to you while your passion cannot allow you to sleep even a wink. Mismatched libidos are a problem to many couples and there should be a way of synchronizing sex for more fulfilling married lives. If you are okay when you have sex once a month while your spouse wishes you would have it every other day, you should act with lightning speed and try to harmonize your sex hormones. I know it didn't begin like this so what went wrong? This is a state known to therapists as sexual desire discrepancy. This is a state where one partner does not feel like having sex after sometime of living together. At first you couldn't keep your hands off each other but now you seem like you have fallen out of passion with each other.

During the few first days of sleeping together, the excitement and novelty of discovering each other boosts sexual desire due to the release of high level of hormones. As the relationship advances, initial infatuation period runs out resulting into normal individaul libido levels. People have different levels of sexual desires under normal circumstances. Some are low, medium and some have very high libidos. This does not mean that the levels remain constant throughout a person's life. It might be affected by life experiences from time to time. Somethings like diseases and stress can cause the desire to wax and wane. Synchronizing sex is an important exercise even at those low moments in life. Sex is a proved morale booster in many situations.

In long-term relationships, moments of desire discrepancy are unavoidable but if a couple is dedicated in synchronizing sex they usually find it easy to work around their differences. If couples are not aware of this, they might result to feeling guilty or rejected. Conjugal rights must be provided in marriage and that is why the less interested party might feel guilty or frustrated by their failure to meet the intimacy obligation. The more interested spouse migh feel unloved, unwanted or rejected. Couples should understand that it is not always that they feel passionate about each other at the same time. In a recent study, only 50% of happily married couples engage in sex when both spouses are aroused and desirous at the same time.

In an effort to synchronizing sex, people should understand the sexual difference between a man and a woman. A psychologist at Case Western Reserve university explains that, if a man is physically and sexually aroused, nothing else can affect his sexual function. He is all ready to have sex. For a woman, she must be emotionally motivated in order to have sexual interest as Kingberg explains. If a woman is stressed sex will not be a thing to look forward to but another sex factor. It is tolerance and understanding that keeps the fire burning in marriage.


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Sexual Seduction Techniques - How to Seduce a Woman Even If You Are a Nice Guy!

By Elle Marchand

If you still believe that nice guys cannot get women, I can certainly understand why you feel that way. At first glance, it would seem that is true. There are a lot of Jerks out there who seem to able to attract many women. By the same token, there are a lot of nice guys who struggle with getting girls, and feel frustrated.

After all, if you are a nice guy, you do not want to resort to being a jerk in order to attract women. Besides the fact that it is just not in your nature, it also just does not seem right to you.

You just have to change a few things you tend to be "nice" about.

For instance:

1. Social Restrictions

We tend to believe that there are "acceptable" and "unacceptable" things to do around women. And while this is true to some extent, nice guys are often wrong about the limits of what is acceptable. Like being sexual around women. Many Nice Guys believe this is "inappropriate behavior."

But that's wrong!

Being sexual around a woman is a very powerful way of communicating your interest in her. Little things like flirting and joking about sex can go a long way into making you a potential lover instead of just a potential "friend."

2. Inability To Act

Too often, "Nice Guys" wait around for the girl to make the first move to initiate romance. This is a DEADLY mistake! Women take their cues from the men they're with. If you want to escalate into a physical relationship, you have to be the one to make the first move. This can be scary. It's possible to get rejected.

However, if you do not make the attempt, there is no way you will succeed.


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Five Tips For Solving Marriage Sexual Problems

By Danielle L. Taylor

If you are having sexual marriage problems, it can be a real strain on your marriage. Some married individuals are afraid of bringing up the subject, or they are too embarrassed to say if they are not satisfied or feeling pressured. Because the sexual side of your marriage is just as important as every other aspect in that you both need to feel happy and satisfied - it's a really important issue. Ignoring it will only allow the problem to get bigger. Here are five tips for solving marriage sexual problems.

1. Don't Be Afraid to Communicate -

The first thing you should do if you are feeling unsatisfied or if there are other sexual problems in your marriage is talk to your spouse. Most of the time, people are actually embarrassed or nervous only until they start talking to their husbands or wives. It's absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about and if you feel that your spouse would be angry or offended, bring it up in a gentle manner. You could hint about it when you're becoming intimate. Say something like, "We should do this more often." It's a great way to let them know that you need something more or different.

2. Leave Hints -

Another thing you can do is leave hints, especially if you want more intimate time with your spouse. Send them a naughty text message while they are at work or walk by them at home wearing something sexy. These little things hint to your spouse that you desire them and want them more often.

