Is Your Bad Breath Stopping Sex

By Trina Read

"It is an irony, appreciated only by the French, that good manners are the basis of very good sex. In bed, the two most erotic words in any language are 'thank you' and 'please.'" Hubert Downs

Bad breath has ruined many a romantic and sexy mood. Yet in the world of sex etiquette, who is responsible to take charge of said breath? Is it the smeller who is making an odor value judgment or the person with the halitosis?

Walking through arrivals at the airport, I was greeted by a full on Hollywood kiss. Being a girl, I was really digging it and knew at once I must savor this moment because it does not happen often. As I heard the curious crowd "oh & ah", I tried not to let the tears starting to form in my eyes appear so obvious. When the embrace was done and I came up for air, it took everything I had not to gag.

You see, my knight in shining armor's breath smelled (and tasted for that matter) like he had consumed an entire bulb of garlic at his recent supper.

Being a pragmatic gal, I thought to myself, "If he had been planning such a grand romantic gesture, why was the teensy matter of his breath forgotten?" Even if it had been a spur-of-the-moment inclination, in my world it is common sense to pop a breath mint after said supper before having contact with other human beings.

In the girl form of locker room talk (a.k.a. having coffee), many a gal has recounted how they could not enjoy a romantic evening because her guy's breath was repulsive. In trying to remedy the situation, they gave what they felt were obvious hints, like offering him a stick of gum, sprig of parsley or whatever breath freshener was available. They then were confounded that he just did not get it. (Please note: I am certain men have their own halitosis date challenges too.)

When I asked why they did not just come out and tell him straight about the offending breath, a look of horror appeared on their faces as they sputtered, "I just couldn't."

Biting my tongue and feeling a bit sheepish, I thought of how I would have rather chewed off my arm than confront my garlic-loving prince at the airport. My inner romantic girl voice screamed that, if I told him, he would become discouraged enough never to want to do something I relish.

There are some things in this life that do not make much sense. Telling another human being with whom you are getting up close and personal that they have breath that could peel paint seems to be one of them.

I decided to conduct an informal¬ study-okay, so it was mostly friends and relatives that were within earshot while writing this article-on why it is so difficult to tell someone they have bad breath. There was complete consensus on why: nobody wanted to embarrass the other person, thereby breaking the romantic mood.

Let me get this straight. They do not say anything because they do not want to break up a romantic mood that is already completely destroyed. Hmmm. To add insult to injury, as soon as turtle breath is out of earshot, the victim will go on about said bad breath to anyone who will listen to their woeful story. It is like living in a Seinfeld episode.

Coming back to my question of who should take charge of a bad breath situation, there are a couple of things to think about. First, ask yourself if the breath is a one-off event (like the airport scene) or is it chronic? If it is the latter, a trip to the dentist may be in order.

Next, ask if there is a laxness to the personal oral care regime. Think back to the start of a new relationship, when many a person silently crept out of bed at 5:00 a.m. to brush their teeth (or at least swipe toothpaste with their fingers over teeth) so their partner would wake up and experience "toothpaste kisses" first thing.

Today, outside of the work environment, is a second thought ever given to quality of breath? Or is it presumed your partner will love you regardless?

In fact, I have a theory that one of the reasons couples lose the desire to passionately kiss each other after many years together is because they do not make such a fuss over their breath.

Good sex is all about preparation and the little things that make a big difference. If you want to get romantic and think you might have bad breath, simply lick the inside of your wrist and sniff. If you do not like what you smell, immediately do something to alleviate the situation.

If nothing else make sure to keep a pack of Listerine PocketPaks at your bedside table when things start heating up...so they can stay heated up.

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Lovemaking and Kissing - Can You Increase One by Utilizing the Other?

By Mini Mongo

Some folks think that kissing is just a part of having passion for another person. They feel they really don't need to learn how to kiss, or change the way they kiss to get more passion from their partner. But that thought process will get do nothing but make your lovemaking session stagnet, which is a place no one wants to be in.

What about if HOW you kiss can INCREASE the passion? Have you ever tried different techinques with your kissing? Doing a little trick with your tongue can ignite a passion from your partner you've never had before.

Try this trick, take some ice cubes and put them in your mouth. Swirl your tongue around on them for a few minutes until it gets nice and cold. Then kiss your partner without letting them know what you just did.

Better yet, why not keep a glass of ice next to your bed for your next lovemaking session. Can you imagine what you can do with some ice cubs? Not just with kissing, but by utilizing the ice cubes with other body parts? By switching up from the normal actions you usually take with lovemaking, why not take it to the next level?

Giving your partner an entirely different feeling may not just boost their sexual drive for that one session, it may trigger a reaction that could last for several sessions. Ask yourself this, how bad would that actually be for you and your partner?

Adding a little thing like running an ice cube over your tongue may put you in a position where your partner is craving for more.

This is just one technique that's out there for you to learn and try out. To find out more, go to http://www.MongoOnSex.com Mongo.

Ladies, Here Are Two Lovemaking Suggestions to Drive Your Man Wild

By Mini Mongo

It's no secret that most men love to have sex. A lot of guys also don't change what they do much either. So ladies, what can you do to increase the pleasure of this whole lovemaking act to reach new heights for both of you?

Just a few little changes in what you do can lead to GREAT changes in what he does!

Here are a couple of things you can do that could possibly drive your man more wild than he already is, which will make the whole session even MORE pleasurable for you because of the extra "excitement" you cause him.

Next time you're in missionary position, wrap your legs around his waist, cross them and pull him closer to you. As you're doing this, kiss him with aggression and see how he reacts. Guys love to feel that what they are doing is adding the extra excitement to get you doing what you're doing. Which will cause him to do even MORE, which should be just as good for you as it is for him. Do you follow this technique?

Another thing that works well, but this only works of you have long hair. As you're riding him, throw your head back and let your hair drape over his legs. Swinging your head back and forth never hurts either. This is a sensation guys hardly ever feel and when they are in the heat of passion, a simple new sensation feeling may be all you need to do to get your man in a wild mindset.

Again, this is just as good for you as it is for him, right?

You are now invited to find out more simple techniques that can bring your lovemaking to new heights. Go to http://www.MongoOnSex.com to find out more. Mini Mongo

Another Technique For Getting Your Partner in the Mood For Lovemaking

By Mini Mongo

Have you ever been in this position: It's a bit chilly out side, it's early evening and you've got a fire burning in the fireplace. Your spouse in finishing up in the shower and you feel "in the mood", but your not sure she feels the same way.

Maybe it's been a long day and the last thing on her mind is snuggling up next to you. What can you do to put the odds more in your favor?

Candles? You've done that before.

Dinner? That's usually expected.

How about a nice romantic movie to watch? That may help, but you may need a little extra something just to be sure.

How about trying this, while your partner is in the shower, go get the biggest bath towel you own and throw it in the dryer with the highest heat possible. Just when you hear the water in the shower turn off, take the towel out of the dryer and go to your partner. Ask her to close her eyes because you have a surprise for her. With her eyes closed, wrap the big warm bath towel around her.

You'll see a smile come on her face and she may even wonder why you've gone to all this trouble just for her. All you need to do at this point is not say anything stupid. Cheesey is ok, but stupid will not work as good. Give her a small kiss and let her finish getting dried off from the shower.

You have just creative an atmosphere that she is not used to and guess what, the odds have greatly turned in your favor for the rest of the evening. All from a little gesture of a towel in the dryer.

This is just one of many lovemaking techniques you can learn by going to http://www.MongoOnSex.com Mini Mongo

The Erotica Make-Over

By Mel Candea

Even saying or writing the word "porn," creates a stir. Whether it's the misnamed book Porn For Women, which shows shirtless men doing housework with bubbles saying "I just want to listen to you, sweetheart!" or a music website calling itself Noiseporn, people jump on it. The issue has always been a contentious one. Most men have had a girlfriend or partner complain at some point in their lives. Most women have watched at least one film, feeling a bit confused and turned-off after. Is it simply that men like it and women don't, or that it's emotionally degrading to women as a whole?