3. Play a Game -

This is helpful if you are feeling pressured to have sex too often. Tell your spouse that you want to play a game to make things 'more interesting.' Explain that you will leave a red shirt hanging on the doorknob when you're 'waiting for them' in your bedroom. The catch is that when there's no red shirt, there's no intimacy. Your spouse will likely enjoy games like this and it's a sneaky way to become intimate when you feel like it and to avoid it when you don't.

4. Tell Your Spouse a Story -

Sometimes, the best way to get messages across to your spouse is to pretend you heard it elsewhere. For instance, you could tell your spouse a story about something you read on the internet. It could be a couple who ended up divorcing because one of them was not getting enough intimacy with the other. Make up some twists and interesting points and tell your spouse about it. It will get him or her thinking!

5. See a Sex Therapist -

If nothing else works, you can see a sex therapist. He or she can help you get to the root of your sexual marriage problems and can help you both find a level of satisfaction and happiness in each other. This is a great way to solve your marriage sexual problems so that you are both getting what you want.

These five tips can really help you solve the problems you're having with sex in your marriage. By taking care of the smaller problems as soon as possible, you can prevent them from turning into huge problems down the road!


Danielle L. Taylor is an author and editor for Xstilla.com one of the most active divorce support communities in the Internet. To learn more about divorce, child support, dating or to discuss your problem with compassionate and understanding members of the community go to Xstilla.com

3 Top-Secret Tips on How to Sexually Please a Woman That Every Man MUST Know

By Daniel Scott

You know what the problem is with learning how to sexually please a woman?

You can't ask them for tips.

I'm serious. If you've ever asked a woman on what she likes, what makes her feel good, or anything like that, you'll almost always get the same answer.

"I don't know".

The causes for this can be numerous, but ultimately they are a discussion for another time. What you need to know right now is how you can learn some simple, easy-to-apply tips on how to sexually please any woman you're with and make her scream with pleasure.

I don't think I have to tell you how this benefits you. If you take care of her sexual needs, you're doing something very few guys can do. That will come back to you not only sexually but out of the bedroom as well. Long story short, she'll do pretty much anything for you.

But How Can I Sexually Please My Woman?

Sometimes you can feel like it's very difficult to figure out the tricks and techniques to do this. Especially when there are so many different sources saying different things. But, honestly, pleasing a woman sexually is a hell of a lot easier than you may have previously thought. Just as am example, here are three killer tips on how you can sexually please your woman.

1. Make Her Want It

Sounds simple, right? Well, good news - it is. All you have to do is build anticipation for the act (sexual tension). Here's something very few people, ESPECIALLY women, will tell you - women are VERY sexual creatures. Think about it. We are genetically predisposed to want to have sex, and receive sexual pleasure. The survival of the human race depends on it. In fact, since women can have multiple orgasms and have FAR more sensitive skin (as well as far more sensitive parts in their body) sex is probably going to be WAY better for the woman - IF the guy knows what he's doing. Take advantage of this! Make sure you let her know (in a fairly subtle way, of course) that you know what you're doing and she is going to have an incredible night with you.

2. Worship Her Body

Women have so many "hot spots" on their body it's incredible. For men, it's pretty much all in the one spot. Women, on the other hand, can get incredible pleasure for their earlobes, the palms of their hands, their necks, backs, shoulders, insides of their thighs... pretty much everywhere. So have some fun and experiment. Try different things on all different parts of your lover's body. Treat every sexual experience like you guys are doing it for the first time. Pay close attention to what makes her gasp, or moan, or writhe around. Once you find those things - keep doing them.

3. Appeal to Her Mind

A woman's mind is the most sexually powerful organ she has. You should be constantly trying to "broadcast" a feeling of sexual mastery, even if it's not true. Sexual confidence is incredibly powerful. You should also make sure you constantly talk to her in bed. It doesn't have to be anything dirty (although that is also an awesome way to appeal to her mind) but you should keep the lines of communication open. Compliment her, tell her what feels good, ask her if she likes what you're doing. Even a simple "Oh baby, you're so hot!" can go a long way in helping her out. At the end of the day, you have to make sure she feels like a participant, not an onlooker.


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The Best Position For a Double Orgasm and Maximum Penetration, What Every Man Should Know

By Chris Johanson

If you really want to please a woman in bed with a mind blowing orgasm, there is one position above all others that will make drive her out of her mind. If there is a special lady you want to please, then I recommend you use this position and technique for the best sex of her life and yours, too.

An added benefit is that you will also get maximum penetration for your pleasure and hers. Another nice thing about this position and technique is that it works for people who aren't real athlete or have perfect physiques. You don't have to be an Olympic gymnast to do this and it will have her begging for more, as soon as she catches her breath, that is.