Let's define the terms first. In general, male pornography is geared towards men as a fantasy. The women are impeccably beautiful, with a fawning adoration for the most average-looking Joe. The men in the films never suffer from lack of erection or premature ejaculation. And, of course, there's the always-included money shot. The point of the films is usually targeting masturbation and release. No more and no less. Women don't find this erotic, which isn't shocking in the least. They find the actors tacky and plastic or unattractive. The skimpy storylines are unbelievable. They have nothing to identify with in the films or photos. It's not that they need a naked romance book (also known as soft-core) but women would like to watch something with a little more sincerity.

Enter the online industry. Where women were fairly loathe to enter a XXX shop or publicly buy DVDs, the internet has increased the interest of women in erotica. There are now hundreds of sites for women, by women, streamlined to the female fantasy. They have pictures of men or of couples, stories that step a long way away from the torn bodice. And films catering to singletons, couples and lesbians. It might seem a little surprising that 1/3 of all online-porn watchers are women. Less surprising is how quickly this aspect of the industry is growing, with female directors, scriptwriters and producers coming into their own. The stories are more fleshed-out (pardon the pun) with diverse body types and lifestyles. The male actors are attractive. Film titles now include words like passionate, seductive and sweet. In the same way that male porn is a fantasy, this too is fantasy. But...it's for women.

There are even awards given for best "genuine female satisfaction" at the Feminist Porn Awards yearly. New terminology is becoming the norm, such as "Jilling off." On the whole, the taboo of women being just as free with their fantasies and sexuality is slowly being lifted. This new porn no longer "makes sexism sexy," but makes sex sexy for women to enjoy beyond the bedroom. Of course, it isn't for everyone. There will always be those that find any pornography degrading and insulting. Some consider it fodder for creating sexual deviants or an internal violation of both the people in the films and the viewers. They have the right not to watch it, read it or see it. Just as those that do have an interest should be allowed the freedom of access and discovery. Now more women have hundreds of choices available to them, rather than the paltry previous pickings of "this one doesn't have so much Jack-hammering..." It's an industry that's guaranteed to grow, and with it, the stereotypes may finally diminish.

I'm an American living in Europe. I've been writing for almost 12 years, with a high level of grammar proficiency (I taught English grammar for 9 years). I'm keen on researching - it's nice learning and then being able to express it to others. I also love writing - on almost any subject. Email: Melony73@yahoo.com

What Do Women Want? Learn Exactly What Women Want From You in Bed!

By Maria Holland

Women often complain that they are not satisfied with what they are getting in the bedroom. The main reason this happens is because most men just do not know what women want when having sex. The only way women can be satisfied completely is if men learn to understand exactly what they really want. So read this article to find out exactly what women want from you when having sex.

To start with guys you need to start reading more into her body language and read the clues better. Women do not like to be outright with what they want so you really need to look beneath the surface of what she is saying and doing. Once you learn how to do this you really can learn exactly what they want.

There are also things you can do without reading too much into her body language, for instance lots of foreplay. Women love foreplay, and also it takes a woman a substantially longer time to orgasm than it does for a man to orgasm so it is beneficial for you as a man to spend lots of time pleasing her during foreplay.

Another thing you can do without having to read into her body language to find out what she wants is to surprise her with new things. This can mean anything new. A lot of women enjoy a bit of roleplay once in a while, maybe bring some sex toys into the equation. Or you could just do something as simple as go on vacation!

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How to Make Your Woman Orgasm Within 60 Seconds

By Derek Rake

Many men tend to think that it's all about skills and the size of the penis which would make a woman orgasm fast. But you see, this is not at all true - there are indeed other factors which will make a woman orgasm quickly (or not at all). There is a little known trick that any man can use to make a woman orgasm without much effort. Read on to discover this trick on how to make your woman orgasm quickly, and often within 60 seconds...

How To Make Your Woman Orgasm With Lightning Speed

Method #1. Use ANGER. Do you know why make up sex is usually intense? It's because anger is a super strong emotion which can be used to make any sex super intense. Have you ever had good sex after you had a heated argument with your woman? Anger will intensify the passion in sex at least three times. Use ANGER - you might just make your woman come within seconds.

Method #2. Make her EMOTIONAL. This is a generalization of method #1 above. If she is not turned on, then get her into an emotional state by teasing her a little. Now combine this with the method above and get her to be a little angry. This will make her orgasm a little faster, and make it more pleasurable at the same time.

Method #3. Play with her MOODS. If she is in a state where she is in a BAD MOOD - you can virtually guarantee that she will have explosive, fast orgasms. The good news is that you don't even have to stimulate her that much to make her come.

Now a bonus tip that you will find useful if you want to make any woman orgasm fast... There exists a secret two-step method that underground seduction masters use to make any woman orgasm literally by COMMAND: details are at this website - http://www.ZenGasms.com The ZenGasms" system is chock full of unknown methods on generating female arousal - derived from the sex secrets from Zen masters of the East. Highly controversial and often perceived to be manipulative - this stuff is not for the faint-hearted. However, if you are ready to give ANY woman mindblowing orgasms virtually by command, and don't mind pushing the envelope, then do this. Click on the following link for a free report on how to induce female orgasms by using only your voice: ZenGasms" Leaked Chapter

How to Make Your Woman Achieve Orgasm Fast - The Master's Guide to Lightning Female Orgasms

By Derek Rake

Let's face it - most men find it difficult to give their women fast orgasms (or ANY kind of orgasm at all for that matter). However, there are some little known ways and shortcuts that you can use to make your woman orgasm fast. Read on to discover what these secrets are and achieve mind blowing results for you and your partner...

Three Ways To Make Your Woman Achieve Orgasm At Lightning Speeds

Way #1. Slow Down...And Then Speed Up. Look - working her up fast might just be counter-productive. You will need to work at VARYING speeds - first, slow it down, and then gradually build up the speed. And then go slow again. Try it - it works like a charm. Making her go in cycles of fast and slow speeds will make her achieve explosive climax in short time.

Way #2. Communicate. Start talking to her while having sex. Nothing gets a woman wetter by hearing some dirty talk while you are working her up. Note that 94% of all women are more auditory than visual. Injecting some lusty talk into the act of sex will greatly speed up her process of climaxing. A more advanced technique would be roleplaying - ask her to imagine being a nurse, or a school teacher, for example.

Way #3. Maintain Eye Contact. Here's a little known fact - women absolutely love eye contact while having sex. Get into the missionary position and gaze steadily into her eyes. Combined with dirty talk, you will bat off the park immediately - trust me on this.

Now here's something that you must know if you want to make any woman orgasm fast... There exists a secret two-step method that underground seduction masters use to make any woman orgasm literally by COMMAND: details are at this website - http://www.ZenGasms.com. The ZenGasms" system is chock full of unknown methods on generating female arousal - derived from the sex secrets from Zen masters of the East. Highly controversial and often perceived to be manipulative - this stuff is not for the faint-hearted. However, if you are ready to give ANY woman mindblowing orgasms virtually by command, and don't mind pushing the envelope, then do this. Click on the following link for a free report on how to induce female orgasms by using only your voice: ZenGasms" Leaked Chapter

How to Give Women Explosive Orgasms - Three Ways to Make Your Woman Come Fast

By Derek Rake

Have you ever wondered why women have to fake their orgasms regularly? That is because their men are just not skillful enough in bed to make them orgasm regularly and quickly. Most men don't really know what will make women orgasm. Read on to discover how to give women explosive orgasms each time without fail and achieve mind blowing results...

Three Deadly Effective Ways To Make Your Woman Orgasm...Lightning Fast

Method #1 - Use Your Fingers...Early In The Game. You see, most guys just want to stick their penises into vaginas and expect girls to explode with pleasure. The truth is that girls take longer than guys to orgasm - and for this reason, they need to be stimulated more. To do this - use your fingers to stimulate her for at least ten minutes right before you penetrate her.

Method #2 - Get Her To Relax Immediately. A woman could struggle to orgasm if she is uncomfortable and feels awkward. Get her relaxed by building the 'mood'. One surefire way to get her to relax is to give her a massage. Do this as early as possible in the process.