A double orgasm is not a multiple orgasm, let's clear that up first. It is more likely that she will have a multiple orgasm if she also has a double, but it doesn't mean she has to have a double to have a multiple orgasm, it's just better to have a double orgasm because it is more pleasurable.

A double orgasm is when the clitoris is stimulated to the point of orgasm and the g-spot is as well. In other words, a clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm at the same time. It is possible and once a woman has one of these she is yours forever.

The absolute best position for this double Nirvana is doggy style with her on her knees and elbows in front of the man who is on his knees. The important part for the lady is that she squat very low. She'll have to spread her knees and push her belly down to get as low as possible. The reason is that when you penetrate her from behind you want the penis pointing downward so it will hit the g-spot.

This position gives deepest penetration and also frees your hands to use your fingers to rub her clitoris. While rubbing her clitoris and thrusting into her listen and feel her movements so you will know when she is close to orgasm. Your job is to tease her and don't let her explode into an orgasm at first try, but keep bringing her to the point of orgasm then back off. The idea is to know for sure that she is going to have a clitoral and vaginal orgasm at the same time, a double orgasm.

This will also give you time to reach your own orgasm so you can come together. For ultimate pleasure I recommend you use an erection oil and volume enhancer to have the stiffest and largest erection possible as well as filling her with semen with a blast that will drive her over the edge. There is nothing like a double orgasm, her vagina will be contracting in spasms while hot semen shoots into her, causing more sensation and pleasure.


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Christian Sex For New Couples!

By Chess McDoogle

Practicing Christian sex for new married couples can definitely be a challenge no matter how "ready" you both believe you are. There can easily be awkward moments and some trial and error periods. These are to be expected, and the following Christian sex tips for new couples can help immensely in getting your intimacy on track quickly!

1. Practice joy, celebration, and excitement.

These are elements often overlooked when dealing with sex within Christian marriage, especially for new couples. Always imagine these elements as the backbone of your intimacy practice. This is what it should be all about; a joyous, exciting, celebration of the love you have for one another. When you keep these elements in the forefront of your intimacy practice, then you won't allow the awkwardness or frustrations to become overbearing.

2. Don't worry about the Rules.

You will have time to fine tune your intimacy and discover what practices you want to allow into your sex life and which you feel should be abstained from. The rules of Christian sex should not be seen as some big overbearing hurdle that you need to spend weeks and months figuring out the best way to jump over. Christian intimacy rules should simply be based around two main principals: Safety and agreement.

Your intimacy practice should be safe for both yourself and your loving partner, and you both should be in agreement on which positions and sexual techniques you choose to practice.

3. Learn Christian sex tips and techniques!

This is a very important step for new Christian couples to take, because it will guarantee that they are celebrating and practicing their sex life to the best of their abilities and getting the most intimate joy out of it. Much too often Christian couples can fall into a routine that can make for a boring and less stimulating than should be sex life. This can all be prevented by getting a Christian sex manual which will outline new and exciting ways to practice Christian intimacy, guaranteeing a fun, exciting and loving sex life for many years to come.


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Women, You Want to Have an Intense G Spot Orgasm - Get the Facts About Orgasms

By Bryan Burbank

One of the greatest things that you can experience is a intense G Spot Orgasm but it is true that there are many women out there that have not experienced one yet. The has a lot to do with their male partners not knowing how to help them climax and this creates women faking orgasms. It is most important that men understand how a omens body works and in turn this will help with you getting your female partner over the hump. Women need to be aroused mentally as well as being aroused physically so men you need to not only focus on your touching her but also what to say to her makes a big impact as well.

Do not be afraid to talk dirty to your female partner because this will help get her in the mood. You want to communicate and find out what her desires are so that you can fulfill them to every degree. It is also a good idea if you are a man to forget that just because you are having sex with her she is going to climax that is just not true.

It is a real important factor to focus all of your attention on her because if she is satisfied then you will be as well. make sure that you remember that foreplay is the key because she needs to be totally into it before she can reach a climax. You may want to place a game with each other because this is a great way to keep the foreplay going.

Remember that when you are helping your female partner climax you need to put all of your focus on her and the results will be amazing.


Learn Awesome: Lovemaking Secrets

How to Have a: Mind Blowing Orgasm

Bryan Burbank is an expert in the field of Relationships and Kama Sutra techniques.

Orgasms - Secrets to a Female Orgasm Through the G Spot

By Bryan Burbank

If you learn how to do it right you can have a wonderful G Spot Orgasm but there are also so many woman that end up faking it because there male partner just does not know what to do. Having an Orgasm can be one of the greatest pleasures a woman can have and the secrets can be found in the word patience. Most guys are in such a big hurry that they forget to please there partners the way they like to be. Most woman get aroused from a mental standpoint as well as a physical.