Method #3 - Use The Feelgood Factor. Women are by nature very self conscious - they need constant reassurance that they look good and are doing the right things. Tell her that she is beautiful on the bed, and let her know that you feel good making love to her. This will get her to relax and subsequently make her orgasm quickly.

Now a bonus tip that you will find useful if you want to make any woman orgasm fast... There exists a secret two-step method that underground seduction masters use to make any woman orgasm literally by COMMAND: details are at this website http://www.ZenGasms.com The ZenGasms" system is chock full of unknown methods on generating female arousal - derived from the sex secrets from Zen masters of the East. Highly controversial and often perceived to be manipulative - this stuff is not for the faint-hearted. However, if you are ready to give ANY woman mindblowing orgasms virtually by command, and don't mind pushing the envelope, then do this. Click on the following link for a free report on how to induce female orgasms by using only your voice: ZenGasms" Leaked Chapter

Christian Sexuality - Sexual Skills For the Christian Husbands

By Crid Lee

Are you are Christian husband looking for sexual tips to please your wife during lovemaking? If yes, you are at the right place. Sex is an amazing gift from God and every married couple should practice it. However, in order to have the best sex possible with your wife, you need to get the tips that I am going to share with you now:

1. Tips to last longer in bed. It is very common for Christian husbands to reach climax too early. The reason why Christian husbands suffer from premature ejaculation during sex is because they do not have enough practices and sexual experiences. Therefore, the more you have sex, the longer you will last during lovemaking. If you want quick result, there is a tip that I can share with you. You need to recognize the "tickling sensation" prior to ejaculation. Pay attention to this sensation before ejaculation. So the next time you get this sensation, stop any stroking or thrusting completely. Let the feeling subside first. By doing this, your body will get used to it and the time you take to ejaculate will be longer.

2. Break the boring routine of Christian sex. One common problem faced by married Christian couples is that there is a lack of surprise, change and variety when it comes to sex. Couples tend to stick with a few common positions and techniques, shying away from other variations. When sex becomes too routine, the passion of lovemaking may be lost. One reason that Christian couples shy away from position and technique variations is because they think that those positions and techniques are sinful. However, this is not entirely true. There are tons of other positions and techniques that are allowed within Christianity sex practice - you just need to know what they are.

As a Christian husband, you need to take the initiative to learn more tips and techniques for Christian sexual practices. Only by doing so, you can satisfy your wife during lovemaking and build a stronger bond between the both of you through intimacy.

Need more Christian sexual advice? Check out the link below to find out what every Christian husband should know about sex:

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Christian Husband Sex - Is it Wrong For a Christian Husband to Demand Sex?

By Crid Lee

Christian sexuality and intimacy is a common topic that a lot of Christians talk about. Even for married couples, sometimes Christian sexuality is still a topic that is not widely discussed. There are cases whereby sexual intimacy is greatly missing in Christian marriages - so if that is the case, should a Christian husband demands sex?

Sometimes, Christian husbands do not know how to tell their wives that they need to make love. Remember, Christian intimacy is a wonderful aspect in the religion, and to keep a marriage alive, intimacy is extremely important. So is it wrong for Christian husbands to demand sex from their wives? Let us discuss it here:

1. Understand what sex in Christianity is. The foremost important thing of having sex in a Christian marriage is that, if the wife is not willing to have sex, the Christian husband should not demand it. Therefore, it is completely all right to ask for sex. However, the final decision will still come from your wife.

2. Things that Christian husbands can and should demand. When it comes to asking for intimacy, there are many ways to do it. You should not demand your wife to have sex with you - instead, you should talk to her about problems of intimacy that the both of you are having. The Christian husband should demand his wife to explore the problems and why she is resisting the gift that God has provided for all Christians. By addressing the problems and exploring the beauty of intimacy together, it should bring Christian couples much closer together in the bedroom.

3. Increase the frequency of sex together. A healthy sex life is very important in a marriage. Christian husbands should talk to their wives about having a healthy frequency of sex every week. This is to prevent any intimacy problem from happening again, as well as to strengthen the bond between the both of you.

Are you a Christian husband that needs some sexual advice on lovemaking - so that you can satisfy your wife? Check out the link below now:

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