When you are working on helping your female partner have a G Spot orgasm you must take the time to get her in the mood before you do because it is going to take her longer to get there than you. You want to find out what some of her fantasies are and fulfill them. It is important that when you are preparing for a great night of love making that you first set the mood so that she will have all the focus on that night not other issues that may be happening in her life.

You also want to make sure that you have prolonged foreplay because this can be the best way to get her aroused and ready for action. Too many guys will skip this part and it usually leaves the woman unsatisfied.

Another good thing to have is some games that will help you get started with foreplay they are also a good way to try something new. You should always have fun and enjoy being with each other when you are having an orgasm.


Learn Awesome: Lovemaking Secrets

How to Have a: Mind Blowing Orgasm

Bryan Burbank is an expert in the field of Relationships and Kama Sutra techniques.

How to Pleasure a Woman - 3 Things You Must Know!

By Ben Evans

Women are now far more direct and open about their sex lives and expect to have great sex from their partners. This is great as it mean both men and woman can completely fulfilling and exciting sex lives, but do you know exactly how to pleasure a woman?

Imagine meeting the girl of your dreams only to find that you do not exactly take her breath away in the bedroom department. Women love sex so you cannot afford to leave them unfulfilled. Learn these basic techniques and she will never be disappointed by your performance.

The first thing you need to focus on is setting the right mood. No woman wants to be rushed into sex or have sex when the mood isn't right. Setting the right mood will make the experience much better for both of you. You should make sure that you are both relaxed. Rushing things at this stage could totally turn her off. You can make sure the mood is right by taking things slow at first, and trying to find out what she likes. To do this, you need to pay attention close attention to her.

Once you have done the initial ground work and set the mood, the next thing you should think about is improving your eye contact. Women love making eye contact during sex. Eye contact creates a strong emotional connection that can really turn women on. The best position for making eye contact during sex is the missionary position.

The last thing you need to know is a mistake that almost all men make. This is the mistake of going for all the 'action spots' first. This means going straight for the breasts and vagina. You should take your time and build things up slowly. Women love kissing and foreplay and they take much longer to get suitably turned on than men do.


These 3 simple rules will give you a great start in making the lady in your life extremely happy in the bedroom but if you really want to be the best lover she has ever had and learn to have the best sex humanly possible then there is still lots to learn! To find out everything you will ever need to know you should visit How to Pleasure a Woman and find out how you can learn the techniques that will totally change your sex life forever.

5 Secret Spots on Your Woman That Will Drive Her Wild

By Aaron M

Last week, I posted a few articles about how to please a woman. Today, I'm going to be even more specific and discuss some little known areas of a woman that are very sensitive and can be very pleasurable, but most people don't know about. Of course you need to learn how to touch sensually, but if you do, these spots just may open a lot of doors of pleasure for your lady. So, without further ado, here are five sensitive areas on a woman, that will give her immense pleasure if you touch her right:

5. Inside of the elbow- very few people realize just how sensitive the inside area of joints are. The inside of the elbow is sensitive, but not as sensitive as #4.....

4. Inside of the knee- this is a very sensitive, sensual area. You can actually make a woman wet and ready for intercourse just by rubbing and licking the inside of her knee. Skeptical? Try it and thank me later.

3. Feet- what woman doesn't love a good foot rub? The entire pseudo-science of reflexology is based on the nerve endings in the foot. Learn to give a good foot massage, and your lady will be dying to be intimate with you.

2. Hands- the hands is how we relate to the world in a tactile way. We use our hands to communicate, to greet people, to express our thoughts. Hands, also can be used as a great way to build intimacy. Reach over to hold your lady's hand, intertwine your fingers, squeeze her hand lightly, then more tightly, rub her fingers, then rub her palm. This can all be done while talking or walking down the street or sitting in a movie theater. In other words, the way you touch your woman's hands can be a substitute for verbal language and a communication of your feelings and affection. Show your affection through the way you touch your lady's hands, and she'll lead you into the bedroom.

1. Back of the neck- this is by far the most powerful place to touch a woman in a non-erogenous area. There is a hardwired biological reflex to being touched or held at the back of the neck. If you take a look at the animal kingdom, most animals hold and carry their offspring by the back of the neck. It stirs a primal feeling of being owned and dominated. When you are becoming intimate with your woman, lightly clasp a bundle of her hair at the base of her neck- without fail I have observed that a shiver will run through her body. If she's enjoying it, tighten your grip, her whole body may quiver in anticipation of what's coming next. Remember- only go as far as your woman allows and enjoys. In my experience, this is an area of her body that never fails to respond.

Incorporate sensual touch of these body parts into your lovemaking and you and your woman will be very pleased.